Malesation Butt Plug Set - 3 Piece
Malesation Anal Bead And Butt Plug Starter Set
Malesation Anal Bead And Butt Plug Starter Set consisting of carefully selected products in an innovative and ergonomic design, making the set particularly suitable for beginners.
✔ Discreet packaging
✔ Fast South African delivery
✔ 100% private checkout
In high demand — limited stock available
Pickup available at 9 Aylesbury Road Bellville
Usually ready in 24 hours
Malesation Butt Plug Set - 3 Piece
9 Aylesbury Road Bellville
9 Aylesbury Road
Bellville
Cape Town
Western Cape
7530
South Africa
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What was once a taboo, unspoken about subject is now a more common form of sex with 36% of woman and 44% of men aged between 25-44 years partaking in anal sex. So maybe you’re thinking about trying it out for the first time or you’ve tried it before but feel you could learn a bit more before going in for seconds. Here’s a few things you should know about anal sex.
Don’t believe everything you’ve seen in movies or porn. They make it look so easy and effortless but behind the scenes, they’ve done major pre prep! As the anus does not self-lubricate, the way the vagina does. This form of sex is way more high maintenance than others. You’ll need a lot of lube, and I mean a lot! You’ll also need to come up with some sort of a pre anal hygiene routine to ensure no unwanted accidents occur!
Experiment on yourself first
Consider trying anal play on yourself first and figure out what you enjoy. Try lubbing up your finger and gently massaging the area before slipping a finger or two in. Once you’re comfortable you could try inserting a small butt plug which could later lead to a larger sized toy. If you are experimenting with your partner now would be a good time to test the waters and allow him to insert his penis slowly. Getting the head in is going to be the most painful part as it is the largest part of the penis but once you’ve got past the hard part, pun very much intended. You should be smooth sailing from there on out.
Hygiene
I suggest setting up a pre anal hygiene routine. Go to the bathroom half an hour to an hour before you plan on doing anal. Empty your bowels and clean all around the anal area with warm water and soap. If you are looking to be extra clean, you could try doing an enema 1 to 2 hours before anal. Use a couple cups of warm water to clean out 15-20cm of your rectum, be careful of using too much water as you could make things even messier.
Who will you be trying anal with?
If you are a first timer and feeling nervous, I suggest you ask yourself, who are you doing anal with? Are you comfortable with the person? Because if you are not comfortable you may put yourself in an extremely awkward situation. So, try it with someone you’ve slept with before and you are already familiar with each other’s bodies and what each other enjoy sexually.
Lube
Lube is one of the most important parts of anal. As the anus does not produce enough natural lubricants you should use an artificial water-based lubricant to ensure ultimate comfortability and pleasure.
Condoms
Now you may think condoms are not necessary for anal sex, you are wrong. There are all sorts of bacteria and infections in the anus, and you are at an even higher risk of contracting diseases than you are from vaginal sex. Especially in woman as the skin and tissue around the anus is more fragile and can easily tear, leading to infection and bacteria. Unprotected anal sex can lead to all kinds of sexually transmitted infections, namely HIV, herpes, syphilis, hepatitis, gonorrhea and chlamydia.
Let the receiver guide penetration
I suggest the receiver guides penetration as they will know their limits and when to stop. Start with very slow gentle penetrations and work your way up to a faster pace as you feel more comfortable.
What positions should you try?
There are many great positions you could try but many people say that missionary, doggy-style or lying on their back hurts the least. But I suggest trying a few positions and experimenting with your boundaries.
If it hurts, stop
If you start to feel more pain than pleasure, stop. You could cause harm to your body, although rare, there is still a chance. The tissue around the anus is very fragile and delicate and could tear very easily.
Don’t be alarmed by noises
Accept the fact that anal sex is just that, anal sex. so, it is only natural that all sorts of funny noises will come out of you, and it is completely normal.
Don’t double dip
Although you may be tempted to go straight from anus to vagina, I would not suggest that. Bacteria found in the stool can be spread to the vagina and cause infections such as yeast infections and more. Before bouncing between the two, clean up first. Wash the penis, toy, or finger before going from anus to vagina to ensure no bacteria is spread.
Go the bathroom when you’re done
Just like after vaginal sex, you should use the bathroom to help flush bacteria out of the urethra and thereby reduce the risk of UTI’s. Same should apply for anal sex, as any bacteria surrounding the anus could be transferred to the vagina. And chances are, you’ll probably need the bathroom when you’re done anyway!
Anal sex can be extremely fun and exciting and if its anything less than that, that’s okay too!
About the brand
MALESATION – Innovative Pleasure Designed for Men (and Everyone Who Loves Them)
MALESATION is a premium adult toy brand that celebrates modern masculinity, sexual exploration, and high-quality design. Created with comfort, performance, and pleasure in mind, MALESATION offers a wide range of products designed primarily for men—but versatile enough for couples and all curious minds. Whether you’re exploring solo or looking to spice up partnered play, MALESATION toys are here to make pleasure accessible, body-safe, and exciting.
What sets MALESATION apart is its commitment to innovation and inclusivity. The brand offers an impressive selection of toys—from prostate massagers, penis rings, and masturbators to anal plugs and couples’ gear—crafted with both beginners and experienced users in mind. Each product is designed for ergonomic comfort, easy use, and effective stimulation, offering tailored pleasure at every level.
MALESATION places a strong emphasis on safety and quality. All products are made from body-safe materials, including high-grade silicone, ABS plastic, and stainless steel, ensuring a non-toxic, phthalate-free experience that feels as good as it is safe. Many items are waterproof, rechargeable, and easy to clean, making them ideal for daily use and long-term satisfaction.
The design aesthetic is sleek, masculine, and modern. With smooth finishes, strong motors, and intuitive controls, MALESATION toys blend functionality with visual appeal. They are discreet, powerful, and built to deliver maximum pleasure with minimal fuss—whether that’s through vibration, suction, pressure, or a combination of sensations.
More than just a toy company, MALESATION is a celebration of self-pleasure, confidence, and sex positivity. The brand encourages exploration without shame and supports all sexual orientations, identities, and preferences. It’s about giving men permission to enjoy their bodies and discover new ways to connect with themselves and others.
Whether you’re looking to enhance stamina, explore prostate play, or try something new in the bedroom, MALESATION provides trusted tools to elevate your sexual wellness journey.
Explore MALESATION at Dear Desire and discover a brand that combines smart design, safe materials, and powerful pleasure—all made with you in mind.
Delivery Options
Delivery Options
We offer free courier delivery to door on all orders over R1000
All parcels will be delivered fast and discreetly to anywhere in South Africa.
If your order is below R1000 a delivery fee of R110 will be charged.
When will I receive my order?
Deliveries placed before 10h00 will be delivered within 3 to 5 working days. Applies only to main centre’s (Cape Town, Durban, Johannesburg, Port Elizabeth, and Pretoria)
If you reside outside of a main centre, please allow for 4 to 6 working days for your order to be delivered.
Please note orders are only packaged from Monday to Friday between 08h00 – 10h00, orders placed after 10h00 will be processed and packaged the following business day
Please note we do not deliver or send out orders on the weekends and public holidays
Overnight shipping: if you choose to select this option, please note that this option does not apply to those residing in outlying areas. This option only applies to main centres (Cape Town, Johannesburg, Durban, Port Elizabeth, Pretoria)
Your order will need to be placed before 9:30am to apply for overnight shipping. Please note that if you place your order before 9:30am on a Friday, you will receive your package on the following business day (Monday)
Peak Season (Black Friday/Cyber Monday Week and December/Early January)
Due to these high volumes of freight, parcels might be delayed with both local and regional deliveries to be affected. Delivery timelines will be extended and will look something like this:
OVERNIGHT : ± 3 - 4 working days (MAIN CENTERS as mentioned Above)
ECONOMY : ± 5 - 7 working days, excluding the day of collection (Areas outside of Main Centers)
Who will deliver my order?
Courier Guy will delivery your order door to door.
When will my order be packaged?
Please note orders are only packaged from Monday to Friday between 08h00 – 10h00, orders placed after 10h00 will be processed and packaged the following business day
Please note we do not deliver or send out orders on the weekends and public holidays
If your order is placed on the weekend or after hours, we will process and dispatch your order the following business day.
If you place an order on a Thursday after 10am please allow for extra delivery time as your order will only be dispatched on Friday.
How do I track my order?
You will receive a tracking number via email after your order is placed. You can track your order via The Courier Guy’s website.
Discreet Packaging
Discreet delivery
At Dear Desire, your privacy is our priority. All orders are shipped in plain, unbranded packaging with no mention of our name or the contents inside, keeping things completly discreet. Whether you're treating yourself or buying a gift, you can shop confidently knowing your pleasure stays your business.
Will my package be discreet?
Your package will be 100% discreet with no obvious labelling.
What will my package look like?
Your package will be 100% discreet, packaged in a plain cardboard box with no obvious labelling. You won’t have to worry about anyone knowing what’s inside the box unless you tell them!
What will show up on my bank?
We are one step ahead, as we know to many of you, privacy is super important. On all charges and statements, it will reflect as “HSB Trading (Pty) Ltd”
What will show up on my waybill/shipping label?
Once again, there will be no obvious labelling, on your waybill it will reflect as “HSB Trading (Pty) Ltd”
Who will deliver my package?
We use The Courier Guys services to deliver your packages with care and efficency.
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How to Properly Clean Your Sex Toys – A Guide to Safe, Hygienic Pleasure
Taking care and cleaning your sex toys is just as important as choosing the right one. Proper cleaning not only extends the life of your toy but also protects your body from harmful bacteria and infections. Whether you're using a vibrator, dildo, anal plug, or stroker, maintaining good hygiene is essential for safe and enjoyable pleasure.
1. Know Your Material
Different materials require different cleaning methods. Most high-quality sex toys are made from body-safe, non-porous materials like medical-grade silicone, glass, stainless steel, or ABS plastic. These are the easiest to clean and sanitize. Porous materials like jelly rubber, cyberskin, or TPE are more difficult to clean thoroughly and may harbor bacteria, so extra care is needed—or better yet, opt for higher-quality alternatives.
2. Cleaning Basics
After every use, clean your sex toy with warm water and mild, unscented soap or a specialized sex toy cleaner. Be sure to rinse thoroughly to remove any residue. For toys that are waterproof, you can wash them under running water. For non-waterproof or battery-powered toys, be cautious to keep electrical parts dry—use a damp cloth for the exterior.
3. Deep Cleaning Options
For non-porous, non-electronic toys, a deeper clean can be done by boiling them for 3–5 minutes (silicone, stainless steel, or borosilicate glass only) or using a 10% bleach solution (rinse well afterward). Never boil or soak toys with motors or electronics.
4. Drying and Storing after cleaning your sex toys
After cleaning your sex toys, pat your toy dry with a clean, lint-free cloth and let it air-dry completely. Store it in a breathable storage bag or a designated container to keep it clean and dust-free. Avoid letting toys made of different materials touch, as some can react with each other over time.
5. Use Lube Wisely
Always match your lube to your toy material. Use water-based lube for all toys, especially silicone ones, to avoid damaging the surface. Silicone lubes can degrade silicone toys over time.
Treat your toys with care, and they’ll take care of your pleasure. Keeping them clean is a simple step toward safer, more satisfying play—every time.
When buying your sex toy it is always a good idea to buy some cleaning products to help the cleaning process, Have a look at the toy cleaners we have in stock
Lubricants – The Unsung Hero of Pleasure
Lubricants, or lubes, are one of the most essential and versatile products in any intimate routine. Whether you’re enjoying solo play, partnered sex, or experimenting with toys, a good lube enhances comfort, intensifies sensation, and reduces friction for a smoother, more enjoyable experience.
There are several types of lubricants, each designed to suit different needs and preferences:
1. Water-Based
Water-based lubes are the most common and versatile. They’re compatible with all sex toys and condoms, easy to clean, and feel light and natural. Perfect for everyday use, they're ideal for both vaginal and anal play. However, they may dry out faster than other types and may require reapplication during longer sessions.
2. Silicone-Based
Silicone lubes are long-lasting, silky-smooth, and waterproof—making them perfect for shower or bath play. They don’t absorb into the skin as quickly, so they stay slick for much longer. Silicone lubricants are great for anal sex or extended sessions but are not recommended with silicone toys, as they can degrade the material over time.
3. Oil-Based
Oil-based lubes offer a rich, creamy texture that many find luxurious for external use or sensual massage. However, they are not compatible with latex condoms and can be harder to clean up. They're best used for manual play or external stimulation.
Why Use Lube?
Using lubricant reduces the risk of irritation, enhances sensation, and allows you to explore more freely—whether it's trying a new toy, experimenting with positions, or indulging in anal play. Lube is especially important for people experiencing dryness due to stress, menopause, or medication. It’s not just about function—it’s about maximizing pleasure.
Choosing the Right Lube
Always choose a body-safe, paraben-free, and glycerin-free formula if you’re sensitive. Many lubes are now made with organic or vegan ingredients, and some even include added benefits like warming or cooling sensations, or ingredients that support vaginal health.
Explore our curated range of lubricants at Dear Desire—from water-based to silicone to hybrid blends. No matter your body, mood, or activity, the right lube makes everything feel better.
Online Shopping
Online shopping is convenient and enjoyable. Don’t worry if you are new to the online shopping experience. Everyone has to start somewhere! Find the products you want, click “buy now” and then checkout using the “checkout” button in your shopping cart once you are ready. Proceed with payment, sit back and relax. We take care of the rest.
We can assure you that every package is treated with the same high level of confidentiality and discretion. Every package is well-wrapped and discreet - with no obvious branding anywhere.
Shopping online, we offer free shipping on all orders over R750. All parcels will be delivered fast and discreetly to anywhere in South Africa by The Courier Guy. If your order is below R750 a delivery fee of R110 will be charged.
Dear Desire is an online adult store promoting sexual wellbeing and pleasure while providing discreet premium packaging. Our aim is to fulfil all your intimate desires all while taking the stigma out of self gratification. We stock a wide range of quality adult sex toys.
Ps. We have a physical store too! Shop in store at our premium adult sex store in Bellville