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Immerse yourself in the world of anal play. We offer a range of dildos. Whether you're looking for an ultra realistic, veiny dildo or a simple less intimidating dildo, we're bound to have what you're looking for. 

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Dildo Play

A dildo does not need to have veins, a pronounced head, or balls. There are endless options that aren’t shaped to look like a biological real penis. Think of dildos as a blank canvas upon which to explore all your sex toy dreams. Whether you're a certified dildo enthusiast or on the brink of buying your very first one.

There are probably a billion different types of dildos on the market and just as many reasons someone might want to buy and use one.

Different Types Of Dildos Toys

  • Vibrating Dildos
  • Classic Dildos
  • Realistic Dildos
  • Strap on Dildos
  • Glass Dildos
  • Suction Cup Dildos
  • Double ended Dildos
  • Dongs
  • Hands free

Dildo Sex Toy Lubes

Lubes are a very important part of Dildo play. Have a look at our selection of water based lubricants here  the more lube, the better, to make sure everyone is comfortable

There are different types of lubricants to suit different needs. It’s totally normal if you favor one over the rest, or if you like to switch things up depending on the situation. Whether you’re a first-time buyer or looking to expand your lubricant collection, there’s one out there for you, guaranteed.

How To Clean Your Dildo Toys

Raise your hand if you’ve ever tossed a sex toy back into your goodie drawer after a job well done so you could roll over and enjoy the afterglow. It’s a good idea to clean any anal toy you’ve used right after you’ve used it.

Disinfecting and properly storing your sex accessories may be the last thing on your mind after using it.

Different materials require different care. It is always a good idea to also refer to your toy’s manual, if possible, to learn the best way to clean it.

  • Cleaning your toys removes material from the surface.
  • Disinfecting, or sanitizing, your toys destroys bacteria and certain pathogens to make something hygienic.
  • Sterilizing your toys kills absolutely all bacteria, viruses, and fungi.

When buying your Dildo sex toy it is always a good idea to buy some cleaning products to help the cleaning process, Have a look at the toy cleaners we have in stock 

Shop for Toys discreetly and securely Online at Dear Desire

Online shopping is convenient and enjoyable. Don’t worry if you are new to the online shopping experience. Everyone has to start somewhere! Find the products you want, click “buy now” and then checkout using the “checkout” button in your shopping cart once you are ready. Proceed with payment, sit back and relax. We take care of the rest.

We can assure you that every package is treated with the same high level of confidentiality and discretion. Every package is well-wrapped and there is no indication on the outside of where it comes from or what the contents are.

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    Adrien Lastic Silexpan | Dear Desire
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    Adrien Lastic Silexpan | Dildo 7 Inch

    Adrien Lastic Silexpan  Colour Caramel The dildo, thanks to its special material Silexpan with thermo-reactive properties, you can heat it Microwav...

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    The Real One Penis Dildo 10" | Dildo | Dear Desire
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    The Real One Penis Dildo 10" | Suction-Cup Dildo

    The Real One Penis Suction Cup Dildo 10" Colour Flesh Skin coloured penis dildo with suction cup, material: PVC

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    Swan Addiction Brad - 7.5" | Realistic Dildo  | Dear Desire
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    Swan Addiction Brad - 7.5" | Realistic Dildo

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    Swan Addiction Tino 5.25'' | Realistic Dildo

    Swan Addiction 5.25'' Tino Dildo Colour Flesh It is true what they say fun really does come in all sizes! With this in mind, BMS Factory is welcomi...

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    Oxballs Muscle Smooth Cocksheath | Penis Sleeve

    Oxballs Muscle Smooth Cocksheath Length Insert  Colour Smoke Oxballs MUSCLE cocksheath is an incredible balance of stretch, firmness and fit. The e...

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    Malesation Barny 12cm | Dildo

    Malesation Barny 12cm Dildo  Colour Red The Malesation barny dildo is highly imaginative and is ergonomic in design with a suction cup made of sili...

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    Swan Addiction Cocktails | Suction-Cup Dildo

    Swan Addiction Cocktails Dildo COCKTAILS by Addiction are 100% silicone as well as phthalate and latex free, making it super easy to clean. Stick i...

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    LUXY 8 INCH CLEAR DONG | Dildo

    LUXY 8 INCH CLEAR DONG This realistic dildo is really splendorous guy! – perfect for anyone who has been longing for sensational orgasms. Clear col...

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    Magic Flesh | Strap-On Dildo

     Magic Flesh Strap-On Dildo Colour Flesh The magic flesh strap on dildo will have you experiencing a new level of pleasure. 

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    Sex Companion Double Silicone Dildo Strap On

    Sex Companion Double Silicone Dildo Strap On The Sex Companion Double Silicone Dildo Strap On provides powerful stimulation and satisfying penetrat...

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    Adrien Lastic Hitsens 2 Vibe | Vibrating Dildo

    Adrien Lastic Hitsens 2 Vibe This dildos is made with from our patented Silexpan, it has a hard inner core with Silexpan filling, giving it that fa...

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    So Real 13 inch Double Dong | Dildo

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    Swan Naked Addiction 9" | Thrusting Vibrator

    Swan Naked Addiction 9" Thrusting Vibrator The Naked Addiction Thrusting dong is a luxury dildo with hyper realistic textures and veins in the mate...

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    Adrien Lastic Silexpan | Dildo 7 Inch

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    Malesation Boyfriend | Strap-On Dildo

    Malesation Boyfriend Extreme penetration! Penis prosthesis (hollow) made of PVC, inner length for your penis: approx. 15.50 cm, max.

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    Fifty Shades Glass Massage Wand Drive Me Crazy | Dildo

    Fifty Shades Glass Massage Wand Drive Me Crazy  Enjoy versatile sensations from each head of this glass dildos double ended design. Temperature res...

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    Fun Factory Boss Stub | Dildo

    Fun Factory Boss Stub The organic, slightly curved shape of this strong sex toy reaches the G-spot or P-spot all on its own. Thanks to the flat fo...

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    Swan Addiction David Bendable 8" | Flesh Dildo

    Swan Addiction David Bendable 8" Colour Flesh  Bend it like Beckham! This premium silicone dong has a silky smooth feel, and holds it's position p...

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    Wooomy | Booom Dildo

    Wooomy Booom Dildo in the Colour Flesh Booom is made of 100% hypoallergenic Jelly, soft and phthalate-free. It is completely waterproof.

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    Wooomy | Blubber Jelly Dildo

    Wooomy Blubber Jelly in the Colour Purple Blubber is a dildo made of 100% hypoallergenic Jelly, soft and phthalate-free. It is completely waterproof.

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    Deep-In Clear Stone 7 inch PVC Dong with Suction Cup

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    Lovehoney Happy Rabbit Vibrating Strap On Harness Set  Colour Purple Strap in to enjoy sensational, shared pleasure with the Happy Rabbit Strap-On ...

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