Tenga Flex Silky Masturbator
The Tenga Flex Silky Masturbator spins, sucks and embraces you with its unique spiral-ribbed casing. There are two varieties of the Masturbator to choose from, each with different internal details and material strength. The Tenga Flex Silky Masturbator has gentle spiraling ribs, Embraced with delightful suction
Colour White
✔ Discreet packaging
✔ Fast South African delivery
✔ 100% private checkout
In high demand — limited stock available
Pickup available at 9 Aylesbury Road Bellville
Usually ready in 24 hours
Tenga Reusable Masturbator - Flex Silky
9 Aylesbury Road Bellville
9 Aylesbury Road
Bellville
Cape Town
Western Cape
7530
South Africa
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Male Masturbators – Designed for Realistic, Powerful Pleasure
Male masturbators are pleasure products designed to simulate the feeling of penetrative sex, offering men an intensely satisfying and realistic solo experience. Whether you’re looking to enhance your self-pleasure routine, explore new sensations, or improve stamina and control, male masturbators are a popular and versatile option.
These toys come in a wide variety of styles, textures, and materials—from simple strokers to high-tech, vibrating, or even app-controlled devices. Some are discreet and compact, perfect for travel or on-the-go use, while others feature lifelike sleeves molded from real adult stars, like those in the Fleshlight Girls series. Many designs are anatomically inspired (vaginal, anal, or oral), while others are fantasy-themed or feature stimulating textures that create unique sensations.
What makes male masturbators stand out is their focus on realism and variety. The inner canals often include ridges, chambers, or suction zones to enhance stimulation and mimic the sensations of partnered sex. Some models are temperature-responsive, while others come with vibration, pulsation, or motion features for next-level experiences.
Most male masturbators are made from body-safe materials such as TPE, silicone, or patented lifelike blends like Fleshlight’s SuperSkin. They’re also reusable and easy to clean when used with the right toy cleaners and lubricants—ideally a good water-based lube to enhance comfort and glide.
Whether you’re a beginner looking for a basic sleeve or an experienced user wanting to explore more advanced stimulation, there’s a male masturbator to suit every desire and budget.
Different types of masturbators
- Hand-held
- Hands-free
- Vibrating
- Sex doll
- Real-feel
- Stamina training
Male brands
- Hot Octopuss
- Fleshlight
- Malesation
- Fun Factory
- Tenga Flip
- Arcwave Ion
Ready to upgrade your solo sessions? Discover our collection of male masturbators at Dear Desire—where pleasure is always in your hands.
Delivery Options
Delivery Options
We offer free courier delivery to door on all orders over R1000
All parcels will be delivered fast and discreetly to anywhere in South Africa.
If your order is below R1000 a delivery fee of R110 will be charged.
When will I receive my order?
Deliveries placed before 10h00 will be delivered within 3 to 5 working days. Applies only to main centre’s (Cape Town, Durban, Johannesburg, Port Elizabeth, and Pretoria)
If you reside outside of a main centre, please allow for 4 to 6 working days for your order to be delivered.
Please note orders are only packaged from Monday to Friday between 08h00 – 10h00, orders placed after 10h00 will be processed and packaged the following business day
Please note we do not deliver or send out orders on the weekends and public holidays
Overnight shipping: if you choose to select this option, please note that this option does not apply to those residing in outlying areas. This option only applies to main centres (Cape Town, Johannesburg, Durban, Port Elizabeth, Pretoria)
Your order will need to be placed before 9:30am to apply for overnight shipping. Please note that if you place your order before 9:30am on a Friday, you will receive your package on the following business day (Monday)
Peak Season (Black Friday/Cyber Monday Week and December/Early January)
Due to these high volumes of freight, parcels might be delayed with both local and regional deliveries to be affected. Delivery timelines will be extended and will look something like this:
OVERNIGHT : ± 3 - 4 working days (MAIN CENTERS as mentioned Above)
ECONOMY : ± 5 - 7 working days, excluding the day of collection (Areas outside of Main Centers)
Who will deliver my order?
Courier Guy will delivery your order door to door.
When will my order be packaged?
Please note orders are only packaged from Monday to Friday between 08h00 – 10h00, orders placed after 10h00 will be processed and packaged the following business day
Please note we do not deliver or send out orders on the weekends and public holidays
If your order is placed on the weekend or after hours, we will process and dispatch your order the following business day.
If you place an order on a Thursday after 10am please allow for extra delivery time as your order will only be dispatched on Friday.
How do I track my order?
You will receive a tracking number via email after your order is placed. You can track your order via The Courier Guy’s website.
Discreet Packaging
Discreet delivery
At Dear Desire, your privacy is our priority. All orders are shipped in plain, unbranded packaging with no mention of our name or the contents inside, keeping things completly discreet. Whether you're treating yourself or buying a gift, you can shop confidently knowing your pleasure stays your business.
Will my package be discreet?
Your package will be 100% discreet with no obvious labelling.
What will my package look like?
Your package will be 100% discreet, packaged in a plain cardboard box with no obvious labelling. You won’t have to worry about anyone knowing what’s inside the box unless you tell them!
What will show up on my bank?
We are one step ahead, as we know to many of you, privacy is super important. On all charges and statements, it will reflect as “HSB Trading (Pty) Ltd”
What will show up on my waybill/shipping label?
Once again, there will be no obvious labelling, on your waybill it will reflect as “HSB Trading (Pty) Ltd”
Who will deliver my package?
We use The Courier Guys services to deliver your packages with care and efficency.
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How to Properly Clean Your Sex Toys – A Guide to Safe, Hygienic Pleasure
Taking care and cleaning your sex toys is just as important as choosing the right one. Proper cleaning not only extends the life of your toy but also protects your body from harmful bacteria and infections. Whether you're using a vibrator, dildo, anal plug, or stroker, maintaining good hygiene is essential for safe and enjoyable pleasure.
1. Know Your Material
Different materials require different cleaning methods. Most high-quality sex toys are made from body-safe, non-porous materials like medical-grade silicone, glass, stainless steel, or ABS plastic. These are the easiest to clean and sanitize. Porous materials like jelly rubber, cyberskin, or TPE are more difficult to clean thoroughly and may harbor bacteria, so extra care is needed—or better yet, opt for higher-quality alternatives.
2. Cleaning Basics
After every use, clean your sex toy with warm water and mild, unscented soap or a specialized sex toy cleaner. Be sure to rinse thoroughly to remove any residue. For toys that are waterproof, you can wash them under running water. For non-waterproof or battery-powered toys, be cautious to keep electrical parts dry—use a damp cloth for the exterior.
3. Deep Cleaning Options
For non-porous, non-electronic toys, a deeper clean can be done by boiling them for 3–5 minutes (silicone, stainless steel, or borosilicate glass only) or using a 10% bleach solution (rinse well afterward). Never boil or soak toys with motors or electronics.
4. Drying and Storing after cleaning your sex toys
After cleaning your sex toys, pat your toy dry with a clean, lint-free cloth and let it air-dry completely. Store it in a breathable storage bag or a designated container to keep it clean and dust-free. Avoid letting toys made of different materials touch, as some can react with each other over time.
5. Use Lube Wisely
Always match your lube to your toy material. Use water-based lube for all toys, especially silicone ones, to avoid damaging the surface. Silicone lubes can degrade silicone toys over time.
Treat your toys with care, and they’ll take care of your pleasure. Keeping them clean is a simple step toward safer, more satisfying play—every time.
When buying your sex toy it is always a good idea to buy some cleaning products to help the cleaning process, Have a look at the toy cleaners we have in stock
Lubricants – The Unsung Hero of Pleasure
Lubricants, or lubes, are one of the most essential and versatile products in any intimate routine. Whether you’re enjoying solo play, partnered sex, or experimenting with toys, a good lube enhances comfort, intensifies sensation, and reduces friction for a smoother, more enjoyable experience.
There are several types of lubricants, each designed to suit different needs and preferences:
1. Water-Based
Water-based lubes are the most common and versatile. They’re compatible with all sex toys and condoms, easy to clean, and feel light and natural. Perfect for everyday use, they're ideal for both vaginal and anal play. However, they may dry out faster than other types and may require reapplication during longer sessions.
2. Silicone-Based
Silicone lubes are long-lasting, silky-smooth, and waterproof—making them perfect for shower or bath play. They don’t absorb into the skin as quickly, so they stay slick for much longer. Silicone lubricants are great for anal sex or extended sessions but are not recommended with silicone toys, as they can degrade the material over time.
3. Oil-Based
Oil-based lubes offer a rich, creamy texture that many find luxurious for external use or sensual massage. However, they are not compatible with latex condoms and can be harder to clean up. They're best used for manual play or external stimulation.
Why Use Lube?
Using lubricant reduces the risk of irritation, enhances sensation, and allows you to explore more freely—whether it's trying a new toy, experimenting with positions, or indulging in anal play. Lube is especially important for people experiencing dryness due to stress, menopause, or medication. It’s not just about function—it’s about maximizing pleasure.
Choosing the Right Lube
Always choose a body-safe, paraben-free, and glycerin-free formula if you’re sensitive. Many lubes are now made with organic or vegan ingredients, and some even include added benefits like warming or cooling sensations, or ingredients that support vaginal health.
Explore our curated range of lubricants at Dear Desire—from water-based to silicone to hybrid blends. No matter your body, mood, or activity, the right lube makes everything feel better.
Online Shopping
Online shopping is convenient and enjoyable. Don’t worry if you are new to the online shopping experience. Everyone has to start somewhere! Find the products you want, click “buy now” and then checkout using the “checkout” button in your shopping cart once you are ready. Proceed with payment, sit back and relax. We take care of the rest.
We can assure you that every package is treated with the same high level of confidentiality and discretion. Every package is well-wrapped and discreet - with no obvious branding anywhere.
Shopping online, we offer free shipping on all orders over R750. All parcels will be delivered fast and discreetly to anywhere in South Africa by The Courier Guy. If your order is below R750 a delivery fee of R110 will be charged.
Dear Desire is an online adult store promoting sexual wellbeing and pleasure while providing discreet premium packaging. Our aim is to fulfil all your intimate desires all while taking the stigma out of self gratification. We stock a wide range of quality adult sex toys.
Ps. We have a physical store too! Shop in store at our premium adult sex store in Bellville