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Dear Desire is an online adult store promoting sexual wellbeing and pleasure while providing discreet premium packaging. Our aim is to fulfil all your intimate desires all while taking the stigma out of self gratification.

Sexual heath is important for a fulfilling sex life. Your sexual wellbeing should be apart of your health care routine. By practicing safe, healthy sex you will be able to enjoy sex in the way that you deserve. There are many different forms of safe, healthy sex. 

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Condoms

Dear Desire stock a range of condoms. Different sizes, colors, textures and even flavors. Condoms are important for the obvious reasons but ensuring that you are using good quality condoms is always important. 

Lubricants

Lubes are always a good addition to sex. Whether its for solo pleasure, partnered sex or to used alongside your sex toy. Knowing what lube to use is always important. Water-based lubes always work best with silicone sex toys. 

Toy Cleaners

Looking after your sex toys will extend their life span and keep them in good condition for as long as possible. It is also important to keep your sex toys clean to avoid transmission of bacteria and infections, especially if you are sharing your toys with your partners. 

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    Buffel Horing | Erection Booster

    Buffel Horing 15 caps Buffel-Horing Erection Booster – boost your erection to the next level. In just 40 minutes after taking the recommended dosag...

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    ASSEGAI ORIGINAL | WATER-BASED LUBRICANT 125ML

    ASSEGAI ORIGINAL  Assegai Personal Lubricant Original 125ml provides long-lasting personal lubrication that has been specially formulated to enhanc...

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    Manscent 30ml | Poppers

    Manscent 30ml Poppers Man Scent liquid aroma. Extremely popular in European saunas, Man Scent is a pure and powerful brand that is guaranteed to de...

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    ROCK SOLID | ERECTION CREAM 1.5 OZ.

    ROCK SOLID ERECTION CREAM 1.5 OZ. When you want to ROCK all night long… You gotta use something special. Rock Solid liquid cream gives you staying ...

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    The Pink Pill For Women

    The Pink Pill For Women Revive and ignite your passion! Is intimacy the furthest thing from your mind? Finally, women have access to a sexual vita...

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    Stud 100 | Delay Spray

    Stud 100 Delay Spray  STUD 100 Desensitizing Spray for Men has been licensed in the UK since 1972 and is a licensed topical spray. How it works: It...

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    Var. Joyride | Toy & Body Cleaner Spray

    Var. Joyride Toy & Body Cleaner Spray  150ml JOYRIDE Cleaner for Toys & Body is an effective cleaning spray for cleaning your sex toys and ...

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    Fleshlube 100ml | Water-based Lubricant

    Fleshlight Fleshlube  This premium water-based Fleshlube Water lubricant is the perfect complement to sexual activities. Whether its with a Fleshl...

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  • Fleshlight 100ml | Sex Toy Cleaning Wash | Dear Desire
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    Fleshlight 100ml | Sex Toy Cleaning Wash

    Fleshlight Sex Toy Cleaning Wash  100ml  Cleaning your Fleshlight and other sex toys has never been easier than with Fleshwash. For best results, ...

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    ASSEGAI TROPICAL | LUBRICANT 125ML

    ASSEGAI TROPICAL Assegai Tropical Personal Lubricant Original 125ml provides long-lasting personal lubrication that has been specially formulated t...

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  • JoyDivision Aquaglide 200ml | Water-based Lubricant | Dear Desire
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    JoyDivision Aquaglide 200ml | Water-based Lubricant

    JoyDivision Water-based Lubricant  200ml Immerse into an overwhelming feeling during love play: The crystal-clear original AQUAglide is a medical l...

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  • Fleshlight - 118ml | Masturbator Renewing Powder | Dear Desire
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    Fleshlight - 118ml | Masturbator Renewing Powder

    Fleshlight Renewing Powder  118ml Maintaining your Fleshlight has never been easier than with Fleshlight Renewing Powder. With time and repeated u...

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    JoyDivision Aquaglide 50ml | Water-based Lubricant

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  • Malesation Water Glide 50ml | Water-based Lubricant | Dear Desire
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    Malesation Water Glide 50ml | Water-based Lubricant

    Malesation Water-based Lubricant 50ml Malesation water based lubricant is a dermatologically approved, long lasting lubricant that is free from sme...

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    ASSEGAI CHOCOLATE | LUBRICANT 125ml

    ASSEGAI CHOCOLATE  Assegai Chocolate Personal Lubricant Original 125ml provides long-lasting personal lubrication that has been specially formulate...

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  • Pjur Original | Silicone lubricant 100ml | Dear Desire
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    Pjur Original | Silicone lubricant

    Pjur Original Silicone Lubricant 100ml This premium formula is an exceptional personal lubricant and a massage gel. The silicone molecules remain ...

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    Pjur Aqua | Water-based Lubricant

    Pjur Aqua Water-based Lubricant 100ml pjur® AQUA is a water-based personal lubricant for penile and/or vaginal application, intended to moisturize ...

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    Malesation Silicone Glide 50ml | Silicone Lubricant

    Malesation Silicone Lubricant 50ml Exceptionally long prolonged lubricant on silicone base, free from smell and taste-materials, skin-compatibility...

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    DR LONG | CONDOMS

    DR LONG CONDOMS  3 Pack

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    Pjur BACK DOOR | Silicone based lubricant

    Pjur BACK DOOR Silicone- Based Lubricant 100ml Pjur® BACK DOOR Silicone based lubricant is specially formulated for anal sex. The natural jojoba i...

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    Rocky Penis | Enlargement Cream

    Rocky Penis Enlargement Cream Enhance sexual performance and maximize pleasure. BIGGER ! HARDER ! LONGER ! Advantages:•    The tingling sensation e...

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    Andro Vita 2ml | Pheromone for Women

    Andro Vita Pheromone for Women 2ml Ando Vita is a pheromone formula that will enhance your female pheromones and have a magically enchanting effe...

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    PJUR Woman | Silicone Lubricant

    PJUR Woman Personal Silicone Lubricant 100ml is specifically designed to help you feel great and intensify sensation. pjur WOMAN Silicone personal ...

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    Dr Long’s | FXXK Capsules 2’s

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