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Care & Wellbeing

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Dear Desire is an online adult store promoting sexual wellbeing and pleasure while providing discreet premium packaging. Our aim is to fulfil all your intimate desires all while taking the stigma out of self gratification.

Sexual heath is important for a fulfilling sex life. Your sexual wellbeing should be apart of your health care routine. By practicing safe, healthy sex you will be able to enjoy sex in the way that you deserve. There are many different forms of safe, healthy sex. 

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Condoms

Dear Desire stock a range of condoms. Different sizes, colors, textures and even flavors. Condoms are important for the obvious reasons but ensuring that you are using good quality condoms is always important. 

Lubricants

Lubes are always a good addition to sex. Whether its for solo pleasure, partnered sex or to used alongside your sex toy. Knowing what lube to use is always important. Water-based lubes always work best with silicone sex toys. 

Toy Cleaners

Looking after your sex toys will extend their life span and keep them in good condition for as long as possible. It is also important to keep your sex toys clean to avoid transmission of bacteria and infections, especially if you are sharing your toys with your partners. 

  • Fleshlight 100ml | Sex Toy Cleaning Wash | Dear Desire
    Fleshlight 100ml | Sex Toy Cleaning Wash | Dear Desire
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    Fleshlight 100ml | Sex Toy Cleaning Wash

    Fleshlight Sex Toy Cleaning Wash 100ml  Cleaning your Fleshlight and other sex toys has never been easier than with Fleshwash. For best results, f...

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  • Fleshlube 100ml | Water-based Lubricant | Dear Desire
    Fleshlube 100ml | Water-based Lubricant | Dear Desire
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    Fleshlube 100ml | Water-based Lubricant

    Fleshlight Fleshlube Water-based 100ml Lubricant This premium water-based Fleshlube Water lubricant is the perfect complement to sexual activities...

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  • Fleshlight - 118ml | Masturbator Renewing Powder | Dear Desire
    Fleshlight - 118ml | Masturbator Renewing Powder | Dear Desire
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    Fleshlight - 118ml | Masturbator Renewing Powder

    Fleshlight Renewing Powder - 118ml Maintaining your Fleshlight has never been easier than with Fleshlight Renewing Powder. With time and repeated ...

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  • Slick 100ml | Silicone Lubricant | Dear Desire
    Slick 100ml | Silicone Lubricant | Dear Desire
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    Slick 100ml | Silicone Lubricant

    Slick Silicon Lubrication  Slick Lube is a silicon based long lasting, silky-smooth lubricant which is gentle on the skin, silicon toy friendly and...

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  • Manscent 30ml | Poppers | Dear Desire
    Manscent 30ml | Poppers | Dear Desire
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    Manscent 30ml | Poppers

    Manscent 30ml Poppers Man Scent liquid aroma. Extremely popular in European saunas, Man Scent is a pure and powerful brand that is guaranteed to de...

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  • Malesation Water Glide 50ml | Water-based Lubricant | Dear Desire
    Malesation Water Glide 50ml | Water-based Lubricant | Dear Desire
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    Malesation Water Glide 50ml | Water-based Lubricant

    Malesation Water-based 50ml Lubricant Malesation water based lubricant is a dermatologically approved, long lasting lubricant that is free from sme...

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  • Mojo Zero Gravity | Penis Pump | Dear Desire
    Mojo Zero Gravity | Penis Pump | Dear Desire
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    Mojo Zero Gravity | Penis Pump

    Mojo Zero Gravity Penis Pump Looking for a quick erection, extra firmness or a little help with a stubborn penis that wont rise to the task?

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  • Lusty Lady Drops 10ml | Arousal Oil | Dear Desire
    Lusty Lady Drops 10ml | Arousal Oil | Dear Desire
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    Lusty Lady Drops 10ml | Arousal Oil

    Lusty Lady Drops 10ml Made from Pure Jasmine and other secret essential oils. The ultimate arousal oil for the bedroom. Apply two drops to the fron...

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  • Stud 100 | Delay Spray | Dear Desire
    Stud 100 | Delay Spray | Dear Desire
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    Stud 100 | Delay Spray

    Stud 100 Delay Spray  STUD 100 Desensitizing Spray for Men has been licensed in the UK since 1972 and is a licensed topical spray. How it works: It...

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  • Malesation Silicone Glide 50ml | Silicone Lubricant | Dear Desire
    Malesation Silicone Glide 50ml | Silicone Lubricant | Dear Desire
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    Malesation Silicone Glide 50ml | Silicone Lubricant

    Malesation Silicone 50ml Lubricant Exceptionally long prolonged lubricant on silicone base, free from smell and taste-materials, skin-compatibility...

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  • Billy boy 3pc Coloured Condoms | Dear Desire
    Billy boy 3pc Coloured Condoms | Dear Desire
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    Billy boy 3pc Coloured | Condoms

    Billy boy Coloured 3 Piece Condoms 3 x colourful condoms

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  • Bathmate Hydromax7 Penis Pump - Clear | Dear Desire
    Bathmate Hydromax7 Penis Pump - Clear | Dear Desire
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    Bathmate Hydromax7 | Penis Pump

    Bathmate Hydromax7 Clear Penis Pump Colour Clear The Hydromax7 is suitable for users with a current erection length of up to 18cm. The Hydromax7 d...

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  • JoyDivision Clean'N'safe 100ml | Cleaning Spray | Dear Desire
    JoyDivision Clean'N'safe 100ml | Cleaning Spray | Dear Desire
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    JoyDivision Clean'N'safe 100ml | Cleaning Spray

    JoyDivision Clean'N'safe 100ml Cleaning Spray  The Clean'N'safe cleaning, maintenance, and disinfection fluid cleans the things that have to be cle...

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  • PJUR Woman | Silicone Lubricant 100ml | Dear Desire
    PJUR Woman | Silicone Lubricant 100ml | Dear Desire
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    PJUR Woman | Silicone Lubricant

    PJUR Woman Personal Silicone Lubricant 100ml is specifically designed to help you feel great and intensify sensation. pjur WOMAN Silicone personal ...

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  • Pjur BACK DOOR | Silicone based lubricant 100ml | Dear Desire
    Pjur BACK DOOR | Silicone based lubricant 100ml | Dear Desire
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    Pjur BACK DOOR | Silicone based lubricant

    Pjur BACK DOOR Silicone- based lubricant 100ml Pjur® BACK DOOR Silicone based lubricant is specially formulated for anal sex. The natural jojoba in...

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    Billy boy 3pc Contoured | Condoms

    Billy boy Contoured 3 Piece Condoms 3 x colourful condoms

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  • Var. Hot XXL Creme For Men - 50ml | Dear Desire
    Var. Hot XXL Creme For Men - 50ml | Dear Desire
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    Var. Hot XXL Creme For Men - 50ml

    Var. Hot XXL Creme For Men - 50ml The XXL penis enlargement cream helps you achieve better and long-lasting erections. You need not think about pre...

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  • Pjur Superhero Spray - 20ml
    Pjur Superhero Spray - 20ml
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    Pjur Superhero Spray | Performance Spray

    Pjur Superhero Spray - 20ml Delay spray for men, without lidocaine or benzocaine! The active ingredients are absorbed by the top layer of skin and ...

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  • Pjur Power Premium Cream - 150ml | Dear Desire
    Pjur Power Premium Cream - 150ml | Dear Desire
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    Pjur | Power Premium Cream

    Pjur Power Premium Cream - 150ml Personal lubricant for extra hard sex. This is one of our most effective personal lubricants; also suitable for fi...

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  • Pjur Med Pro-Long Spray - 20ml | Dear Desire
    Pjur Med Pro-Long Spray - 20ml | Dear Desire
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    Pjur Med | Pro-Long Spray

    Pjur Med Pro-Long Spray - 20ml Pjur med PRO-LONG spray with oakbark extract for external use on the penis. The active ingredient tannic acid derive...

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  • Anal Please | Dear Desire
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    AnalPlease Desensitizer Cream | Peach Flavor 1.5 Oz

    AnalPlease Desensitizer Cream Peach Flavor 1.5 Oz Peach flavored anal de-sensitizing cream. Contains 1.5 Oz tube

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  • Pjur Superhero Serum | Lubricant 20ml | Dear Desire
    Pjur Superhero Serum | Lubricant 20ml | Dear Desire
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    Pjur Superhero Serum | Lubricant

    Pjur Superhero Serum Lubricant 20ml DELAY SERUM - The delay spray (20ml) forms an invisible, desensitizing film that can reduce sensitivity without...

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  • Lelo Hex 3 Pack | Condoms | Dear Desire
    Lelo Hex 3 Pack | Condoms | Dear Desire
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    Lelo Hex 3 Pack | Condoms

    Lelo Hex 3 Pack Condoms LELO HEX™ is a condom so thin it brings you sublime sensation and impeccable fit. Its famous hexagonal structure, textured ...

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  • Pjur We-Vibe Cleaner Spray 100ml | Toy Cleaning Spray | Dear Desire
    Pjur We-Vibe Cleaner Spray 100ml | Toy Cleaning Spray | Dear Desire
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    Pjur We-Vibe | Toy Cleaning Spray

    Pjur We-Vibe Cleaner Spray - 100ml We-Vibe Cleaner made by Pjur is an alcohol and perfume free cleaning spray.

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