- Beginner's Ami 1: 47g and 10.9 cm girth
- Intermediate Ami 2: 78g and 9.9 cm girth
- Advanced Ami 3: 106g and 9.1 cm girth
The Kegel Balls have three progressive weights - from soft weight single ball, to hard and heavy double ball - Ami enhances pelvic fitness, allowing deeper and more intense orgasms alongside a range of health benefits, all at a self-selected pace.
You may view Kegel balls as just a sex toy, but they are so much more than that. Kegel balls, also known as ben wa balls are weighted balls used as a tool to strengthen your pelvic floor muscles. Kegel balls come in many different shapes, sizes, colours, and weights. Some may be smaller and lighter than others that are heavier and larger in size but ultimately, they all perform the same purpose, to strengthen the pelvic floor muscle. Kegel balls are often made from plastic or silicon with a smooth metal surface. Some Kegel balls may vibrate, while others don’t.
Kegel balls have many different health benefits, namely, to help prevent urinary and faecal incontinence as well as to improve stimulation and encourage orgasms during intercourse. Kegel balls have also been known to help combat urinary infections as well as pain during intercourse.
Before attempting to use Kegel balls it is very important to consider the risks and ensure that you are using Kegel balls as advised. A few of the possible risks are as such: tearing, pain or discomfort, overexertion, muscle strain. In order to reduce your risk, you need to make sure, you are using your Kegel balls in the correct way. Start by reading the instructions on the specific product you bought but also research and educate yourself on Kegel balls and the correct way to use them. If you are unsure or have any unanswered questions, you should seek guidance from your doctor. There are a few factors to consider before using Kegel balls.
If you answered yes to any of the above, we advise that you consult with your doctor before proceeding.
Wash your hands and Kegel balls with warm water and soap. Dry your Kegel balls thoroughly. Apply your favourite water-based lubricant.
We recommend PJUR AQUA WATER-BASED LUBRICANT 100ML.
If you are a beginner and you have not yet built up your pelvic floor muscles, we suggest lying on your back with your knees bent upwards to perform your Kegel exercises. This way your muscles do not have to counteract the force of gravity in the way that they do when you are standing up right.
Kegel balls are made up of one or more weighted balls. These weighted balls are often connected by a small string or loop of plastic, always ensure that the last loop is left outside of the vagina when performing your Kegel exercises to ensure that you have an easy way to remove your Kegel balls when you are finished. Start by slowly inserting each ball into your vagina as deep as you are comfortable with. Your Kegel balls should sit just above your muscle, approximately 2cm inside your vagina. Tighten your pelvic floor muscles. Hold and count to 5 seconds. Relax the muscles for a further 5 seconds. Repeat 10 times, 3 times daily. Make sure to keep all other muscles relaxed while you perform these exercises. If you feel comfortable enough you can try sitting up and performing the exercise or even, try walking around with the balls inside of you. If you feel as though they may slip out, gently push them back up inside your vaginal canal.
Lay down on your back with your knees bent upwards. Gently pull on the loop attached to the Kegel balls. Exhale as you slowly pull the balls out. If you struggle to get them out and they feel as though they are lodged deep inside your vagina, squeeze as if you are pushing out a tampon and slowly pull on the loop to remove them comfortably.
It is very important to maintain good hygiene when using any type of sex toy. This is to ensure that you are not transmitting any bacteria and infections between uses or if you are sharing your toys with your partner/s. Wash your Kegel balls with warm water and soap, dry with a towel or linen cloth. Store in a clean place to reduce risk of transmitting bacteria.
The new Pillow Talk Frisky Pleasure Balls form a perfect pair of progressive Kegel balls. They are perfectly weighted to strengthen one's pelvic muscles and increase excitement. These pleasure balls deliver a stimulating rocking motion inspired by one's natural movements.
Fun Factory Smartballs Duo is an easy-to-use Pelvic floor training device that features two velvety soft silicone-covered weighted kegel balls, designed for advanced users. Offering easy vaginal insertion, with female anatomy in mind, Smartballs can barely be felt when worn leading to more sensuous and passionate sexual experiences for women.
Raise your hand if you’ve ever tossed a sex toy back into your goodie drawer after a job well done so you could roll over and enjoy the afterglow. It’s a good idea to clean any sex toy you’ve used right after you’ve used it.
Disinfecting and properly storing your sex accessories may be the last thing on your mind after using it.
Different materials require different care. it is always a good idea to also refer to your toy’s manual, if possible, to learn the best way to clean it.
When buying your sex toy it is always a good idea to buy some cleaning products to help the cleaning process, Have a look at the toy cleaners we have in stock
Lubes are a very important part of having sex. Have a look at our selection of water based lubricants or our Silicone Lubricants.
There are different types of lubricants to suit different needs. It’s totally normal if you favor one over the rest, or if you like to switch things up depending on the situation. Whether you’re a first-time buyer or looking to expand your lubricant collection, there’s one out there for you, guaranteed.
The more lube the better, it make sure everyone is comfortable
Online shopping is convenient and enjoyable. Don’t worry if you are new to the online shopping experience. Everyone has to start somewhere! Find the products you want, click “buy now” and then checkout using the “checkout” button in your shopping cart once you are ready. Proceed with payment, sit back and relax. We take care of the rest.
We can assure you that every package is treated with the same high level of confidentiality and discretion. Every package is well-wrapped and there is no indication on the outside of where it comes from or what the contents are.
We offer free shipping on all orders over R600! All parcels will be delivered fast and discreetly to anywhere in South Africa. If your order is below R600 a delivery fee of R100 will be charged.
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We offer free shipping on all orders over R600! All parcels will be delivered fast and discreetly to anywhere in South Africa.
If your order is below R600 a delivery fee of R100 will be charged.
When will I receive my order?
Deliveries placed before 10am will be delivered within 1 to 2 working days. Applies only to main center's (Cape Town, Durban, Johannesburg, Port Elizabeth, and Pretoria etc.)
If you reside outside of a main center, please allow for 2 to 4 working days for your order to be delivered.
Peak Season (Black Friday/Cyber Monday Week and December/Early January)
Due to these high volumes of freight, parcels might be delayed with both local and regional deliveries to be affected. Delivery timelines will be extended and will look something like this:
OVERNIGHT: ± 3 - 4 working days (MAIN CENTERS as mentioned Above)
ECONOMY:± 5 - 7 working days, excluding the day of collection (Areas outside of Main Centers)
Who will deliver my order?
Courier Guy will delivery your order door to door.
Or it will be delivered to the PostNet of your choice for collection (***this option will take 2 - 4 days ***)
When will my order be packaged?
We package orders Monday to Friday from 8am – 5pm, if you place your order before 11am, your order will be sent out that day and to be expected the following working day, if you reside in one of the main center's. If not, your order should be expected within 2 to 4 working days.
If your order is placed on the weekend or after hours, we will process and dispatch your order the following business day.
Please note the couriers do not deliver on weekends or public holidays.
If you place an order on a Thursday after 11am please allow for extra delivery time as your order will only be dispatched on Friday to be delivered on Monday.
How do I track my order?
You will receive a tracking number via email after your order is placed. You can track your order via the courier company’s site.
Will my package be discreet?
Your package will be 100% discreet with no obvious labelling.
What will my package look like?
Your package will be 100% discreet, packaged in a plain cardboard box with no obvious labelling. You won’t have to worry about anyone knowing what’s inside the box unless you tell them!
What will show up on my bank?
We are one step ahead, as we know to many of you, privacy is super important. On all charges and statements, it will reflect as “HSB Trading (Pty) Ltd”
What will show up on my waybill/shipping label?
Once again, there will be no obvious labelling, on your waybill it will reflect as “HSB Trading (Pty) Ltd”