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It's a brave new world out there in the male masturbator market.

Not all penises are created equal, and second, why can’t people with a penis get a little creative, as well. When it comes to the best sex toys for men, the first step is getting past whatever's kept you from using a masturbator alone or with a partner.

A Masturbator Sleeve is essentially a place that you slip your penis into, Yes a place of getting plain-old handsy and getting those erogenous zones all fired up, a male masturbator is a man’s best bet at replicating the feeling of penetration in just his own company.

So the next time you could use a little self-love, give your hands a break and your body a whole new silicone sensation.

Different types of Masturbators

  • Hand-held masturbators
  • Hands-free masturbators
  • Vibrating masturbators
  • Sex doll masturbators
  • Real-feel vagina masturbators
  • Stamina training masturbators

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Toy Lubes

Lubes are a very important part of sex play. Have a look at our selection of water based lubricants here  the more lube, the better, to make sure everyone is comfortable.

There are different types of lubricants to suit different needs. It’s totally normal if you favor one over the rest, or if you like to switch things up depending on the situation. Whether you’re a first-time buyer or looking to expand your lubricant collection, there’s one out there for you, guaranteed.

How To Clean Your Masturbators

Raise your hand if you’ve ever tossed a sex toy back into your goodie drawer after a job well done so you could roll over and enjoy the afterglow. It’s a good idea to clean any sex toy you’ve used right after you’ve used it.

Disinfecting and properly storing your sex accessories may be the last thing on your mind after using it.

Different materials require different care. it is always a good idea to also refer to your toy’s manual, if possible, to learn the best way to clean it.

  • Cleaning your toys removes material from the surface.
  • Disinfecting, or sanitizing, your toys destroys bacteria and certain pathogens to make something hygienic.
  • Sterilizing your toys kills absolutely all bacteria, viruses, and fungi.

When buying your Masturbators sex toy it is always a good idea to buy some cleaning products to help the cleaning process, Have a look at the toy cleaners we have in stock 

Shop for Toys discreetly and securely Online at Dear Desire

Online shopping is convenient and enjoyable. Don’t worry if you are new to the online shopping experience. Everyone has to start somewhere! Find the products you want, click “buy now” and then checkout using the “checkout” button in your shopping cart once you are ready. Proceed with payment, sit back and relax. We take care of the rest.

We can assure you that every package is treated with the same high level of confidentiality and discretion. Every package is well-wrapped and there is no indication on the outside of where it comes from or what the contents are.

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