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Immerse yourself in the world of anal play. We offer a range of dildos. Whether you're looking for an ultra realistic, veiny dildo or a simple less intimidating dildo, we're bound to have what you're looking for. 

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Dildo Play

A dildo does not need to have veins, a pronounced head, or balls. There are endless options that aren’t shaped to look like a biological real penis. Think of dildos as a blank canvas upon which to explore all your sex toy dreams. Whether you're a certified dildo enthusiast or on the brink of buying your very first one.

There are probably a billion different types of dildos on the market and just as many reasons someone might want to buy and use one.

Different Types Of Dildos Toys

  • Vibrating Dildos
  • Classic Dildos
  • Realistic Dildos
  • Strap on Dildos
  • Glass Dildos
  • Suction Cup Dildos
  • Double ended Dildos
  • Dongs
  • Hands free

Dildo Sex Toy Lubes

Lubes are a very important part of Dildo play. Have a look at our selection of water based lubricants here  the more lube, the better, to make sure everyone is comfortable

There are different types of lubricants to suit different needs. It’s totally normal if you favor one over the rest, or if you like to switch things up depending on the situation. Whether you’re a first-time buyer or looking to expand your lubricant collection, there’s one out there for you, guaranteed.

How To Clean Your Dildo Toys

Raise your hand if you’ve ever tossed a sex toy back into your goodie drawer after a job well done so you could roll over and enjoy the afterglow. It’s a good idea to clean any anal toy you’ve used right after you’ve used it.

Disinfecting and properly storing your sex accessories may be the last thing on your mind after using it.

Different materials require different care. It is always a good idea to also refer to your toy’s manual, if possible, to learn the best way to clean it.

  • Cleaning your toys removes material from the surface.
  • Disinfecting, or sanitizing, your toys destroys bacteria and certain pathogens to make something hygienic.
  • Sterilizing your toys kills absolutely all bacteria, viruses, and fungi.

When buying your Dildo sex toy it is always a good idea to buy some cleaning products to help the cleaning process, Have a look at the toy cleaners we have in stock 

Shop for Toys discreetly and securely Online at Dear Desire

Online shopping is convenient and enjoyable. Don’t worry if you are new to the online shopping experience. Everyone has to start somewhere! Find the products you want, click “buy now” and then checkout using the “checkout” button in your shopping cart once you are ready. Proceed with payment, sit back and relax. We take care of the rest.

We can assure you that every package is treated with the same high level of confidentiality and discretion. Every package is well-wrapped and there is no indication on the outside of where it comes from or what the contents are.

  • Everlasting Dong Hollow Strap-On Dildo - Black | Dear Desire
    Everlasting Dong Hollow Strap-On Dildo - Black | Dear Desire
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    Everlasting Dong Hollow | Strap-On Dildo

    Everlasting Dong Hollow Strap-On Dildo in the Colour Black Colour Black Now you can always be in control with the Everlasting Strap-On Dildos and b...

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  • Swan Addiction Tino 5.25'' | Realistic Dildo | Dear Desire
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    Swan Addiction Tino 5.25'' | Realistic Dildo

    Swan Addiction 5.25'' Tino Dildo in the Colour Flesh It is true what they say fun really does come in all sizes! With this in mind, BMS Factory is ...

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    Oxballs Muscle Smooth Cocksheath Length Insert | Penis Sleeve | Dear Desire
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    Oxballs Muscle Smooth Cocksheath | Penis Sleeve

    Oxballs Muscle Smooth Cocksheath Length Insert in the Colour Smoke Oxballs MUSCLE cocksheath is an incredible balance of stretch, firmness and fit....

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    So Real 9 Inch Veiny Dong | Dildo

    So Real 9 Inch Veiny Dong Dildo in the Colour Black A totally realistic 9 inch dong with the look and feel of skin. A thick and very veiny shaft, s...

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    Invisible Hunter Dong | Strap-On Dildo

    Invisible Hunter Dong Strap-On Dildo with Harness The Invisible Hunter Dong Strap-On Dildos has transparent penis-shaped Dildo which is 20cm long ...

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    Swan Addiction Cocktails Cosmo | Suction Cup Dildo | Dear Desire
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    Swan Addiction Cocktails Cosmo | Suction Cup Dildo

    Swan Addiction Cocktails - Purple Cosmo COCKTAILS by Addiction are 100% silicone as well as phthalate and latex free, making it super easy to clean...

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    Classic Realistic Vibrating Silicone Dildo - Black | Dear Desire
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    Classic Realistic | Vibrating Silicone Dildo

    Classic Realistic Vibrating Silicone Dildo in the Colour Black Feel new heights of pleasure with the Silicone Classic Black Realistic Dildo Vibrato...

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    Malesation Barny 12cm | Dildo | Dear Desire
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    Malesation Barny 12cm | Dildo

    Malesation Barny 12cm Dildo in the Color Red Colour Red The Malesation barny dildo is highly imaginative and is ergonomic in design with a suction ...

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    Malesation Boyfriend | Strap-On Dildo

    Malesation Boyfriend Extreme penetration! Penis prosthesis (hollow) made of PVC, inner length for your penis: approx. 15.50 cm, max.

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    Swan Addiction Brad - 7.5" | Realistic Dildo  | Dear Desire
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    Swan Addiction Brad - 7.5" | Realistic Dildo

    Swan Addiction Brad - 7.5" Dildo in the Colour Flesh If you like a smooth dildo with balls, that are especially realistic look no further than Brad...

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    Fun Factory Mr Boss | Vibrating Dildo

    Fun Factory Mr Boss in the Colour Black Mr Boss' realistic shape offers seriously strong vibration that's comparable to a favorite rechargeable toy...

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    Icicles No. 62 | Clear Glass Dildo | Dear Desire
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    Icicles No. 62 | Clear Glass Dildo

    Icicles No. 62 Clear Glass Dildo This luxurious glass massager features a tapered tip to ease insertion and a pronounced head that hits all the rig...

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    Swan Addiction Cocktails | Suction-Cup Dildo

    Swan Addiction Cocktails Dildo COCKTAILS by Addiction are 100% silicone as well as phthalate and latex free, making it super easy to clean. Stick i...

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    G-Girl Style 7 inch | Vibrating Dildo

    G-Girl Style 7 inch Vibrating Dong in the Colour Flesh G Girl Style 7 “ – Realistic vibrator in skin color with testicles and strong suction cup ba...

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    The Real One Penis Dildo 10" | Suction-Cup Dildo

    The Real One Penis Suction Cup Dildo 10" in the Colour Flesh Skin coloured penis dildo with suction cup, material: PVC

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  • Malesation Olly Small Red | Dildo | Dear Desire
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    Malesation Olly Small Red | Dildo

    Malesation Olly Dildo Size Small in the Colour Red Dildo with a smooth and silky surface with suction cup made of silicone. Total length: approx. 1...

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    Malesation Billy Black | Dildo | Dear Desire
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    Malesation Billy | Dildo

    Malesation Billy Dildo in the Colour Black Dildo in highly imaginative and ergonomic design with suction cup made of silicone. Soft, odorless, dura...

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    Fleshjack Boys Milan Christopher | Dildo | Dear Desire
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    Fleshjack Boys Milan Christopher | Dildo

    Fleshjack Boys - Milan Christopher Dildo After his Paper Magazine spread in 2017, it is no secret that Milan is sporting a massive penis! Lucky for...

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    Fleshjack Boys Allen King | Dildo | Dear Desire
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    Fleshjack Boys Allen King | Dildo

    Fleshjack Boys Allen King Dildo One of the hottest star's in the adult industry - Allen King's life like molded dildo curves in all the right spots...

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    King Cock Strap-On Harness with 6 Inch Cock | Strap-On Dildos | Dear Desire
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    King Cock Strap-On Harness with 6 Inch Cock | Strap-On Dildo

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    Deep In 6,5 inch Dong | Dildo

    Deep In 6,5 inch Dong Dildo in the Colour Flesh  Realistic, flesh-like, veiny dildo. 

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    Magic Flesh | Strap-On Dildo

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    Mojo Throttle Vibrating | Strap-On Dildo

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    So Real 13 inch Double Dong | Dildo

    13 inch Double Dong Dildo  The ultra realistic looking and feeling skin material with veiny fleshlike details will result in a totally satisfying e...

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