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Lubes are always a good addition to sex. Whether its for solo pleasure, partnered sex or to use alongside your sex toy. Knowing what lube to use is always important. Water-based lubes always work best with silicone sex toys.

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Water-based Lubricants

Water-based lubricant serves the purpose of reducing friction by trying to mimic the bodies natural fluid. Water-based lubricants are best suited for silicone based toys. Water-based lubricants are also best for people with sensitive skin and are easy to clean up.

Silicone-based Lubricants

The biggest upside of silicone-based lubricants is that it is super slippery and long lasting. Silicone-based lubricants are great for shower sex and don't need to be reapplied as frequently. Silicone-based lubricants should not be used with silicone-based sex toys, as they can break down the rubber over time.

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    Assegai | Dear Desire
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    ASSEGAI ORIGINAL | WATER-BASED LUBRICANT 125ML

    ASSEGAI ORIGINAL  Assegai Personal Lubricant Original 125ml provides long-lasting personal lubrication that has been specially formulated to enhanc...

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    Fleshlube 100ml | Water-based Lubricant | Dear Desire
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    Fleshlube 100ml | Water-based Lubricant

    Fleshlight Fleshlube  This premium water-based Fleshlube Water lubricant is the perfect complement to sexual activities. Whether its with a Fleshl...

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    ASSEGAI TROPICAL | LUBRICANT 125ML

    ASSEGAI TROPICAL Assegai Tropical Personal Lubricant Original 125ml provides long-lasting personal lubrication that has been specially formulated t...

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  • JoyDivision Aquaglide 50ml | Water-based Lubricant | Dear Desire
    JoyDivision Aquaglide 50ml | Water-based Lubricant | Dear Desire
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    JoyDivision Aquaglide 50ml | Water-based Lubricant

    JoyDivision Water-based Lubricant  50ml Immerse into an overwhelming feeling during love play: The crystal-clear original AQUAglide is a medical lu...

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  • Malesation Water Glide 50ml | Water-based Lubricant | Dear Desire
    Malesation Water Glide 50ml | Water-based Lubricant | Dear Desire
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    Malesation Water Glide 50ml | Water-based Lubricant

    Malesation Water-based Lubricant 50ml Malesation water based lubricant is a dermatologically approved, long lasting lubricant that is free from sme...

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  • JoyDivision Aquaglide 200ml | Water-based Lubricant | Dear Desire
    JoyDivision Aquaglide 200ml | Water-based Lubricant | Dear Desire
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    JoyDivision Aquaglide 200ml | Water-based Lubricant

    JoyDivision Water-based Lubricant  200ml Immerse into an overwhelming feeling during love play: The crystal-clear original AQUAglide is a medical l...

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    ASSEGAI CHOCOLATE | LUBRICANT 125ml

    ASSEGAI CHOCOLATE  Assegai Chocolate Personal Lubricant Original 125ml provides long-lasting personal lubrication that has been specially formulate...

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  • Pjur Original | Silicone lubricant 100ml | Dear Desire
    Pjur Original | Silicone lubricant 100ml | Dear Desire
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    Pjur Original | Silicone lubricant

    Pjur Original Silicone Lubricant 100ml This premium formula is an exceptional personal lubricant and a massage gel. The silicone molecules remain ...

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  • Malesation Silicone Glide 50ml | Silicone Lubricant | Dear Desire
    Malesation Silicone Glide 50ml | Silicone Lubricant | Dear Desire
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    Malesation Silicone Glide 50ml | Silicone Lubricant

    Malesation Silicone Lubricant 50ml Exceptionally long prolonged lubricant on silicone base, free from smell and taste-materials, skin-compatibility...

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    Pjur Aqua | Water-based Lubricant 100ml | Dear Desire
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    Pjur Aqua | Water-based Lubricant

    Pjur Aqua Water-based Lubricant 100ml pjur® AQUA is a water-based personal lubricant for penile and/or vaginal application, intended to moisturize ...

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    Pjur BACK DOOR | Silicone based lubricant 100ml | Dear Desire
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    Pjur BACK DOOR | Silicone based lubricant

    Pjur BACK DOOR Silicone- Based Lubricant 100ml Pjur® BACK DOOR Silicone based lubricant is specially formulated for anal sex. The natural jojoba i...

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  • Waterglide Natural Intimate Gel 300 ml | Dear Desire
    Waterglide Natural Intimate Gel 300 ml | Dear Desire
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    Waterglide Natural Intimate Gel 300 ml | Lubricant

    Waterglide Natural Intimate Gel 300 ml Made in Germany 

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    Pjur Woman's | Water-based lubricant 100ml | Dear Desire
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    Pjur Woman's | Water-based lubricant

    Pjur Woman's Water-Based Lubricant 100ml Pjur® WOMAN AQUA water-based premium personal lubricant was developed specifically to nourish and moistur...

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  • JoyDivision Aquaglide - Strawberry | Water-based Lubricant | Dear Desire
    JoyDivision Aquaglide - Strawberry | Water-based Lubricant | Dear Desire
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    JoyDivision Aquaglide Strawberry | Water-based Lubricant

    JoyDivision Aquaglide Strawberry 100ml Pleasant in taste and beguiling in fragrance. An exciting connection that invites you to hours of passion. E...

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  • JoyDivision Aquaglide - Cherry | Water-based Lubricant | Dear Desire
    JoyDivision Aquaglide - Cherry | Water-based Lubricant | Dear Desire
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    JoyDivision Aquaglide Cherry | Water-based Lubricant

    JoyDivision Aquaglide Cherry 100ml Pleasant in taste and beguiling in fragrance. An exciting connection that invites hours of passion. Even a small...

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  • PJUR Woman | Silicone Lubricant 100ml | Dear Desire
    PJUR Woman | Silicone Lubricant 100ml | Dear Desire
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    PJUR Woman | Silicone Lubricant

    PJUR Woman Personal Silicone Lubricant 100ml is specifically designed to help you feel great and intensify sensation. pjur WOMAN Silicone personal ...

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  • Pjur Aqua | Water-based Lubricant 30ml | Dear Desire
    Pjur Aqua | Water-based Lubricant 30ml | Dear Desire
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    Pjur Aqua | Water-based Lubricant

    Pjur Aqua Water-based Lubricant 30ml pjur® AQUA is a water-based personal lubricant for penile and/or vaginal application, intended to moisturize ...

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    Pjur Power Premium Cream - 150ml | Dear Desire
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    Pjur | Power Premium Cream

    Pjur Power Premium Cream  150ml Personal lubricant for extra hard sex. This is one of our most effective personal lubricants; also suitable for fis...

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    Pjur Med Sensitive Glide | Lubricant 100ml | Dear Desire
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    Pjur Med Sensitive Glide | Lubricant

    Pjur Med Sensitive Glide Lubricant 100ml pjur® med SENSITIVE glide is made without glycerin, parabens or preservatives for those who have sensitiv...

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  • Waterglide Warming 300 ml | Dear Desire
    Waterglide Warming 300 ml | Dear Desire
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    Waterglide Warming 300 ml | Lubricant

    Waterglide Warming 300 ml  Lubricant and sensation gel for a more intensive feel and sensuality. Made in Germany

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    Waterglide Natural 300 ml | Dear Desire
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    Waterglide Natural 300 ml | Lubricant

    Waterglide Natural 300 ml  Lubricant and sensation gel for a silky soft and natural feeling. Made in Germany

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  • Lelo | Personal Moisturizer | Dear Desire
    Lelo | Personal Moisturizer | Dear Desire
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    Lelo | Personal Moisturizer

    Lelo Personal Water-based Moisturizer 75ml This dual-purpose, water-based moisturizer is perfect for use with your pleasure products, your partner...

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    Waterglide Tingling 300 ml | Dear Desire
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    Waterglide Tingling 300 ml | Lubricant

    Waterglide Tingling 300 ml Lubricant and sensation gel for magical moments together. Made in Germany 

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    Assegai | Dear Desire
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    ASSEGAI SPEARMINT | LUBRICANT 125ml

    ASSEGAI SPEARMINT Assegai Spearmint Personal Lubricant Original 125ml provides long-lasting personal lubrication that has been specially formulated...

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