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Fulfill your desires with a variaty of bondage toys; handcuffs, restraints and whips. Pleasure and punish your partner while reaching new heights of pleasure and climax. 

Dear Desire is an online adult store promoting sexual wellbeing and pleasure while providing discreet premium packaging. Our aim is to fulfil all your intimate desires all while taking the stigma out of self gratification.

  • Fifty Shades Nipple Teasers – subtle suction toys designed to boost nipple sensitivity and heighten pleasure during play.
    Fifty Shades Nothing But Sensation – set of 2 nipple teasers that create gentle suction for enhanced sensitivity and arousal.
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    Fifty Shades Nipple Suction Cups - Set of 2

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    Fifty Shades Weekend Nothing But Sensation  Enhance after-dark experiences and discover the arousal-boosting intensity of a little subtle suction w...

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  • Pleasure Overload Anal Kit – Fifty Shades 4-piece set including anal beads, plug, vibrating plug, and douche for exploration.
    Pleasure Overload Kit – 4-piece anal set with butt plug, anal beads, vibrating plug, and anal douche for beginners.

    Fifty Shades Anal Kit - Set of 4

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    Fifty Shades Pleasure Overload Best-selling pleasure products for couples looking to explore the exciting world of anal play. Fifty Shades Pleasure...

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  • Steamy Shades adjustable alligator nipple clamps with coated tips and metal chain
    Steamy Shades nipple clamps and box shown in a flat lay setup on a neutral background

    Steamy Shades Nipple Clamps - Adjustable

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    Steamy Shades Adjustable Alligator Nipple Clamps Steamy Shades Adjustable Alligator Nipple Clamps adjust easily and have coated tips for comfort, t...

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  • body-safe adjustable clamps designed for gentle to intense nipple and clitoral play
    Steamy Shades Adjustable Nipple Clit Clamps - versatile clamps with adjustable tension for nipple and clitoral stimulation

    Steamy Shades Nipple Clit Clamps - Adjustable

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    Steamy Shades Adjustable Nipple Clit Clamps The Steamy Shades Adjustable Nipple Clit Clamps is a body chain with attached nipple and clit clamps, p...

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  • Xxdreamstoys pink Bondage Handcuffs – adjustable cuffs with detachable fluffy covers for comfortable wrist or ankle restraint.
    Xxdreamstoys Fluffy Love Handcuffs – pink bondage cuffs with plush lining and durable connectors, ideal for light BDSM play.

    Xxdreamstoys Handcuffs - Fluffy Pink

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    Xxdreamstoys Fluffy Love Bondage Handcuffs  Colour Pink Xxdreamstoys Fluffy Love Bondage Handcuffs with detachable plush covers. These bondage hand...

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  • Soft wrist and ankle cuffs shown fastened in a hogtie position with adjustable straps connected.
    Lux Fetish Soft Cuff Bondage Set with cuffs, connectors, and hogtie arrangement displayed flat on a white surface.

    Lux Fetish Soft Cuff Hog-tie Set - 5 Piece

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    Lux Fetish Soft Cuff Bondage Set 5 Piece Explore the pleasure of restraint play with the 5-piece Lux Fetish Soft Cuff Bondage Set that offers maxi...

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  • Adjustable tweezer-style nipple clamp with Y-shaped beaded chain and coated tips for comfort
    Steamy Shades Y-style beaded nipple and clit clamp with silver chain and black coated tips

    Steamy Shades Nipple and Clit Clamps

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    Steamy Shades Y-Style Beaded Nipple Clamp Steamy Shades Y-Style Beaded Nipple Clamp is a beaded body chain with attached nipple and clit clamps, pe...

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  • Xxdreamstoys Fluffy Love Handcuffs – black bondage cuffs with plush lining and durable connectors, ideal for light BDSM play.
    Black Fluffy Love Bondage Handcuffs – soft, padded cuffs with detachable fur covers, suitable for wrists or ankles.

    Xxdreamstoys Handcuffs - Fluffy Black

    R 369.00 - R 369.00
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    Xxdreamstoys Fluffy Love Bondage Handcuffs  Xxdreamstoys Fluffy Love Bondage Handcuffs with detachable plush covers. These bondage handcuffs could ...

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  • Close-up of Lux Fetish black breathable ball gag with air holes for safe restraint play
    Close-up of Lux Fetish black breathable ball gag with air holes for safe restraint play

    Lux Fetish Ball Gag - Comfortable

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    Lux Fetish Breathable Ball Gag Lux Fetish Breathable Ball Gag is perfect for sensual play and and role-playing for all levels of kinky play. The ho...

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  • Steamy Shades inflatable black wedge cushion with soft, non-slip fabric and angled design
    Steamy Shades wedge with travel-friendly packaging in flat lay arrangement

    Steamy Shades Inflatable Cushion

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    Steamy Shades Inflatable Wedge cushion Steamy Shades Inflatable Wedge cushion is soft to the touch and has a easy to clean outer lining. The soft f...

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  • Fluffy Love Handcuffs by Xxdreamstoys – red faux fur bondage cuffs with removable padding, perfect for playful restraint.
    Xxdreamstoys Fluffy Love Bondage Handcuffs in red – soft restraints with detachable plush covers for wrist or ankle use.
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    Xxdreamstoys Handcuffs - Fluffy Red

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    Xxdreamstoys Fluffy Love Bondage Handcuffs  Xxdreamstoys Handcuffs - Fluffy Red with detachable plush covers. These bondage handcuffs could be used...

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  • Xxdreamstoys Fluffy Love Handcuffs in packaging, perfect for romantic surprises and first-time bondage.
    Xxdreamstoys Fluffy Love Handcuffs in faux fur with chain connector, shown in a flat lay on neutral background.

    Xxdreamstoys Handcuffs - Fluffy Leopard Print

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    Xxdreamstoys Fluffy Love Bondage Handcuffs  Colour Leopard Fluffy metal handcuffs with detachable plush covers. These Xxdreamstoys Fluffy Love Bond...

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  • durable leather strap-on harness with multiple adjustment points for a custom fit
    Lux Fetish Leather Strap-On Harness - adjustable, premium leather harness for secure and comfortable wear

    Lux Fetish Strap-On Harness - Adjustable Straps

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    Lux Fetish Pretty In Pink Strap On The Lux Fetish Leather Strap-On Harness combines style, comfort, and durability in a premium accessory designed ...

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  • spiked sensory toy for teasing and light pain play
    Xxdreamstoys Needle Wheel Rookie - beginner-friendly Wartenberg wheel for sensory play

    Xxdreamstoys Needle Wheel Rookie

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    Xxdreamstoys Needle Wheel Rookie Xxdreamstoys Needle Wheel Rookie ergonomic design Needle Wheel of metal alloy Teases. torments and drives people c...

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  • durable leather strap-on harness with multiple adjustment points for a custom fit
    Lux Fetish Leather Strap-On Harness - adjustable, premium leather harness for secure and comfortable wear

    Lux Fetish Strap-On Harness - Leather

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    Lux Fetish Leather Strap-On Harness in the Colour Black The Lux Fetish Leather Strap-On Harness combines style, comfort, and durability in a premiu...

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  • durable bondage set featuring cross straps and easy-to-use metal clasp hooks
    Clasp Hooks Cross Strap Bondage Set – adjustable straps with secure clasp hooks for versatile restraint

    Clasp Hooks Bondage Set

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    Clasp Hook Cross Strap   Indulge in pure seduction with this Clasp Hook Cross Strap Bondage Set. Live out your inner Christian Grey and Anastasia S...

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  • Steamy Shades Classic Harness packaing
    Steamy Shades Classic Harness in black with adjustable straps and metal O-ring at the center

    Steamy Shades Bondage Harness - Adjustable Straps

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    Steamy Shades Classic Harness Steamy Shades Classic Harness with adjustable straps, suitable for a variety of different hip widths, unisex, perfe...

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  • omplete Steamy Shades bondage kit featuring grey-and-black lace items with elegant detailing
    Steamy Shades Positioning Bondage Set with eye mask, satin ties, cuffs, and inflatable wedge laid out

    Steamy Shades Bondage Kit

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    Steamy Shades Positioning Bondage Set Steamy Shades Positioning Bondage Set includes: Eye mask, Satin Ties Bed Restraint Kit, Door Jam Closet Cuffs...

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  • Steamy Shades soft-touch bondage rope for comfortable, secure restraint during play
    Steamy Shades soft bondage rope in black, ideal for beginners and advanced restraint play

    Steamy Shades Bondage Rope - 2m

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    Steamy Shades Rope The Steamy Shades Rope is a soft, stylish bondage rope designed for comfortable and secure restraint play. Perfect for beginners...

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  • Complete Lux Fetish under-the-bed restraint set with wrist and ankle cuffs
    Lux Fetish Bed Spreader restraint system with adjustable cuffs for full-body bondage play

    Lux Fetish Bed Spreader - Restraint Kit

    R 1,684.00 - R 1,684.00
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    Lux Fetish Bed Spreader Adjustable Bed Spreader Kit with cushioned hand/leg loops for different positions. 100% polyester. Expertly designed for ma...

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  • Close-up of Adrien Lastic Alive Flogger showing textured handle and silky strands
    Adrien Lastic Alive Flogger with soft, faux leather falls and sturdy handle for impact play

    Adrien Lastic Bondage Flogger - PU Leather

    R 439.00 - R 439.00
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    Adrien Lastic Alive Flogger in the Colour Black Any self-respecting BDSM collection has to have a quality flogger. And this red Adrien Lastic Alive...

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  • door swing harness for adventurous couples play and comfortable positioning
    Steamy Shades Door Swing -adjustable bondage swing for door-mounted restraint and support
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    Steamy Shades Door Swing - Sturdy

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    Steamy Shades Door Swing This Steamy Shades door swing hangs securely over any standard door. Sturdy Perspex inserts keep the swing in place over a...

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  • beginner-friendly spanking paddle with smooth, durable design
    Fifty Shades Bound to You Small Paddle - compact BDSM paddle with soft faux leather surface and sturdy handle

    Fifty Shades Small Spanking Paddle - Leather

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    Fifty Shades Bound to You Small Paddle Express a dominant persona with this sophisticated BDSM/ Bondage spanking paddle. It's silky silver satin on...

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  • an illustration depicting different ways to use the swing
    JoyDivision Multi Vario Sex Swing with padded, adjustable straps and sturdy metal hooks designed for comfortable erotic suspension play.

    JoyDivision Sex Swing - Comfortable Straps

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    JoyDivision Sex Swing The Original JoyDivision Sex Swing opens up unimagined dimensions of sexual pleasure. Carried by extra soft and comfortably w...

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