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Immerse yourself in the world of anal play. We offer a range of dildos. Whether you're looking for an ultra realistic, veiny dildo or a simple less intimidating dildo, we're bound to have what you're looking for. 

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A dildo does not need to have veins, a pronounced head, or balls. There are endless options that aren’t shaped to look like a biological real penis. Think of dildos as a blank canvas upon which to explore all your sex toy dreams. Whether you're a certified dildo enthusiast or on the brink of buying your very first one.

There are probably a billion different types of dildos on the market and just as many reasons someone might want to buy and use one.

Different Types Of Dildos Toys

  • Vibrating Dildos
  • Classic Dildos
  • Realistic Dildos
  • Strap on Dildos
  • Glass Dildos
  • Suction Cup Dildos
  • Double ended Dildos
  • Dongs
  • Hands free

Dildo Sex Toy Lubes

Lubes are a very important part of Dildo play. Have a look at our selection of water based lubricants here  the more lube, the better, to make sure everyone is comfortable

There are different types of lubricants to suit different needs. It’s totally normal if you favor one over the rest, or if you like to switch things up depending on the situation. Whether you’re a first-time buyer or looking to expand your lubricant collection, there’s one out there for you, guaranteed.

How To Clean Your Dildo Toys

Raise your hand if you’ve ever tossed a sex toy back into your goodie drawer after a job well done so you could roll over and enjoy the afterglow. It’s a good idea to clean any anal toy you’ve used right after you’ve used it.

Disinfecting and properly storing your sex accessories may be the last thing on your mind after using it.

Different materials require different care. It is always a good idea to also refer to your toy’s manual, if possible, to learn the best way to clean it.

  • Cleaning your toys removes material from the surface.
  • Disinfecting, or sanitizing, your toys destroys bacteria and certain pathogens to make something hygienic.
  • Sterilizing your toys kills absolutely all bacteria, viruses, and fungi.

When buying your Dildo sex toy it is always a good idea to buy some cleaning products to help the cleaning process, Have a look at the toy cleaners we have in stock 

Shop for Toys discreetly and securely Online at Dear Desire

Online shopping is convenient and enjoyable. Don’t worry if you are new to the online shopping experience. Everyone has to start somewhere! Find the products you want, click “buy now” and then checkout using the “checkout” button in your shopping cart once you are ready. Proceed with payment, sit back and relax. We take care of the rest.

We can assure you that every package is treated with the same high level of confidentiality and discretion. Every package is well-wrapped and there is no indication on the outside of where it comes from or what the contents are.

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