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Male masturbators are sex toys designed to simulate the sensations of penetrative sex, enhancing solo pleasure. They come in various forms — from discreet sleeves and strokers to high-tech devices with vibration, suction, or even app control. Perfect for exploring different sensations, they offer a satisfying upgrade to traditional hand play.

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Male Masturbator Play

It's a brave new world out there in the male masturbator market.

Not all penises are created equal, and second, why can’t people with a penis get a little creative, as well. When it comes to the best sex toys for men, the first step is getting past whatever's kept you from using a masturbator alone or with a partner.

A Masturbator Sleeve is essentially a place that you slip your penis into, Yes a place of getting plain-old handsy and getting those erogenous zones all fired up, a male masturbator is a man’s best bet at replicating the feeling of penetration in just his own company.

So the next time you could use a little self-love, give your hands a break and your body a whole new silicone sensation.

Different types of Masturbators

  • Hand-held masturbators
  • Hands-free masturbators
  • Vibrating masturbators
  • Sex doll masturbators
  • Real-feel vagina masturbators
  • Stamina training masturbators

Male Masturbator Brands

Toy Lubes

Lubes are a very important part of sex play. Have a look at our selection of water based lubricants here  the more lube, the better, to make sure everyone is comfortable.

There are different types of lubricants to suit different needs. It’s totally normal if you favor one over the rest, or if you like to switch things up depending on the situation. Whether you’re a first-time buyer or looking to expand your lubricant collection, there’s one out there for you, guaranteed.

How To Clean Your Masturbators

Raise your hand if you’ve ever tossed a sex toy back into your goodie drawer after a job well done so you could roll over and enjoy the afterglow. It’s a good idea to clean any sex toy you’ve used right after you’ve used it.

Disinfecting and properly storing your sex accessories may be the last thing on your mind after using it.

Different materials require different care. it is always a good idea to also refer to your toy’s manual, if possible, to learn the best way to clean it.

  • Cleaning your toys removes material from the surface.
  • Disinfecting, or sanitizing, your toys destroys bacteria and certain pathogens to make something hygienic.
  • Sterilizing your toys kills absolutely all bacteria, viruses, and fungi.

When buying your Masturbators sex toy it is always a good idea to buy some cleaning products to help the cleaning process, Have a look at the toy cleaners we have in stock 

Shop for Toys discreetly and securely Online at Dear Desire

Online shopping is convenient and enjoyable. Don’t worry if you are new to the online shopping experience. Everyone has to start somewhere! Find the products you want, click “buy now” and then checkout using the “checkout” button in your shopping cart once you are ready. Proceed with payment, sit back and relax. We take care of the rest.

We can assure you that every package is treated with the same high level of confidentiality and discretion. Every package is well-wrapped and there is no indication on the outside of where it comes from or what the contents are.

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    Malesation Masturbation Cup - Flesh Colour

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    Malesation Pleasure Masturbation Cup  The Malesation Pleasure Masturbation Cup has a modern design masturbator that is easy to hold and easy to use...

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    Fleshlight Stoya Destroya Fleshlight Stoya Destroya is an ultra-realistic representation based on Stoya herself, this Fleshlight features a tight o...

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  • Riley Reid Quickshot – clear Fleshlight sleeve with dual openings and realistic textures for solo or partner play.
    Fleshlight Quickshot Riley Reid – compact masturbator with open ends, molded from Riley Reid’s vagina and butt for intense visual and physical pleasure.
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    Fleshlight Quickshot Riley Reid Watch yourself go straight through Riley's Quickshot. The Fleshlight Quickshot Riley Reid features unobstructed ex...

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  • Autumn Falls Fleshlight featuring lifelike vaginal entry and signature textured sleeve
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    Fleshlight Girls Autumn Falls Fleshlight Girls Autumn Falls is everything you'd expect from this Puerto Rican porn star sensation. With a variety ...

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    Wooomy Squeeezy Masturbator with soft, squeezable exterior and textured inner sleeve
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    Wooomy Realistic Masturbator - Flexible

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    Wooomy Squeeezy Masturbator Vagina The Wooomy Squeeezy Masturbator is a compact, squeezable stroker designed for customizable pleasure and lifelike...

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    Tenga Masturbator Cup - Disposable

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    Tenga Original Vacuum Cup The ultimate suction experience. Featuring a special valve structure, Tenga Original Vacuum CUP delivers amazing suction ...

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    Wooomy Jeeez Masturbator with soft, textured sleeve for intense, lifelike stimulation
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    Wooomy Realistic Masturbator - Flexible

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    Wooomy Jeeez Masturbator Vagina The Wooomy Jeeez Masturbator is a sleek, high-sensation stroker designed to deliver intense, lifelike pleasure. Cra...

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  • Elsa Jean Tasty Fleshlight featuring lifelike entry and signature textured inner sleeve
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    Fleshlight Girls Elsa Jean Tasty Fleshlight Girls Elsa Jean Tasty offers a unique and superior texture that combines knobs, twists, and ridges to ...

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  • Fleshlight Flight Pilot – sleek black masturbator with an aerodynamic design, perfect for discreet storage and on-the-go pleasure.
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    Fleshlight Masturbator - Flight Pilot

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    Fleshlight Flight Pilot Masturbator Fleshlight has taken its #1 selling male sex toy and made it even better. The Fleshlight Flight Pilot Masturbat...

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  • Mia Malkova Boss Level Fleshlight with case open, revealing realistic anal sleeve molded from her body.
    Fleshlight Girls Mia Malkova Boss Level – anal sleeve molded from Mia’s body with textured interior and realistic SuperSkin material.
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    Fleshlight Girls Anal Masturbator - Mia Malkova Boss Level

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    Fleshlight Girls Mia Malkova Boss Level This is a high Quality Masturbating Device that is an Exact Replica of celebrity Mia Malkova's butt. Every...

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    Fleshlight Girls Masturbator - Mia Malkova

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    Fleshlight Girls Mia Malkova Lvl Up Fleshlight Girls Mia Malkova Lvl Up is a high Quality Masturbating Device that is an Exact Replica of celebrit...

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    Lovense Max 2 male masturbator with realistic sleeve and app-controlled vibrations
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    Lovense Max 2 Masturbator Sleeve - App-Controlled

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    Lovense Max 2 - Neutral Sleeve Lovense Max 2 now boasts a gender-neutral sleeve, 360-degree contractions, and a redesigned vibrator to deliver stro...

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  • Cup masturbator with red and white design, featuring flexible head for added motion
    Tenga Rolling Head Cup masturbator with red and white design, featuring flexible head for added motion
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    Tenga Masturbator Cup - Disposable

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    Tenga Rolling Head Cup Ultimate Pleasure: The Tenga Rolling Head Cup male masturbator provides intense and continuous tightening with its spiral se...

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    Double-ended Tenga Dual Sensation Cup masturbator offering tough and tender sensations
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    Tenga Dual Sensation Cup Double the sensation with the Tenga Dual Sensation Cup. A two-in-one blend of stimulation. The 'tough side' firmly tighten...

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    Fleshlight Go Torque Ice masturbator with compact, transparent case and lifelike entry
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    Fleshlight Men's Masturbator - Transparent Sleeve

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    Fleshlight Go Torque Ice The Fleshlight GO Torque Ice is a compressed and portable version the original best-selling Fleshlight male self-pleasure...

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  • Tenga Flex Silky White – reusable male masturbator with gentle spiraling ribs and flexible casing for twisting suction sensations.
    Tenga Flex Silky Masturbator in White – spiral-ribbed male stroker with soft internal textures and suction-enhancing twist design.
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    Tenga Reusable Masturbator - Flex Silky

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    Tenga Flex Silky Masturbator  The Tenga Flex Silky Masturbator spins, sucks and embraces you with its unique spiral-ribbed casing. There are two va...

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  • Flat lay of the Quickshot showing clear casing and textured interior, designed for compact stroking and easy cleaning.
    Flat lay of the Quickshot Vantage showing clear casing and textured interior, designed for compact stroking and easy cleaning.
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    Fleshlight Masturbator - Quickshot Vantage

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    Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage  Meet the Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage Masturbator - Fleshlight's most compact sleeve to date. Watch every satisfying...

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  • Fleshlight Quickshot STU in its compact case, featuring open-ended design and discreet packaging for stamina training.
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    Fleshlight Masturbator - Quickshot Stamina Training Unit0

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    Fleshlight Quickshot Stamina Training Unit  Practice makes perfect, especially in the bedroom. The Fleshlight Quickshot Stamina Training Unit is a ...

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    Fleshlight Quickshot Mia Malkova The Mia Malkova Quickshot features unobstructed exit points molded from Mia's own vagina and butt. The Mia Malkova...

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    Lelo App-Connected Masturbator - Waterproof

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    Lelo F1S V2x - Blue The enhanced m-cup design of the Lelo F1S V2x allows you to explore optimal satisfaction, with a pliable sleeve, a wider range ...

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    Fleshlight Life-Like Masturbator - Transparent Sleeve

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    Fleshlight Ice Lady Get an eyeful of the inside action with Fleshlight's coolest self-pleasure device and only transparent model, the Fleshlight I...

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    Fleshlight Vibro Pink Lady Touch  Fleshlight Vibro Pink Lady Touch combines the lifelike feel of Fleshlight’s signature SuperSkin with powerful vib...

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    Fleshlight Masturbator - Pink Lady

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    Fleshlight Pink Lady Stamina Training Unit  Practice makes perfect, especially in the bedroom. The Fleshlight Pink Lady Stamina Training Unit Mastu...

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