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Dear Desire stock a wide range of male sex toys. Namely: Masturbators, penis sleeves, cock rings, penis pumps and so much more!

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ANAL TOYS

Spice up your sex life with a selection of anal toys. Whether you're looking for a butt plug, anal beads, dildos or douches, we've got you covered.

DILDOS

Immerse yourself in the world of anal play. We offer a range of dildos. Whether you're looking for an ultra realistic, veiny dildo or a simple less intimidating dildo, we're bound to have what you're looking for.

COCK RINGS

Cock rings wrap around the base of your penis to help maintain a harder, bigger boner as well as helping you last longer during sex.

MASTURBATORS

Take solo play to a new level with our range of men's masturbators. Feel new heights of pleasure and climax with our ultra realistic pocket pussies or with our more futuristic hands free masturbators allowing you to relax and let the masturbator take the lead.

Men's Underwear

Want to feel masculine and sexy? Why not explore your kinky side with a open back jock strap or a skimpy micro v-string.

 

  • Mia Malkova edition stroker featuring realistic texture and ergonomic shape
    Fleshlight Quickshot Mia Malkova - compact male masturbator with open-ended design and textured inner sleeve
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    Fleshlight Quickshot Masturbator- Mia Malkova

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    Fleshlight Quickshot Mia Malkova The Mia Malkova Quickshot features unobstructed exit points molded from Mia's own vagina and butt. The Mia Malkova...

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  • Cup masturbator with red and white design, featuring flexible head for added motion
    Tenga Rolling Head Cup masturbator with red and white design, featuring flexible head for added motion

    Tenga Masturbator Cup - Disposable

    R 323.00 - R 323.00
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    Tenga Rolling Head Cup Ultimate Pleasure: The Tenga Rolling Head Cup male masturbator provides intense and continuous tightening with its spiral se...

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  • Illustrated cutaway of Sensation Cup showing textured inner sleeves with tough and tender zones
    Double-ended Tenga Dual Sensation Cup masturbator offering tough and tender sensations

    Tenga Masturbator Cup - Disposable

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    Tenga Dual Sensation Cup Double the sensation with the Tenga Dual Sensation Cup. A two-in-one blend of stimulation. The 'tough side' firmly tighten...

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  • Set of three Oxballs Ringer cock rings in smooth black silicone, designed for snug and comfortable fit
    Oxballs Ringer 3 Pack Cock Ring Set with three stretchy, round rings made from soft, body-safe silicone
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    Oxballs Cock Ring Set - Super Stretch 3 Pack

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    Oxballs Ringer 3 Pack Colour Steel Oxballs RINGER 3 pack - a multipack of thick cock rings that grip for a heftier package. Tight enough for the ri...

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  • Cocksling 2 by Oxballs in black, featuring ergonomic design for simultaneous shaft and ball engagement
    Oxballs Cocksling 2 cock and ball sling in soft, stretchy silicone with integrated openings for snug support

    Oxballs Cock & Ball Sling - Lightweight and Rubbery

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    Oxballs Cocksling 2  Oxballs COCKSLING-2 is one of a kind, best-selling FLEXtpr sling. It's futuristic design is lightweight and rubbery yet grips ...

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  • Fleshlight Ice Lady with lifelike vaginal orifice and see-through design for visual stimulation
    Fleshlight Ice Lady masturbator with clear case and transparent sleeve featuring a realistic vaginal opening

    Fleshlight Life-Like Masturbator - Transparent Sleeve

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    Fleshlight Ice Lady Get an eyeful of the inside action with Fleshlight's coolest self-pleasure device and only transparent model, the Fleshlight I...

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  • Close-up of Fleshlight Go Torque Ice’s realistic entry and detailed internal sleeve texture
    Fleshlight Go Torque Ice masturbator with compact, transparent case and lifelike entry

    Fleshlight Men's Masturbator - Transparent Sleeve

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    Fleshlight Go Torque Ice The Fleshlight GO Torque Ice is a compressed and portable version the original best-selling Fleshlight male self-pleasure...

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  • Tenga Flex Silky White – reusable male masturbator with gentle spiraling ribs and flexible casing for twisting suction sensations.
    Tenga Flex Silky Masturbator in White – spiral-ribbed male stroker with soft internal textures and suction-enhancing twist design.

    Tenga Reusable Masturbator - Flex Silky

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    Tenga Flex Silky Masturbator  The Tenga Flex Silky Masturbator spins, sucks and embraces you with its unique spiral-ribbed casing. There are two va...

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  • Flat lay of the Quickshot showing clear casing and textured interior, designed for compact stroking and easy cleaning.
    Flat lay of the Quickshot Vantage showing clear casing and textured interior, designed for compact stroking and easy cleaning.

    Fleshlight Masturbator - Quickshot Vantage

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    Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage  Meet the Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage Masturbator - Fleshlight's most compact sleeve to date. Watch every satisfying...

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  • Fleshlight Quickshot STU in its compact case, featuring open-ended design and discreet packaging for stamina training.
    Fleshlight Quickshot STU in its compact case, featuring open-ended design and discreet packaging for stamina training.

    Fleshlight Masturbator - Quickshot Stamina Training Unit0

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    Fleshlight Quickshot Stamina Training Unit  Practice makes perfect, especially in the bedroom. The Fleshlight Quickshot Stamina Training Unit is a ...

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  • Close-up of EasyToys Ring Play showing flexible ring with built-in bullet vibrator
    EasyToys Ring Play vibrating cock ring made from soft, body-safe silicone for enhanced pleasure

    EasyToys Vibrating Cock Ring - Rechargeable Waterproof

    R 566.00 - R 566.00
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    EasyToys Ring Play in the Colour Grey These exciting EasyToys Ring Play Cock Ring will make your heart race. Whether you're a solo player or part o...

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  • Malesation Penis Pump Special – body-safe penis pump with transparent cylinder and easy-grip handle
    Malesation Penis Pump Special – manual enlargement device for improved erection strength and size

    Malesation Penis Pump - Increases Size

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    Malesation Penis Pump Special The Malesation Penis Pump Special is designed to support erection strength, stamina, and size through safe and contro...

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  • sleek, rechargeable male pleasure device with app connectivity and multiple settings
    Lelo F1S V2x – advanced male masturbator with customizable vibration patterns and body-safe materials
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    Lelo App-Connected Masturbator - Waterproof

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    Lelo F1S V2x - Blue The enhanced m-cup design of the Lelo F1S V2x allows you to explore optimal satisfaction, with a pliable sleeve, a wider range ...

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  • body-safe, rechargeable vibrating ring for improved stamina and dual pleasure
    Malesation Spanning Vibro Ring – vibrating silicone penis ring designed for enhanced erection and clitoral stimulation

    Malesation Vibrating Penis Ring - Waterproof

    R 963.00 - R 963.00
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    Malesation Spanning Vibro Ring The Malesation Spanning Vibro Ring is a penis ring that can support a longer lasting and stronger erection. 2 motors...

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  • Black Oxballs Squeeze ball stretcher designed to gently pull down the testicles for prolonged sensation
    Oxballs Squeeze Ball Stretcher in soft, flexible silicone with thick, rounded edges for comfort and support

    Oxballs Ball Stretcher - Super Stretchy and Soft

    R 790.00 - R 790.00
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    Oxballs Squeeze Ball Stretcher  Colour Silver Oxballs SQUEEZE is a thick, blubbery ball stretcher that is designed to comfortably stretch the scrot...

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  • Black Oxballs Oxsling featuring thick, flexible rings and open base for secure, comfortable fit
    Oxballs Oxsling cocksling in soft, stretchy silicone with ergonomic shape for shaft and ball support

    Oxballs Cocksling - Soft and Smooth Silicone Stretch

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    Oxballs Oxsling  Colour Black Oxballs OXSLING - the cock sling from Oxballs made from PLUS+SILCONE that combines the strength and stretch of TPR wi...

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  • Janice Griffith Eden Fleshlight featuring signature textured sleeve and lifelike vaginal entry
    Fleshlight Girls Janice Griffith Eden masturbator with pearlescent case and realistic vaginal orifice

    Fleshlight Girls Masturbator - Janice Griffith

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    Fleshlight Girls Janice Griffith Eden Fleshlight Girls Janice Griffith Eden is the first Fleshlight to be released with a new and beautiful medium ...

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  • We-Vibe Verge Premium vibrating cock ring displayed next to a phone dispaying we-connect app
    We-Vibe Verge Premium vibrating cock ring in navy with ergonomic design and curved shape

    We-Vibe Vibrating Cock Ring - Rechargeable

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    We-Vibe Verge Premium Cock Ring We-Vibe Verge Premium Cock Ring stimulates you with luscious rumbling vibrations allowing for fuller longer-lasting...

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  • Oxballs realistic cocksheath with detailed shaft texture and open-ended tip for comfort
    Oxballs Dicker Ultra-Slim Cocksheath with realistic design for extended wear and added girth
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    Oxballs Dicker Ultra-Slim Cocksheath - Clear

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    Oxballs Dicker Ultra-Slim : Clear Ice Ultra Slim Cocksheath The Oxballs Dicker Ultra-Slim Cocksheath offers a clear and sleek design for an enhance...

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  • Hydromax7 Penis Pump – clear Bathmate pump designed to improve erection size and strength with safe, effective water pressure.
    Bathmate Hydromax7 Clear – water-based penis pump for erection enhancement, suitable for lengths up to 18cm.

    Bathmate Penis Pump - Hydromax7

    R 2,636.00 - R 2,636.00
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    Bathmate Hydromax7  Colour Clear The Hydromax7 is suitable for users with a current erection length of up to 18cm. The Bathmate Hydromax7 delivers ...

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  • Close-up of the Pink Lady sleeve texture
    Close-up of the Pink Lady Touch sleeve and lifelike vaginal opening, featuring soft SuperSkin and built-in vibrator slots.

    Fleshlight Masturbator - Vibro Pink Lady Touch

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    Fleshlight Vibro Pink Lady Touch  Fleshlight Vibro Pink Lady Touch combines the lifelike feel of Fleshlight’s signature SuperSkin with powerful vib...

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  • Close-up of the STU Fleshlight’s textured inner canal, featuring intense ridges designed to mimic real intercourse and build endurance.
    Fleshlight showing gold case and detailed textured sleeve designed for stamina and performance training.

    Fleshlight Masturbator - Pink Lady

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    Fleshlight Pink Lady Stamina Training Unit  Practice makes perfect, especially in the bedroom. The Fleshlight Pink Lady Stamina Training Unit Mastu...

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  • Unboxed Lovense Solace Pro with charging cable, storage pouch, and user manual
    Lovense Solace Pro dual-motor vibrator with curved shaft and app control for couples
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    Lovense Solace Pro Masturbator - App-Controlled

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    Lovense Solace Pro The Lovense Solace Pro uses solid materials for both durability and comfort. The outer shell is ABS plastic, which is tough and ...

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  • Malesation Vibro C&B Ring dual ring design for erection support and clitoral stimulation
    Malesation Vibro C&B Ring stretchy, body-safe silicone ring with powerful vibration for couples
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    Malesation Cock Ring - Waterproof Rechargeable

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    Malesation Vibro C&B Ring The Malesation Vibro C&B Ring is a penis/ testicles ring designed to help you achieve a longer-lasting and strong...

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