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Dear Desire is an online adult sex toy store in South Africa promoting sexual wellbeing and pleasure while providing discreet packaging and delivery. Dear Desire specialize in Vibrators, Dildos, Masturbators, Anal toys, Bondage Toys, Lingerie, Cock Rings, Lubricants, Sex Toy Washes and other Sex Toys. Shop Adult Sex Toys Online at Dear Desire

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You might think “anal play” means sticking stuff up your butt, and while that’s certainly part of it, anal play can encompass many a butt-centric sexual activity, like rimming, or anal massaging.

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It's a brave new world out there in the male masturbator market.

Not all penises are created equal, and second, why can’t people with a penis get a little creative, as well? When it comes to the best sex toys for men, the first step is getting past whatever's kept you from using a male sex toy alone or with a partner.

A Masturbator is essentially a sleeve that you slip your penis into a place of getting plain-old handsy, a male masturbator is a man’s best bet at replicating the feeling of penetration in just his own company.

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Vibrators are a great sex toy for beginners who are looking for new ways to introduce sex toys into the bedroom or for the lovers that love a bit of spice. Vibrators of any shape and size can be used externally on every erogenous zone you can think of.

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Raise your hand if you’ve ever tossed a sex toy back into your goodie drawer after a job well done so you could roll over and enjoy the afterglow. It’s a good idea to clean any vibrator toy you’ve used right after you’ve used it.

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    A dildo does not need to have veins, a pronounced head, or balls. There are endless options that aren’t shaped to look like a biological real penis. Think of dildos as a blank canvas upon which to explore all your sex toy dreams. Whether you're a certified dildo enthusiast or on the brink of buying your very first one.

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    There are probably a billion different types of dildos on the market and just as many reasons someone might want to buy and use one.

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    Lubes are a very important part of Dildo play. Have a look at our selection of water based lubricants here the more lube the better, to make sure everyone is comfortable.

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