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Explore each others fantasies and intimate desires. Spice up your sex life with sex toys that both you and your partner can enjoy. Brands from Lovense, Swan, Womanizer to Fleshlight, Malesation, Oxballs - there's something for everyone! 

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  • Cocksling 2 by Oxballs in black, featuring ergonomic design for simultaneous shaft and ball engagement
    Oxballs Cocksling 2 cock and ball sling in soft, stretchy silicone with integrated openings for snug support

    Oxballs Cock & Ball Sling - Lightweight and Rubbery

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    Oxballs Cocksling 2  Oxballs COCKSLING-2 is one of a kind, best-selling FLEXtpr sling. It's futuristic design is lightweight and rubbery yet grips ...

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  • Talk Dirty Card Game by Fifty Shades – flirty card deck with sensual quotes and sexy prompts for kinky couple’s play.
    Fifty Shades Play Nice Talk Dirty Card Game – seductive deck featuring quotes, phrases, and actions inspired by the Fifty Shades trilogy.

    Fifty Shades Card Game - Play Nice Talk Dirty

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    Fifty Shades Play Nice Talk Dirty Card Game Fifty Shades Play Nice Talk Dirty Card Game is inspired by Ana and Christian's kinky antics you'll be l...

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  • 7-inch body-safe silicone dildo with smooth finish and lifelike shape
    Adrien Lastic Silexpan 7 Inch – realistic silicone dildo with firm texture and ergonomic design

    Adrien Lastic Realistic Dildo - Brown 7''

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    Adrien Lastic Silexpan Dildo  The Adrien Lastic Silexpan dildo, thanks to its special material Silexpan with thermo-reactive properties, you can he...

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  • rechargeable, app-controlled vibrator designed for customizable dual stimulation
    Lovense Dolce – dual vibrator with flexible shaft and clitoral stimulator for simultaneous internal and external pleasure
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    Lovense Dolce - Dual Vibrator

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    Lovense Dolce The Lovense Dolce is a flexible, dual vibrator designed to deliver simultaneous internal and external stimulation for an all-encompas...

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  • Close-up of Fleshlight Go Torque Ice’s realistic entry and detailed internal sleeve texture
    Fleshlight Go Torque Ice masturbator with compact, transparent case and lifelike entry

    Fleshlight Men's Masturbator - Transparent Sleeve

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    Fleshlight Go Torque Ice The Fleshlight GO Torque Ice is a compressed and portable version the original best-selling Fleshlight male self-pleasure...

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  • Fleshlight Quickshot STU in its compact case, featuring open-ended design and discreet packaging for stamina training.
    Fleshlight Quickshot STU in its compact case, featuring open-ended design and discreet packaging for stamina training.

    Fleshlight Masturbator - Quickshot Stamina Training Unit0

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    Fleshlight Quickshot Stamina Training Unit  Practice makes perfect, especially in the bedroom. The Fleshlight Quickshot Stamina Training Unit is a ...

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  • Cup masturbator with red and white design, featuring flexible head for added motion
    Tenga Rolling Head Cup masturbator with red and white design, featuring flexible head for added motion

    Tenga Masturbator Cup - Disposable

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    Tenga Rolling Head Cup Ultimate Pleasure: The Tenga Rolling Head Cup male masturbator provides intense and continuous tightening with its spiral se...

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  • vegan, fair trade condoms offering a natural feel with reliable contraception
    Fair Squared Ultrathin Condoms – extra-thin, natural rubber latex condoms designed for enhanced sensitivity and protection

    Fair Squared Ultrathin Condoms - 10 pack

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    Fair Squared Ultrathin Condoms 10 pack Fair Squared Ultrathin Condoms are extra thin, smooth, cylindrically shaped made of fairly traded rubber. We...

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  • Bcute Classic Pearl by BSwish – purple waterproof vibrator with a rippled shaft and 5 functions for versatile, travel-friendly pleasure.
    BSwish Bcute Classic Pearl Vibrator in Purple – compact, ripple-textured vibe with 5 vibration modes for teasing and pleasing.

    BSwish Classic Vibrator - Waterproof Battery Operated

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    BSwish Bcute Classic Pearl Vibrator Colour Purple Whether you are a frequent flyer or it is your maiden voyage to Pleasure Island, the BSwish Bcut...

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  • Close-up of silky smooth silicone shaft with realistic detailing and flexible structure
    Swan Addiction David 8" flesh-coloured silicone dildo with bendable shaft and suction base
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    Swan Realistic Dildo - Flesh 8''

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    Swan Addiction David Bendable 8"  Bend it like Beckham! Swan Addiction David Bendable 8" is a premium silicone dong has a silky smooth feel, and ho...

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  • fast-acting, body-safe spray to enhance male endurance during intimacy
    Malesation Delay Spray – male desensitizing spray designed to prolong erection and delay ejaculation

    Malesation Delay Spray - 40ml

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    Malesation Delay Spray  The Malesation Delay Spray has a subtle numbing effect and can delay ejaculation. This unique spray has refreshing properti...

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  • Illustrated cutaway of Sensation Cup showing textured inner sleeves with tough and tender zones
    Double-ended Tenga Dual Sensation Cup masturbator offering tough and tender sensations

    Tenga Masturbator Cup - Disposable

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    Tenga Dual Sensation Cup Double the sensation with the Tenga Dual Sensation Cup. A two-in-one blend of stimulation. The 'tough side' firmly tighten...

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  • Flat lay of the Quickshot showing clear casing and textured interior, designed for compact stroking and easy cleaning.
    Flat lay of the Quickshot Vantage showing clear casing and textured interior, designed for compact stroking and easy cleaning.

    Fleshlight Masturbator - Quickshot Vantage

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    Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage  Meet the Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage Masturbator - Fleshlight's most compact sleeve to date. Watch every satisfying...

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  • Tenga Flex Silky White – reusable male masturbator with gentle spiraling ribs and flexible casing for twisting suction sensations.
    Tenga Flex Silky Masturbator in White – spiral-ribbed male stroker with soft internal textures and suction-enhancing twist design.

    Tenga Reusable Masturbator - Flex Silky

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    Tenga Flex Silky Masturbator  The Tenga Flex Silky Masturbator spins, sucks and embraces you with its unique spiral-ribbed casing. There are two va...

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  • Close-up of Lux Fetish black breathable ball gag with air holes for safe restraint play
    Close-up of Lux Fetish black breathable ball gag with air holes for safe restraint play

    Lux Fetish Ball Gag - Comfortable

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    Lux Fetish Breathable Ball Gag Lux Fetish Breathable Ball Gag is perfect for sensual play and and role-playing for all levels of kinky play. The ho...

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  • Aquaglide Cherry water-based lubricant by JoyDivision featuring fruity design and flip-top cap
    JoyDivision Aquaglide Cherry lubricant in a clear tube with red accents and cherry-themed label

    JoyDivision Water-based Lubricant - Cherry 100ml

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    JoyDivision Aquaglide Cherry 100ml Pleasant in taste and beguiling in fragrance. An exciting connection that invites hours of passion. Even a small...

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  • JoyDivision Clean'N'safe 100ml cleaning spray bottle for disinfecting intimate toys and surfaces, gentle and safe for sensitive skin.
    JoyDivision Clean'N'safe 100ml cleaning spray bottle for disinfecting intimate toys and surfaces, gentle and safe for sensitive skin.

    JoyDivision Cleaning Spray - 100ml

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    JoyDivision Clean'N'Safe Cleaning Spray  The Clean'N'safe cleaning, maintenance, and disinfection fluid cleans the things that have to be cleaned t...

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  • Janice Griffith Eden Fleshlight featuring signature textured sleeve and lifelike vaginal entry
    Fleshlight Girls Janice Griffith Eden masturbator with pearlescent case and realistic vaginal orifice

    Fleshlight Girls Masturbator - Janice Griffith

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    Fleshlight Girls Janice Griffith Eden Fleshlight Girls Janice Griffith Eden is the first Fleshlight to be released with a new and beautiful medium ...

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  • Black Oxballs Squeeze ball stretcher designed to gently pull down the testicles for prolonged sensation
    Oxballs Squeeze Ball Stretcher in soft, flexible silicone with thick, rounded edges for comfort and support

    Oxballs Ball Stretcher - Super Stretchy and Soft

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    Oxballs Squeeze Ball Stretcher  Colour Silver Oxballs SQUEEZE is a thick, blubbery ball stretcher that is designed to comfortably stretch the scrot...

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  • Close-up of EasyToys Ring Play showing flexible ring with built-in bullet vibrator
    EasyToys Ring Play vibrating cock ring made from soft, body-safe silicone for enhanced pleasure

    EasyToys Vibrating Cock Ring - Rechargeable Waterproof

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    EasyToys Ring Play in the Colour Grey These exciting EasyToys Ring Play Cock Ring will make your heart race. Whether you're a solo player or part o...

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  • Malesation Penis Pump Special – body-safe penis pump with transparent cylinder and easy-grip handle
    Malesation Penis Pump Special – manual enlargement device for improved erection strength and size

    Malesation Penis Pump - Increases Size

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    Malesation Penis Pump Special The Malesation Penis Pump Special is designed to support erection strength, stamina, and size through safe and contro...

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  • Romp Amp anal toy – discreet, powerful plug for solo or partner use
    Romp Amp anal plug – beginner-friendly plug for enhanced backdoor play

    Romp Butt Plug - Flexible Silicone

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    Romp Amp ROMP Amp is a small and flexible silicone anal bead toy designed to be worn during play or pulled out at just the right moment to heighten...

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  • Strap-on dildo by Malesation featuring realistic shape and secure harness system
    Malesation Boyfriend strap-on dildo with adjustable harness, in body-safe black silicone

    Malesation Strap-On Dildo - Black

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    Malesation Boyfriend Explore new depths of pleasure with the Malesation Boyfriend Strap-On Dildo.Designed for versatility and comfort, this body-sa...

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  • Flatlay of FeelzToys Motion Love Balls Foxy set including love balls, charging cable, and instructions on neutral background
    FeelzToys Motion Love Balls Foxy with contoured silicone body and soft retrieval cord

    FeelzToys Remote Controlled Panty Vibrator - USB Rechargeable

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    FeelzToys Motion Love Balls Foxy  Colour Purple The Feelztoys Motion Love Balls Foxy give you a damn fine feeling inside! The cone balls are playfu...

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