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Bondage accessories are tools used to explore restraint, power play, and heightened sensation in a consensual and controlled way. From cuffs, ropes, and blindfolds to paddles and collars, these items add an exciting edge to intimacy. Perfect for beginners or experienced kinksters looking to spice things up.

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  • body-safe adjustable clamps designed for gentle to intense nipple and clitoral play
    Steamy Shades Adjustable Nipple Clit Clamps - versatile clamps with adjustable tension for nipple and clitoral stimulation
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    Steamy Shades Nipple Clit Clamps - Adjustable

    R 513.00 - R 513.00
    R 513.00
    R 513.00 - R 513.00
    R 513.00

    Steamy Shades Adjustable Nipple Clit Clamps The Steamy Shades Adjustable Nipple Clit Clamps is a body chain with attached nipple and clit clamps, p...

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    R 513.00 - R 513.00
    R 513.00
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    R 513.00
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  • Close-up of Lux Fetish black breathable ball gag with air holes for safe restraint play
    Close-up of Lux Fetish black breathable ball gag with air holes for safe restraint play

    Lux Fetish Ball Gag - Comfortable

    R 653.00 - R 653.00
    R 653.00
    R 653.00 - R 653.00
    R 653.00

    Lux Fetish Breathable Ball Gag Lux Fetish Breathable Ball Gag is perfect for sensual play and and role-playing for all levels of kinky play. The ho...

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    R 653.00 - R 653.00
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    R 653.00
  • durable leather strap-on harness with multiple adjustment points for a custom fit
    Lux Fetish Leather Strap-On Harness - adjustable, premium leather harness for secure and comfortable wear

    Lux Fetish Strap-On Harness - Adjustable Straps

    R 1,019.00 - R 1,019.00
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    Lux Fetish Pretty In Pink Strap On The Lux Fetish Leather Strap-On Harness combines style, comfort, and durability in a premium accessory designed ...

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    R 1,019.00 - R 1,019.00
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    R 1,019.00
  • rechargeable nipple stimulator designed for teasing and pleasure
    Fifty Shades Weekend Sweet Tease – compact nipple stimulator with gentle suction and adjustable intensity

    Fifty Shades Nipple Stimulator - Battery Operated

    R 620.00 - R 620.00
    R 620.00
    R 620.00 - R 620.00
    R 620.00

    Fifty Shades Weekend Sweet Tease Nipple Stimulator Gentle sensation becomes body-trembling titillation with Weekend Sweet Tease Nipple Stimulator, ...

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    R 620.00 - R 620.00
    R 620.00
    R 620.00 - R 620.00
    R 620.00
  • durable leather strap-on harness with multiple adjustment points for a custom fit
    Lux Fetish Leather Strap-On Harness - adjustable, premium leather harness for secure and comfortable wear
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    Lux Fetish Strap-On Harness - Leather

    R 1,563.00 - R 1,563.00
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    R 1,563.00 - R 1,563.00
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    Lux Fetish Leather Strap-On Harness in the Colour Black The Lux Fetish Leather Strap-On Harness combines style, comfort, and durability in a premiu...

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    R 1,563.00 - R 1,563.00
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  • durable bondage set featuring cross straps and easy-to-use metal clasp hooks
    Clasp Hooks Cross Strap Bondage Set – adjustable straps with secure clasp hooks for versatile restraint

    Clasp Hooks Bondage Set

    R 414.00 - R 414.00
    R 414.00
    R 414.00 - R 414.00
    R 414.00

    Clasp Hook Cross Strap   Indulge in pure seduction with this Clasp Hook Cross Strap Bondage Set. Live out your inner Christian Grey and Anastasia S...

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    R 414.00 - R 414.00
    R 414.00
    R 414.00 - R 414.00
    R 414.00
  • Steamy Shades Classic Harness packaing
    Steamy Shades Classic Harness in black with adjustable straps and metal O-ring at the center

    Steamy Shades Bondage Harness - Adjustable Straps

    R 1,467.00 - R 1,467.00
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    R 1,467.00 - R 1,467.00
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    Steamy Shades Classic Harness Steamy Shades Classic Harness with adjustable straps, suitable for a variety of different hip widths, unisex, perfe...

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    R 1,467.00 - R 1,467.00
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    R 1,467.00
  • Steamy Shades soft-touch bondage rope for comfortable, secure restraint during play
    Steamy Shades soft bondage rope in black, ideal for beginners and advanced restraint play

    Steamy Shades Bondage Rope - 2m

    R 293.00 - R 293.00
    R 293.00
    R 293.00 - R 293.00
    R 293.00

    Steamy Shades Rope The Steamy Shades Rope is a soft, stylish bondage rope designed for comfortable and secure restraint play. Perfect for beginners...

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    R 293.00 - R 293.00
    R 293.00
    R 293.00 - R 293.00
    R 293.00
  • Complete Lux Fetish under-the-bed restraint set with wrist and ankle cuffs
    Lux Fetish Bed Spreader restraint system with adjustable cuffs for full-body bondage play

    Lux Fetish Bed Spreader - Restraint Kit

    R 1,684.00 - R 1,684.00
    R 1,684.00
    R 1,684.00 - R 1,684.00
    R 1,684.00

    Lux Fetish Bed Spreader Adjustable Bed Spreader Kit with cushioned hand/leg loops for different positions. 100% polyester. Expertly designed for ma...

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    R 1,684.00 - R 1,684.00
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    R 1,684.00
  • Close-up of Adrien Lastic Alive Flogger showing textured handle and silky strands
    Adrien Lastic Alive Flogger with soft, faux leather falls and sturdy handle for impact play

    Adrien Lastic Bondage Flogger - PU Leather

    R 439.00 - R 439.00
    R 439.00
    R 439.00 - R 439.00
    R 439.00

    Adrien Lastic Alive Flogger in the Colour Black Any self-respecting BDSM collection has to have a quality flogger. And this red Adrien Lastic Alive...

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    R 439.00 - R 439.00
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    R 439.00
  • door swing harness for adventurous couples play and comfortable positioning
    Steamy Shades Door Swing -adjustable bondage swing for door-mounted restraint and support
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    Steamy Shades Door Swing - Sturdy

    R 1,299.00
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    R 925.00
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    Steamy Shades Door Swing This Steamy Shades door swing hangs securely over any standard door. Sturdy Perspex inserts keep the swing in place over a...

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    R 1,299.00
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  • beginner-friendly spanking paddle with smooth, durable design
    Fifty Shades Bound to You Small Paddle - compact BDSM paddle with soft faux leather surface and sturdy handle

    Fifty Shades Small Spanking Paddle - Leather

    R 756.00 - R 756.00
    R 756.00
    R 756.00 - R 756.00
    R 756.00

    Fifty Shades Bound to You Small Paddle Express a dominant persona with this sophisticated BDSM/ Bondage spanking paddle. It's silky silver satin on...

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    R 756.00 - R 756.00
    R 756.00
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    R 756.00

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