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Set the Mood | Dear Desire | Online Adult Store | South Africa

Set the Mood

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Dear Desire is an online adult store promoting sexual wellbeing and pleasure while providing discreet premium packaging. Our aim is to fulfil all your intimate desires all while taking the stigma out of self gratification.

Foreplay plays a big role in setting the mood. Whether its drawing a romantic bubble bath, lighting some candles or giving your partner a massage, these things all set the tone and mood for your foreplay. 

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Candles

Candles are a simple way to set the mood. Whether on their own with a bottle of wine or a bubble bath. 

Massage Oils 

Set the mood by surprising your lover with a romantic massage. Light some candles, dim the lights and let the oils slip between bodies as you begin foreplay. 

 

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    Rush 30ml | Poppers

    Rush 30ml Poppers Rush liquid aroma. Extremely popular in European saunas, Rush is a pure and powerful brand that is guaranteed to deliver a breath...

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  • Manscent 30ml | Poppers | Dear Desire
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    Manscent 30ml | Poppers

    Manscent 30ml Poppers Man Scent liquid aroma. Extremely popular in European saunas, Man Scent is a pure and powerful brand that is guaranteed to de...

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    Fifty Shades Weekend Nothing But Sensation | Nipple Suction Cups

    Fifty Shades Weekend Nothing But Sensation  Enhance after-dark experiences and discover the arousal-boosting intensity of a little subtle suction w...

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  • Love Oil Gold 100ml | Massage Oil | Dear Desire
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    Love Oil Gold 100ml | Massage Oil

    Love Oil Gold Massage Oil 100ml Love Massage oil is a glorious combination of essential oils including ylang ylang for the most sensual, aromatic ...

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    Andro Vita 2ml | Pheromone for Women

    Andro Vita Pheromone for Women 2ml Ando Vita is a pheromone formula that will enhance your female pheromones and have a magically enchanting effe...

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    Andro Vita 2ml | Pheromone For Men

    Andro Vita Pheromone For Men 2ml Ando Vita is a pheromone formula that will enhance your male pheromones and have a magically enchanting effect o...

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  • Love Oil Blue 100ml | Massage Oil | Dear Desire
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    Love Oil Blue 100ml | Massage Oil

    Love Oil Blue Massage Oil 100ml Love Massage oil is a glorious combination of essential oils including ylang ylang for the most sensual, aromatic ...

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  • Love Oil Pink | Massage Oil 200ml | Dear Desire
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    Love Oil Pink | Massage Oil 200ml

    Love Oil Pink Massage Oil 200ml A glorious combination of essential oils including ylang ylang for the most sensual, aromatic and relaxing massage ...

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  • Hustler Vibrating Panties - Black | Dear Desire
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    Hustler | Vibrating Panties

    Hustler Vibrating Panties Colour Black Seductive lace thong with vibrating bullet. This sexy thong is made of 90% polyester/10% elastane, soft and ...

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    Xxdreamstoys Love | Bondage Handcuffs

    Xxdreamstoys Fluffy Love Bondage Handcuffs  Colour Black Fluffy metal handcuffs with detachable plush covers. These bondage handcuffs could be used...

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    Xxdreamstoys Love | Bondage Handcuffs

    Xxdreamstoys Fluffy Love Bondage Handcuffs  Colour Pink Fluffy metal handcuffs with detachable plush covers. These bondage handcuffs could be used ...

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  • Pjur Superhero Spray - 20ml
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    Pjur Superhero Spray | Performance Spray

    Pjur Superhero Spray  20ml Delay spray for men, without lidocaine or benzocaine! The active ingredients are absorbed by the top layer of skin and c...

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  • Pjur Med Pro-Long Spray - 20ml | Dear Desire
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    Pjur Med | Pro-Long Spray

    Pjur Med Pro-Long Spray  20ml Pjur med PRO-LONG spray with oakbark extract for external use on the penis. The active ingredient tannic acid derived...

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  • Xxdreamstoys Love | Bondage Handcuffs | Leapord | Dear Desire
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    Xxdreamstoys Love | Bondage Handcuffs

    Xxdreamstoys Fluffy Love Bondage Handcuffs  Colour Leapord Fluffy metal handcuffs with detachable plush covers. These bondage handcuffs could be us...

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  • Lelo | Personal Moisturizer | Dear Desire
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    Lelo | Personal Moisturizer

    Lelo Personal Water-based Moisturizer 75ml This dual-purpose, water-based moisturizer is perfect for use with your pleasure products, your partner...

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  • Shunga Divine | Oral Pleasure Gloss | Dear Desire
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    Shunga Divine | Oral Pleasure Gloss

    Shunga 3-in-1 Divine Oral Pleasure Gloss  Strawberry Wine Intensifies oral pleasure Increases sensitivity to the intimate areas 3-in-1 warming, coo...

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  • Var. Hot XXL Creme For Men - 50ml | Dear Desire
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    Var. Hot XXL Creme For Men | Penis Enlargement Cream

    Var. Hot XXL Creme For Men  50ml The XXL penis enlargement cream helps you achieve better and long-lasting erections. You need not think about prem...

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  • Shunga | Chocolate Body Paint | Dear Desire
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    Shunga | Chocolate Body Paint

    Shunga Chocolate Body Paint  100ml Tease your partner with the Shunga Chocolate Body Paint. Edible chocolate body paint with paintbrush

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    Xxdreamstoys | Needle Wheel Rookie

    Xxdreamstoys | Needle Wheel Rookie ROOKIE Needle Wheel ergonomic design Needle Wheel of metal alloy Teases. torments and drives people crazy Create...

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    AnalPlease Peach Flavor | Desensitizer Cream

    AnalPlease Desensitizer Cream  Peach flavored anal de-sensitizing cream. Contains 1.5 Oz tube

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  • Bijoux Happily Ever After Sexy Bondage Gift Set - Red | Dear Desire
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    Bijoux Happily Ever After | Bondage Gift Set

    Bijoux Happily Ever After Gift Set  Colour Red The perfect gift for that 'something new' that wishes a very happy start.  Gift Set Includes: Satin...

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    Xxdreamstoys Love | Bondage Handcuffs

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  • Shunga | Vanilla Chocolate Body Paint | Dear Desire
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    Shunga | Vanilla Chocolate Body Paint

    Shunga Chocolate Body Paint Vanilla Chocolate 100ml  Tease your partner with the Shunga Chocolate Body Paint. Edible chocolate body paint with pain...

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  • Fifty Shades Play Nice Vanilla 90ml | Massage Oil | Dear Desire
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    Fifty Shades Play Nice Vanilla 90ml | Massage Oil

    Fifty Shades Play Nice Vanilla Scented Massage Oil 90ml Set the mood with the Fifty Shades Play Nice Vanilla Scented Massage Oil. The sensual vanil...

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