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A Dildo does not need to have veins, a pronounced head, or balls. There are endless options that aren’t shaped to look like a biological real penis. Think of a dildo as a blank canvas upon which to explore all your sex toy dreams. Whether you're a certified dildo enthusiast or on the brink of buying your very first one.

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Dildo Play

Playing with your dildo and correctly hitting your G Spot can lead to pleasurable orgasms. There are probably a billion different types of dildos on the market and just as many reasons someone might want to buy and use one.

Our range of Dildo toys include

Sex Toy Lubes

Lubes are a very important part of dildo play. Have a look at our selection of water based lubricants here  the more lube the better you must make sure everyone is comfortable.

There are different types of lubricants to suit different needs. It’s totally normal if you favor one over the rest, or if you like to switch things up depending on the situation. Whether you’re a first-time buyer or looking to expand your lubricant collection, there’s one out there for you, guaranteed.

How To Clean Your Dildo

Raise your hand if you’ve ever tossed a sex toy back into your goodie drawer after a job well done so you could roll over and enjoy the afterglow. It’s a good idea to clean any toy you’ve used right after you’ve used it.

Disinfecting and properly storing your sex accessories may be the last thing on your mind after using it.

Different materials require different care. it is always a good idea to also refer to your toy’s manual, if possible, to learn the best way to clean it.

  • Cleaning your toys removes material from the surface.
  • Disinfecting, or sanitizing, your toys destroys bacteria and certain pathogens to make something hygienic.
  • Sterilizing your toys kills absolutely all bacteria, viruses, and fungi.

When buying your Dildo it is always a good idea to buy some cleaning products to help the cleaning process, Have a look at the toy cleaners we have in stock 

Shop for Adult Toys discreetly and securely Online

Online shopping is convenient and enjoyable. Don’t worry if you are new to the online shopping experience. Everyone has to start somewhere! Find the products you want, click “buy now” and then checkout using the “checkout” button in your shopping cart once you are ready. Proceed with payment, sit back and relax. We take care of the rest.

We can assure you that every package is treated with the same high level of confidentiality and discretion. Every package is well-wrapped and there is no indication on the outside of where it comes from or what the contents are.

  • 7-inch body-safe silicone dildo with smooth finish and lifelike shape
    Adrien Lastic Silexpan 7 Inch – realistic silicone dildo with firm texture and ergonomic design

    Adrien Lastic Realistic Dildo - Caramel 7''

    Original price R 699.00 - Original price R 699.00
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    Adrien Lastic Silexpan  The Adrien Lastic Silexpan dildo, thanks to its special material Silexpan with thermo-reactive properties, you can heat it ...

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    Original price R 699.00 - Original price R 699.00
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  • Life-sized 10'' dildo with detailed head, lifelike shaft, and sturdy suction cup for hands-free play
    The Real One 10-inch dildo with realistic shape, textured veins, and strong suction cup base

    The Real One Realistic Dildo - Suction Cup 10''

    Original price R 599.00 - Original price R 599.00
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    The Real One Penis Suction Cup Dildo 10" Colour Flesh Big, bold, and built for realism. The Real One 10" Suction Cup Dildo delivers exactly what th...

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  • Wooomy Booom lifelike dildo designed for hands-free pleasure with strong suction
    Wooomy Booom Dildo with realistic shape and soft, body-safe silicone material

    Wooomy Realistic Dildo - Suction Cup

    Original price R 377.00 - Original price R 377.00
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    Wooomy Booom Dildo in the Colour Flesh The Wooomy Booom Dildo is a lifelike pleasure toy crafted for intense, realistic sensations. Made from soft,...

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  • Compact Swan Addiction Tino 5.25'' featuring realistic head and veined texture on white background
    Swan Addiction Tino 5.25'' realistic dildo in soft silicone with lifelike shape and smooth finish

    Swan Realistic Dildo - 5.25'' with Suction Cup

    Original price R 299.00 - Original price R 299.00
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    Swan Addiction Tino 5.25'' Dildo Colour Flesh It is true what they say fun really does come in all sizes! With this in mind, BMS Factory is welcomi...

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  • Malesation Barny dildo in retail packaging, red 12cm
    Malesation Barny 12cm red dildo with suction base

    Malesation Suction Dildo - 12cm

    Original price R 599.00 - Original price R 599.00
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    Malesation Barny 12cm Dildo  The Malesation Barny 12cm Dildo is highly imaginative and is ergonomic in design with a suction cup made of silicone. ...

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  • ergonomic, rechargeable dildo with powerful, adjustable vibrations
    Adrien Lastic Hitsens 2 Vibe – vibrating dildo with body-safe silicone and multiple vibration modes
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    Adrien Lastic Vibrating Dildo - Rechargeable

    Original price R 1,199.00 - Original price R 1,199.00
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    Adrien Lastic Hitsens 2 Vibe Adrien Lastic Hitsens 2 Vibe dildo is made with from patented Silexpan, it has a hard inner core with Silexpan filling...

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  • Smoke Oxballs Muscle Cocksheath – textured sheath with cocksling base and bullet insert, designed for partner and wearer stimulation.
    Oxballs Smooth Cocksheath – firm yet flexible cock sheath with internal texture and removable insert for a customizable fit.
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    Oxballs Cocksheath - Smooth Penis Sleeve

    Original price R 1,499.00 - Original price R 1,499.00
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    Oxballs Muscle Smooth Cocksheath Length Insert  Colour Smoke Oxballs Muscle Smooth Cocksheath Length Insert is an incredible balance of stretch, fi...

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  • Colorful Swan Addiction Cocktails Dildo featuring realistic head, veined texture, and flared base
    Swan Addiction Cocktails Dildo with lifelike shape and vibrant, cocktail-inspired color
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    Swan Suction-Cup Dildo - Phthalate and Latex Free

    Original price R 599.00 - Original price R 599.00
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    Swan Addiction Cocktails Dildo Swan Addiction Cocktails are 100% silicone as well as phthalate and latex free, making it super easy to clean. Stick...

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  • Wooomy Blubber Jelly realistic dildo made from body-safe, squishy material
    Wooomy Blubber Jelly dildo with soft, jelly-like texture and vibrant color design

    Wooomy Jelly Dildo - Suction Cup

    Original price R 356.00 - Original price R 356.00
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    Wooomy Blubber Jelly in the Colour Purple The Wooomy Blubber Jelly is a playful, flexible dildo designed for fun, lifelike pleasure. Made from soft...

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  • Strap-on dildo by Malesation featuring realistic shape and secure harness system
    Malesation Boyfriend strap-on dildo with adjustable harness, in body-safe black silicone

    Malesation Strap-On Dildo - Black

    Original price R 735.00 - Original price R 735.00
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    Malesation Boyfriend Explore new depths of pleasure with the Malesation Boyfriend Strap-On Dildo.Designed for versatility and comfort, this body-sa...

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  • Magic Flesh Strap-On – realistic dildo with harness, skin-like texture, and secure fit for couples exploring strap-on pleasure.
    Magic Flesh Strap-On Dildo in Flesh – lifelike strap-on with realistic shape and soft texture for satisfying penetrative play.

    Magic Flesh Strap-On Dildo - 7''

    Original price R 745.00 - Original price R 745.00
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     Magic Flesh Strap-On Dildo The Magic Flesh Strap-On Dildo is designed to bring you closer to lifelike penetration with its soft, skin-like textur...

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  • Massage Wand – glass double-ended dildo offering hot or cold sensations for teasing and deep pleasure.
    Fifty Shades Drive Me Crazy Glass Wand – double-ended glass dildo with temperature-responsive design for versatile stimulation.

    Fifty Shades Glass Dildo - Clear

    Original price R 559.00 - Original price R 559.00
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    Fifty Shades Glass Massage Wand Drive Me Crazy  Enjoy versatile sensations from each head of the Fifty Shades Glass Dildo double ended design. Temp...

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  • Close-up of silky smooth silicone shaft with realistic detailing and flexible structure
    Swan Addiction David 8" flesh-coloured silicone dildo with bendable shaft and suction base
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    Swan Realistic Dildo - Flesh 8''

    Original price R 1,225.00 - Original price R 1,225.00
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    Swan Addiction David Bendable 8"  Bend it like Beckham! Swan Addiction David Bendable 8" is a premium silicone dong has a silky smooth feel, and ho...

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  • Unboxed Wooomy Zooozy Jelly showing vibrant color and flexible, curved design
    Wooomy Zooozy Jelly vibrator with soft, translucent design and flexible shaft
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    Wooomy Jelly Dildo - Suction Cup

    Original price R 335.00 - Original price R 335.00
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    Wooomy Zooozy Jelly in the Colour Pink The Wooomy Zooozy Jelly is a playful and flexible dildo designed for lifelike pleasure with a soft, jelly-li...

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  • body-safe dildo with motion-activated weights for enhanced internal stimulation
    Fun Factory Bouncer dildo – silicone dildo with internal weighted balls for dynamic, bouncing sensation
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    Fun Factory Bouncer Dildo - Waterproof

    Original price R 1,999.00 - Original price R 1,999.00
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    Fun Factory Bouncer Dildo in the Colour Sage Green A dildo that offers additional stimulation from quiet rotating internal movement - the three rot...

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  •  flexible, body-safe dildo with harness for partner play
    Sex Companion double dildo strap-on -  silicone strap-on with dual-ended design for shared pleasure

    Sex Companion Strap On Dildo - Silicone

    Original price R 543.00 - Original price R 543.00
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    Sex Companion Double Silicone Dildo Strap On The Sex Companion Double Silicone Dildo Strap On provides powerful stimulation and satisfying penetrat...

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  • Close-up of Lovense Mini showing sleek motorized base and attachment mount
    Lovense Mini compact sex machine with adjustable thrusting arm and app control

    Lovense Mini Sex Machine - App-Controlled

    Original price R 8,999.00 - Original price R 8,999.00
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    Lovense Mini Sex Machine The Lovense Mini Sex Machine was designed for solo play, close-range, and long-distance control. Easy assembly process, st...

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    Original price R 8,999.00 - Original price R 8,999.00
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  • 7-inch body-safe silicone dildo with smooth finish and lifelike shape
    Adrien Lastic Silexpan 7 Inch – realistic silicone dildo with firm texture and ergonomic design

    Adrien Lastic Realistic Dildo - Brown 7''

    Original price R 699.00 - Original price R 699.00
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    Adrien Lastic Silexpan Dildo  The Adrien Lastic Silexpan dildo, thanks to its special material Silexpan with thermo-reactive properties, you can he...

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    Original price R 699.00 - Original price R 699.00
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  • 7-inch body-safe silicone dildo with smooth finish and lifelike shape
    Adrien Lastic Silexpan 7 Inch – realistic silicone dildo with firm texture and ergonomic design

    Adrien Lastic Realistic Dildo - Black 7''

    Original price R 699.00 - Original price R 699.00
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    Adrien Lastic Silexpan The Adrien Lastic Silexpan dildo, thanks to its special material Silexpan with thermo-reactive properties, you can heat it m...

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  • Allen King dildo molded from the adult star, featuring realistic veins, contours, and flared base
    Fleshjack Boys Allen King dildo with realistic shape, lifelike detailing, and firm silicone material
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    Fleshjack Realistic Dildo - Allen King

    Original price R 1,799.00 - Original price R 1,799.00
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    Fleshjack Boys Allen King Bring home one of the hottest stars in the industry—Allen King.Molded directly from the star himself, th...

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  • Fun Factory dildo flesh in upright position, showing its curved shaft and flared base designed for harness use and suction play.
    Fun Factory dildo black in upright position, showing its curved shaft and flared base designed for harness use and suction play.

    Fun Factory Suction Dildo - Boss Stub

    Original price R 959.00 - Original price R 959.00
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    Fun Factory Boss Stub The organic, slightly curved shape of this strong sex toy reaches the G-spot or P-spot all on its own. Thanks to the flat fo...

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  • Swan Simple and True finger vibrator designed for targeted clitoral or nipple pleasure
    Swan Simple and True Extra Touch Finger vibrator with flexible finger sleeve design

    Swan Finger Sleeve - Flexible

    Original price R 349.00 - Original price R 349.00
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    Swan Simple and True Extra Touch Finger The Extra Touch Finger is designed for when you want a little extra help to reach all the right spots. With...

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  • SC Jelly Probe Dildo made from body-safe, squishy material for lifelike sensations
    SC Jelly Penis Probe Dildo with translucent, flexible shaft and realistic detailing

    SC Jelly Penis Probe Dildo - 18cm

    Original price R 199.00 - Original price R 199.00
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    SC Jelly Penis Probe : Blue This blue SC  Jelly Penis Probe dildo is a versatile, body-safe toy made of high-quality materials. The sleek design an...

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  • Lovehoney Happy Rabbit Vibrating Strap-On Harness Set – body-safe silicone vibrator with ergonomic harness for secure fit
    Lovehoney Happy Rabbit Vibrating Strap-On Harness Set – adjustable harness with removable vibrating rabbit dildo

    Lovehoney Vibrating Strap On Harness Set - Rechargeable

    Original price R 2,179.00 - Original price R 2,179.00
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    Lovehoney Happy Rabbit Vibrating Strap On Harness Set  Strap in to enjoy sensational, shared pleasure with the Happy Rabbit Strap-On Harness Set. O...

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