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Care & Wellbeing

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Dear Desire is an online adult store promoting sexual wellbeing and pleasure while providing discreet premium packaging. Our aim is to fulfil all your intimate desires all while taking the stigma out of self gratification.

Sexual heath is important for a fulfilling sex life. Your sexual wellbeing should be apart of your health care routine. By practicing safe, healthy sex you will be able to enjoy sex in the way that you deserve. There are many different forms of safe, healthy sex. 

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Condoms

Dear Desire stock a range of condoms. Different sizes, colors, textures and even flavors. Condoms are important for the obvious reasons but ensuring that you are using good quality condoms is always important. 

Lubricants

Lubes are always a good addition to sex. Whether its for solo pleasure, partnered sex or to used alongside your sex toy. Knowing what lube to use is always important. Water-based lubes always work best with silicone sex toys. 

Toy Cleaners

Looking after your sex toys will extend their life span and keep them in good condition for as long as possible. It is also important to keep your sex toys clean to avoid transmission of bacteria and infections, especially if you are sharing your toys with your partners. 

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    Var. Hot XXL Creme For Men - 50ml | Dear Desire
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    Var. Hot XXL Creme For Men | Penis Enlargement Cream

    Var. Hot XXL Creme For Men  50ml The XXL penis enlargement cream helps you achieve better and long-lasting erections. You need not think about prem...

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  • JoyDivision Clean'N'safe 100ml | Cleaning Spray | Dear Desire
    JoyDivision Clean'N'safe 100ml | Cleaning Spray | Dear Desire
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    JoyDivision Clean'N'safe 100ml | Cleaning Spray

    JoyDivision Clean'N'safe Cleaning Spray  100ml The Clean'N'safe cleaning, maintenance, and disinfection fluid cleans the things that have to be cle...

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  • PJUR Woman | Silicone Lubricant 100ml | Dear Desire
    PJUR Woman | Silicone Lubricant 100ml | Dear Desire
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    PJUR Woman | Silicone Lubricant

    PJUR Woman Personal Silicone Lubricant 100ml is specifically designed to help you feel great and intensify sensation. pjur WOMAN Silicone personal ...

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  • Med-E Enlargement Capsules | Dear Desire
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    Med-E Enlargement | 30 Capsules

    Med-E Enlargement Capsules | 30 Capsules Med-E-Enlarge is helpful to men who suffer from diminished sex drive, early ejaculation, weak or short-ter...

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  • Mister BIG | Enlarging Cream | Dear Desire
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    Mister BIG | Enlarging Cream

    Mister BIG | Enlarging Cream This penis enlargement cream is not only a brilliant supplement to a penis enlargement pump but when used on its own f...

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  • Lovense | Water-Based Lubricant | Dear Desire
    Lovense | Water-Based Lubricant | Dear Desire
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    Lovense | Water-Based Lubricant

    Lovense Water-Based Lubricant 100ml An essential, silky-smooth addition to any intimate activity! Whether it's sex toy, anal, or vaginal play, Love...

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  • Var. Billy Boy Skyn | Latex Free Condoms | Dear Desire
    Var. Billy Boy Skyn | Latex Free Condoms | Dear Desire
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    Var. Billy Boy Skyn | Latex Free Condoms

    Var. Billy Boy Skyn Latex Free Condoms - 8pcs BILLY BOY SKYN HAUTNAH EXTRA FEUCHT condoms are made of polyisoprene. a material that does not contai...

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  • Billy Boy Skyn Extra Studded | Dear Desire
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    Billy Boy Skyn Extra Studded Latex Free | Condoms

    Billy Boy Skyn Extra Studded Latex Free - 8 Pack Extra Studded Latex Free  8 Pack

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    Warrior | Dear Desire
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    Warrior | Power Cream1.5 OZ

    Warrior Power Cream 1.5 OZ You’ll be a sexual warrior when you use this specially formulated Power Cream. Your lover will yell with delight and pr...

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    Billy boy 3pc Contoured | Condoms

    Billy boy Contoured 3 Piece Condoms 3 x colourful condoms

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  • Pjur Med Pro-Long Spray - 20ml | Dear Desire
    Pjur Med Pro-Long Spray - 20ml | Dear Desire
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    Pjur Med | Pro-Long Spray

    Pjur Med Pro-Long Spray  20ml Pjur med PRO-LONG spray with oakbark extract for external use on the penis. The active ingredient tannic acid derived...

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    AnalPlease Peach Flavor | Desensitizer Cream

    AnalPlease Desensitizer Cream  Peach flavored anal de-sensitizing cream. Contains 1.5 Oz tube

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  • Pjur Superhero Serum | Lubricant 20ml | Dear Desire
    Pjur Superhero Serum | Lubricant 20ml | Dear Desire
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    Pjur Superhero Serum | Lubricant

    Pjur Superhero Serum Lubricant 20ml DELAY SERUM - The delay spray (20ml) forms an invisible, desensitizing film that can reduce sensitivity without...

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  • Lelo Hex 3 Pack | Condoms | Dear Desire
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    Lelo Hex 3 Pack | Condoms

    Lelo Hex 3 Pack Condoms LELO HEX™ is a condom so thin it brings you sublime sensation and impeccable fit. Its famous hexagonal structure, textured ...

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  • Pjur Med Natural Glide 100ml | Water-based Lubricant 100ml | Dear Desire
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    Pjur Med Natural Glide | Water-based Lubricant

    Pjur Med Natural Glide  100ml Pjur med NATURAL glide is specifically formulated for dry skin. The natural and nature-based formula with pure vegeta...

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  • Fun Factory Toyfluid | Water-based Lubricant | Dear Desire
    Fun Factory Toyfluid | Water-based Lubricant | Dear Desire
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    Fun Factory Toyfluid | Water-based Lubricant

    Fun Factory Toyfluid Lubricant 100ml This pleasant water-based lubricant is perfect for silicone toys. It reduces unwanted friction and eases inser...

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  • Bathmate Adult Toy Cleaning Kit | Dear Desire
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    Bathmate | Adult Toy Cleaning Kit

    Bathmate Adult Toy Cleaning Kit The Bathmate Cleaning Kit combines a selection of accessories all making it easier to keep the Bathmate fully clea...

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  • Bathmate Anal Toy Cleaner - 100ml | Dear Desire
    Bathmate Anal Toy Cleaner - 100ml | Dear Desire
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    Bathmate | Anal Toy Cleaner

    Bathmate 100ml Anal Toy Cleaner This handy 100 ml antibacterial cleaner is easy to use, provides total hygiene and is completely skin-safe, with a...

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  • Lelo | Toy Cleaning Spray 60ml | Dear Desire
    Lelo | Toy Cleaning Spray 60ml | Dear Desire
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    Lelo | Toy Cleaning Spray 60ml

    Lelo Toy Cleaning Spray 60ml Fast-acting, alcohol and paraben free - this easy-on spray is the safest and most effective choice for all your sex t...

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  • Bathmate Hydro7 Penis Pump - Blue | Dear Desire
    Bathmate Hydro7 Penis Pump - Blue | Dear Desire
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    Bathmate Hydro7 | Penis Pump

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  • Pjur analyse me | Water-based lubricant 100ml | Dear Desire
    Pjur analyse me | Water-based lubricant 100ml | Dear Desire
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    Pjur analyse me | Water-based lubricant

    Pjur analyse me! Water-based Personal Lubricant 100ml pjur® analyse me! Water-based personal lubricant for anal sex. Enriched with hyaluron that mo...

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