Lovense Lapis – App-Controlled Double-Ended Vibrator for Couples
The Lovense Lapis is an innovative app-controlled double-ended vibrator designed for shared experiences and interactive partner play. Created to support a variety of body types, the Lapis allows one partner to wear the toy while penetrating their partner, enabling both people to enjoy stimulation at the same time.
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Pickup available at 9 Aylesbury Road Bellville
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Lovense Lapis App-Controlled Double-Ended Vibrator
9 Aylesbury Road Bellville
9 Aylesbury Road
Bellville
Cape Town
Western Cape
7530
South Africa
Product Specifications
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Powered by three internal motors, the Lovense Lapis delivers strong dual-ended vibrations that stimulate both partners simultaneously. The adjustable neck design allows the toy to flex and adapt to your preferred position, creating a comfortable and customizable fit.
When connected to the Lovense Remote app, the Lapis unlocks interactive features including custom vibration patterns, sound-activated stimulation, and music-sync modes for a more immersive experience.
Why You’ll Love the Lovense Lapis
• Double-ended design for shared stimulation between partners
• Three powerful motors delivering dual-ended vibrations
• Adjustable neck for personalized comfort and positioning
• App-controlled via the Lovense Remote app
• Sync vibrations to music or sound for interactive play
• Clitoral stimulation grooves for added external pleasure
• Waterproof IPX7 design for easy cleaning
Smart Control with the Lovense App
The Lovense Lapis connects to the Lovense Remote app, giving you access to a range of interactive features designed to personalize your experience.
Through the app you can:
• Create and save custom vibration patterns
• Sync vibrations to music for rhythm-based stimulation
• Activate sound-responsive vibrations
• Allow a partner to control the toy remotely
This smart connectivity makes the Lapis a versatile option for couples looking to explore app-controlled toys together.
Designed for Shared Comfort
The Lapis is made from body-safe materials that are firm yet soft, ensuring both durability and comfort. The flexible neck allows the toy to adjust naturally during use, while the external grooves provide additional clitoral stimulation for enhanced pleasure.
Its ergonomic shape and balanced weight help the toy remain comfortable for both partners during extended use.
Discreet Delivery from Dear Desire
Your privacy is important to us. All Dear Desire orders are shipped in plain, discreet packaging, with no indication of the contents. We deliver across South Africa so you can shop confidently and privately.
What Is a Double-Ended Vibrator?
A double-ended vibrator is designed so that two partners can experience stimulation simultaneously. One side of the toy is worn internally while the other provides stimulation for a partner, allowing both people to share the sensation.
Modern double-ended toys like the Lovense Lapis combine this design with smartphone connectivity, allowing partners to customize vibration patterns and explore interactive features together.
About the brand
Lovense sex toys are the culmination of more than 10 years of research, development, and countless man-hours. How did this journey begin? Well, in 2009, founder Dan Liu was in a long-distance relationship. Lack of sexual intimacy was a serious problem and therefore sparked an interest in teledildonics.
The following year, Remote Pleasure was born. It was a revolutionary remote control vibrator which used Skype to control it from distance - one of the first of its kind. It pleased thousands of couples all over the world. But, Lovense knew they could improve.
Between 2011 and 2012, research continued and prototypes of the first two-way interactive, teledildonic sex toys were built. However, the design and technology wasn't up to their standards. Lovense went back to the drawing board and utilized smartphone Bluetooth technology, which is the basis of their current toys.
First released in late 2013, Max and Nora were the first app-based, sex tech toys of their kind. Nora was the first Bluetooth rabbit vibrator and Max was the first Bluetooth male masturbator. Over time, Lovense continually optimized both the software and the hardware to ensure they are one of the top options for people in long-distance relationships.
Shop our range of Lovense toys.
Delivery Options
Delivery Options
We offer free courier delivery to door on all orders over R1000
All parcels will be delivered fast and discreetly to anywhere in South Africa.
If your order is below R1000 a delivery fee of R110 will be charged.
When will I receive my order?
Deliveries placed before 10h00 will be delivered within 3 to 5 working days. Applies only to main centre’s (Cape Town, Durban, Johannesburg, Port Elizabeth, and Pretoria)
If you reside outside of a main centre, please allow for 4 to 6 working days for your order to be delivered.
Please note orders are only packaged from Monday to Friday between 08h00 – 10h00, orders placed after 10h00 will be processed and packaged the following business day
Please note we do not deliver or send out orders on the weekends and public holidays
Overnight shipping: if you choose to select this option, please note that this option does not apply to those residing in outlying areas. This option only applies to main centres (Cape Town, Johannesburg, Durban, Port Elizabeth, Pretoria)
Your order will need to be placed before 9:30am to apply for overnight shipping. Please note that if you place your order before 9:30am on a Friday, you will receive your package on the following business day (Monday)
Peak Season (Black Friday/Cyber Monday Week and December/Early January)
Due to these high volumes of freight, parcels might be delayed with both local and regional deliveries to be affected. Delivery timelines will be extended and will look something like this:
OVERNIGHT : ± 3 - 4 working days (MAIN CENTERS as mentioned Above)
ECONOMY : ± 5 - 7 working days, excluding the day of collection (Areas outside of Main Centers)
Who will deliver my order?
Courier Guy will delivery your order door to door.
When will my order be packaged?
Please note orders are only packaged from Monday to Friday between 08h00 – 10h00, orders placed after 10h00 will be processed and packaged the following business day
Please note we do not deliver or send out orders on the weekends and public holidays
If your order is placed on the weekend or after hours, we will process and dispatch your order the following business day.
If you place an order on a Thursday after 10am please allow for extra delivery time as your order will only be dispatched on Friday.
How do I track my order?
You will receive a tracking number via email after your order is placed. You can track your order via The Courier Guy’s website.
Discreet Packaging
Discreet delivery
At Dear Desire, your privacy is our priority. All orders are shipped in plain, unbranded packaging with no mention of our name or the contents inside, keeping things completly discreet. Whether you're treating yourself or buying a gift, you can shop confidently knowing your pleasure stays your business.
Will my package be discreet?
Your package will be 100% discreet with no obvious labelling.
What will my package look like?
Your package will be 100% discreet, packaged in a plain cardboard box with no obvious labelling. You won’t have to worry about anyone knowing what’s inside the box unless you tell them!
What will show up on my bank?
We are one step ahead, as we know to many of you, privacy is super important. On all charges and statements, it will reflect as “HSB Trading (Pty) Ltd”
What will show up on my waybill/shipping label?
Once again, there will be no obvious labelling, on your waybill it will reflect as “HSB Trading (Pty) Ltd”
Who will deliver my package?
We use The Courier Guys services to deliver your packages with care and efficency.
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How to Properly Clean Your Sex Toys – A Guide to Safe, Hygienic Pleasure
Taking care and cleaning your sex toys is just as important as choosing the right one. Proper cleaning not only extends the life of your toy but also protects your body from harmful bacteria and infections. Whether you're using a vibrator, dildo, anal plug, or stroker, maintaining good hygiene is essential for safe and enjoyable pleasure.
1. Know Your Material
Different materials require different cleaning methods. Most high-quality sex toys are made from body-safe, non-porous materials like medical-grade silicone, glass, stainless steel, or ABS plastic. These are the easiest to clean and sanitize. Porous materials like jelly rubber, cyberskin, or TPE are more difficult to clean thoroughly and may harbor bacteria, so extra care is needed—or better yet, opt for higher-quality alternatives.
2. Cleaning Basics
After every use, clean your sex toy with warm water and mild, unscented soap or a specialized sex toy cleaner. Be sure to rinse thoroughly to remove any residue. For toys that are waterproof, you can wash them under running water. For non-waterproof or battery-powered toys, be cautious to keep electrical parts dry—use a damp cloth for the exterior.
3. Deep Cleaning Options
For non-porous, non-electronic toys, a deeper clean can be done by boiling them for 3–5 minutes (silicone, stainless steel, or borosilicate glass only) or using a 10% bleach solution (rinse well afterward). Never boil or soak toys with motors or electronics.
4. Drying and Storing after cleaning your sex toys
After cleaning your sex toys, pat your toy dry with a clean, lint-free cloth and let it air-dry completely. Store it in a breathable storage bag or a designated container to keep it clean and dust-free. Avoid letting toys made of different materials touch, as some can react with each other over time.
5. Use Lube Wisely
Always match your lube to your toy material. Use water-based lube for all toys, especially silicone ones, to avoid damaging the surface. Silicone lubes can degrade silicone toys over time.
Treat your toys with care, and they’ll take care of your pleasure. Keeping them clean is a simple step toward safer, more satisfying play—every time.
When buying your sex toy it is always a good idea to buy some cleaning products to help the cleaning process, Have a look at the toy cleaners we have in stock
Lubricants – The Unsung Hero of Pleasure
Lubricants, or lubes, are one of the most essential and versatile products in any intimate routine. Whether you’re enjoying solo play, partnered sex, or experimenting with toys, a good lube enhances comfort, intensifies sensation, and reduces friction for a smoother, more enjoyable experience.
There are several types of lubricants, each designed to suit different needs and preferences:
1. Water-Based
Water-based lubes are the most common and versatile. They’re compatible with all sex toys and condoms, easy to clean, and feel light and natural. Perfect for everyday use, they're ideal for both vaginal and anal play. However, they may dry out faster than other types and may require reapplication during longer sessions.
2. Silicone-Based
Silicone lubes are long-lasting, silky-smooth, and waterproof—making them perfect for shower or bath play. They don’t absorb into the skin as quickly, so they stay slick for much longer. Silicone lubricants are great for anal sex or extended sessions but are not recommended with silicone toys, as they can degrade the material over time.
3. Oil-Based
Oil-based lubes offer a rich, creamy texture that many find luxurious for external use or sensual massage. However, they are not compatible with latex condoms and can be harder to clean up. They're best used for manual play or external stimulation.
Why Use Lube?
Using lubricant reduces the risk of irritation, enhances sensation, and allows you to explore more freely—whether it's trying a new toy, experimenting with positions, or indulging in anal play. Lube is especially important for people experiencing dryness due to stress, menopause, or medication. It’s not just about function—it’s about maximizing pleasure.
Choosing the Right Lube
Always choose a body-safe, paraben-free, and glycerin-free formula if you’re sensitive. Many lubes are now made with organic or vegan ingredients, and some even include added benefits like warming or cooling sensations, or ingredients that support vaginal health.
Explore our curated range of lubricants at Dear Desire—from water-based to silicone to hybrid blends. No matter your body, mood, or activity, the right lube makes everything feel better.
Online Shopping
Online shopping is convenient and enjoyable. Don’t worry if you are new to the online shopping experience. Everyone has to start somewhere! Find the products you want, click “buy now” and then checkout using the “checkout” button in your shopping cart once you are ready. Proceed with payment, sit back and relax. We take care of the rest.
We can assure you that every package is treated with the same high level of confidentiality and discretion. Every package is well-wrapped and discreet - with no obvious branding anywhere.
Shopping online, we offer free shipping on all orders over R750. All parcels will be delivered fast and discreetly to anywhere in South Africa by The Courier Guy. If your order is below R750 a delivery fee of R110 will be charged.
Dear Desire is an online adult store promoting sexual wellbeing and pleasure while providing discreet premium packaging. Our aim is to fulfil all your intimate desires all while taking the stigma out of self gratification. We stock a wide range of quality adult sex toys.
Ps. We have a physical store too! Shop in store at our premium adult sex store in Bellville