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The guide to choosing your first sex toy: for females.

The guide to choosing your first sex toy: for females.

The guide to choosing your first sex toy: for females.

The guide to choosing your first sex toy: for females.

When choosing your first sex toy, consider your personal preferences and what you hope to get out of the toy. Some things to think about include the type of stimulation you're looking for (such as ...

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FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS: How to navigate your way through casual sex 

FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS: How to navigate your way through casual sex 

I’m sure you’ve heard the term ‘friends with benefits’ or maybe even seen the movie? Does it really work though? Or will you end up head over heels in love. Well lets first start off by defining th...

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Painful sex blog | Dear Desire

Painful sex and how to claim back your sex life (for women)

All too often women struggle with penetrative intercourse and deal with painful sex on a regular basis. Pain during sex, otherwise known as dyspareunia, is a recurrent or persistent pain before, du...

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We-vibe | Kegel balls

The beginners guide to Kegel balls and how to use them to improve your sex life and sexual health

You may view Kegel balls as just a sex toy, but they are so much more than that. Kegel balls, also known as ben wa balls are weighted balls used as a tool to strengthen your pelvic floor muscles.  ...

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The best Black Friday Sex Toy Deals with Dear Desire 2021 | Dear Desire | Online Adult Store | South Africa

The best Black Friday Sex Toy Deals with Dear Desire 2021

Whether you’re a newbie to the way of sex toys or you’re an expert looking for the next best toy, what better time to spoil yourself than Black Friday? Invest in your pleasure this year with our ma...

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Threesome tips for couples | Dear Desire | Online Adult Store | South Africa

Threesome tips for couples

Threesome tips for couples Threesomes are not as taboo as they once were. What used to be something men fantasized about is now a more common form of sex and can be desired by not only men but woma...

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7 Topics you should discuss with your sexual partner/s | Dear Desire | Online Adult Store | South Africa

7 Topics you should discuss with your sexual partner/s

Sex with a new partner can be daunting. But to build trust and comfortability, it is necessary to discuss these uncomfortable topics with your partner/s.  Whether you’re in a new budding fling or y...

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Anal Sex For Beginners | Dear Desire | Online Adult Store | South Africa

Anal Sex For Beginners

What was once a taboo, unspoken about subject is now a more common form of sex with 36% of woman and 44% of men aged between 25-44 years have anal sex.  So maybe you’re thinking about trying it out...

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10 ways to improve your sex life. | Dear Desire | Online Adult Store | South Africa

10 ways to improve your sex life.

Many couples at some point in their relationships may hit a bump in road when it comes to keeping their sex life alive and keeping things new and interesting. Especially older couples who may be ex...

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Sex toys for beginners | Dear Desire | Online Adult Store | South Africa

Sex toys for beginners

Trying out sex toys for the first time can be extremely daunting and even quite confusing. Maybe you’re embarrassed, like most to walk into an adult store with no idea of what to buy, or you’re spo...

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