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Dear Desire is an online adult store promoting sexual wellbeing and pleasure while providing discreet premium packaging. Our aim is to fulfil all your intimate desires all while taking the stigma out of self gratification.

Looking for new ways to improve your sex life? Dear Desire stock a range of better sex products. From Penis Pumps to Pheromones to Massage Oils, you are bound to find something to help. 

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Penis Pumps

A penis pump can be used as a treatment for erectile dysfunction. A penis pump will help you achieve erection and stay hard for longer. It is important to take precautions when using a penis pump as there is a slight risk or damage or side effects when used incorrectly.  But when used correctly, penis pumps can be a life saver in the bedroom. 

Pheromones

Pheromones can play a role in the way you are perceived by the opposite sex. Pheromones are similar to hormones, except instead of working inside the body, they work outside the body and can have an influence on the behavior of other individuals around you. Use pheromones to attract the attention of your lover and spice things up.

Massage Oils 

Set the mood by surprising your lover with a romantic massage. Light some candles, dim the lights and let the oils slip between bodies as you begin foreplay. 

 

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    Buffel Horing | Erection Booster

    Buffel Horing 15 caps Buffel-Horing Erection Booster – boost your erection to the next level. In just 40 minutes after taking the recommended dosag...

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    Rush 30ml | Poppers

    Rush 30ml Poppers Rush liquid aroma. Extremely popular in European saunas, Rush is a pure and powerful brand that is guaranteed to deliver a breath...

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    Manscent 30ml | Poppers

    Manscent 30ml Poppers Man Scent liquid aroma. Extremely popular in European saunas, Man Scent is a pure and powerful brand that is guaranteed to de...

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    ROCK SOLID | ERECTION CREAM 1.5 OZ.

    ROCK SOLID ERECTION CREAM 1.5 OZ. When you want to ROCK all night long… You gotta use something special. Rock Solid liquid cream gives you staying ...

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    The Pink Pill For Women

    The Pink Pill For Women Revive and ignite your passion! Is intimacy the furthest thing from your mind? Finally, women have access to a sexual vita...

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    Stud 100 | Delay Spray

    Stud 100 Delay Spray  STUD 100 Desensitizing Spray for Men has been licensed in the UK since 1972 and is a licensed topical spray. How it works: It...

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    Andro Vita 2ml | Pheromone For Men

    Andro Vita Pheromone For Men 2ml Ando Vita is a pheromone formula that will enhance your male pheromones and have a magically enchanting effect o...

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    Dr Long’s | FXXK Capsules 2’s

    Dr Long’s FXXK Capsules 2’s Boost your performance with Dr Long's FXXK Capsules 2's. These capsules are specially designed to increase energy and s...

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    Andro Vita 2ml | Pheromone for Women

    Andro Vita Pheromone for Women 2ml Andro Vita is a pheromone formula that will enhance your female pheromones and have a magically enchanting eff...

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    Rocky Penis | Enlargement Cream

    Rocky Penis Enlargement Cream Enhance sexual performance and maximize pleasure. BIGGER ! HARDER ! LONGER ! Advantages:•    The tingling sensation e...

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    MOIST HER | CLITORAL STIMULATION CREAM FOR WOMEN 1.5 OZ

    MOIST HER CLITORAL STIMULATION CREAM Formulated in the USA, this unique and potent blend of 100% natural ingredients delivers a luxuriously decaden...

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    Waterglide Natural Intimate Gel 300 ml | Lubricant

    Waterglide Natural Intimate Gel 300 ml Made in Germany 

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    Rocky | Enlargement Tablets 25s

    Rocky Enlargement Tablets  25s THE ROCKY ENLARGEMENT TABLET IS A MARKET LEADING SUPPLEMENT FOR MEN! Pack contains 25 tablets. 1-2 TABLETS A DAY ...

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    Pjur | Power Premium Cream

    Pjur Power Premium Cream  150ml Personal lubricant for extra hard sex. This is one of our most effective personal lubricants; also suitable for fis...

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    Med-E Enlargement | 30 Capsules

    Med-E Enlargement Capsules | 30 Capsules Med-E-Enlarge is helpful to men who suffer from diminished sex drive, early ejaculation, weak or short-ter...

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    Pjur | myspray

    Pjur myspray 20ml  Stimulating intimate spray for women. The active ingredients increase blood circulation in the intimate area and can enhance sen...

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    Malesation | Delay Spray

    Malesation Delay Spray  40ml The Malesation Delay Spray has a subtle numbing effect and can delay ejaculation. This unique spray has refreshing pro...

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    Bathmate Hydromax7 | Penis Pump

    Bathmate Hydromax7  Colour Clear The Hydromax7 is suitable for users with a current erection length of up to 18cm. The Hydromax7 delivers better, s...

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    Dr Longs Chinese Brush

    Dr Longs Chinese Brush Promote a stronger erection and increase sexual confidenceCompletely safe to use and made of herbal ingredients – this produ...

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    Red Dragons | Male Enhancer

    Red Dragons A Natural Male enhancer product that consists on a pack of 4 sealed tablets 300mg. Its a natural male enhancer that enables a solid ere...

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    BIG D | Penis Enlarger Oil 55ml

    BIG D | Penis Enlarger Oil 55ml A 6-week course formulated to attain maximum masculine qualities Directions: SHAKE BOTTLE BEFORE USE. Massage gentl...

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    Waterglide Warming 300 ml | Lubricant

    Waterglide Warming 300 ml  Lubricant and sensation gel for a more intensive feel and sensuality. Made in Germany

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    Var. Hot XXL Creme For Men | Penis Enlargement Cream

    Var. Hot XXL Creme For Men  50ml The XXL penis enlargement cream helps you achieve better and long-lasting erections. You need not think about prem...

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    Pjur Superhero Spray | Performance Spray

    Pjur Superhero Spray  20ml Delay spray for men, without lidocaine or benzocaine! The active ingredients are absorbed by the top layer of skin and c...

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