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win big this black friday!

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  • Everyone's getting off this Black Friday! | Dear Desire
    October 23, 2024 Dear Desire

    BLACK FRIDAY: Gift Ideas for under R1000

    From vibrating toys to sensual lingerie, Dear Desire Adult Store has something for everyone. Treat yourself to a new toy or surprise your partner with a sexy gift that will keep the sparks flying all year long. With prices this low, you can afford to indulge in a little extra pleasure.
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  • Fck yourself: A blog on masturbation
    April 3, 2023 Dear Desire

    F*ck yourself: a blog on masturbation

    Masturbation is a common and natural human behaviour that involves self-stimulating one's own genitals for the purpose of experiencing sexual pleasure or orgasm. Despite being a normal part of human sexuality, it is often a taboo topic that many people feel uncomfortable discussing openly. 
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Dear Desire is an online adult sex toy store in South Africa promoting sexual wellbeing and pleasure while providing discreet packaging and delivery. Dear Desire specialize in Vibrators, Dildos, Masturbators, Anal toys, Bondage Toys, Lingerie, Cock Rings, Lubricants, Sex Toy Washes and other Sex Toys. Shop Adult Sex Toys Online at Dear Desire

Anal Sex Toys

Anal Play

You might think “anal play” means sticking stuff up your butt, and while that’s certainly part of it, anal play can encompass many a butt-centric sexual activity, like rimming, or anal massaging.

If you're curious enough to find out, don't let misinformation keep you from safely exploring anal sex. Have a look at what anal toys you would like to explore.

Different Types Of Anal Toys

  • Anal beads
  • Butt plugs
  • Kegel Balls
  • Prostate massagers
  • Vibrators
  • Dildos
  • Anal Douche

Male Masturbators

Dear Desire online adult sex toy store brings you Masturbator toys and other sex toys to choose from. Shop premium adult sex toys and quality adult accessories online in South Africa.

Male Masturbator Play

It's a brave new world out there in the male masturbator market.

Not all penises are created equal, and second, why can’t people with a penis get a little creative, as well? When it comes to the best sex toys for men, the first step is getting past whatever's kept you from using a male sex toy alone or with a partner.

A Masturbator is essentially a sleeve that you slip your penis into a place of getting plain-old handsy, a male masturbator is a man’s best bet at replicating the feeling of penetration in just his own company.

The next time you could use a little self-love, give your hands a break and your body a whole new silicone sensation.

Different types of Masturbators

  • Male masturbators
  • Handheld masturbators
  • Hands-free masturbators
  • Vibrating masturbators
  • Sex dolls masturbators
  • Real-feel vaginas
  • Stamina training masturbators

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Vibrators

Dear Desire online adult sex toy store brings you Vibrator toys and other sex toys to choose from. Shop premium adult sex toys and quality adult accessories online in South Africa.

Different Types Of Vibrators

  • Rabbit vibrators
  • Clitoral vibrators
  • Finger vibrators
  • G-spot vibrators
  • Nipple vibrators
  • Panty Vibrators

Take Foreplay To Another Level With Vibrators

Vibrators are a great sex toy for beginners who are looking for new ways to introduce sex toys into the bedroom or for the lovers that love a bit of spice. Vibrators of any shape and size can be used externally on every erogenous zone you can think of.

How To Clean your Vibrator

Raise your hand if you’ve ever tossed a sex toy back into your goodie drawer after a job well done so you could roll over and enjoy the afterglow. It’s a good idea to clean any vibrator toy you’ve used right after you’ve used it.

Disinfecting and properly storing your sex accessories may be the last thing on your mind after using it.

Different materials require different care. It is always a good idea to also refer to your toy’s manual, if possible, to learn the best way to clean it.

    Dildos

    Dear Desire online adult sex toy store brings you Dildo sex toys and other sex toys to choose from. Shop premium adult sex toys and quality adult accessories online in South Africa

    Dildo Play

    A dildo does not need to have veins, a pronounced head, or balls. There are endless options that aren’t shaped to look like a biological real penis. Think of dildos as a blank canvas upon which to explore all your sex toy dreams. Whether you're a certified dildo enthusiast or on the brink of buying your very first one.

    Playing with your dildo and correctly hitting your G-Spot can lead to pleasurable orgasms.

    There are probably a billion different types of dildos on the market and just as many reasons someone might want to buy and use one.

    Different Types Of Dildos Toys

    • Vibrating Dildos
    • Classic Dildos
    • Realistic Dildos
    • Strap on Dildos
    • Glass Dildos
    • Suction Cup Dildos
    • Double ended Dildos
    • Dongs
    • Hand free

    Dildo Sex Toy Lubes

    Lubes are a very important part of Dildo play. Have a look at our selection of water based lubricants here the more lube the better, to make sure everyone is comfortable.

    There are different types of lubricants to suit different needs. It’s totally normal if you favor one over the rest, or if you like to switch things up depending on the situation. Whether you’re a first-time buyer or looking to expand your lubricant collection, there’s one out there for you, guaranteed.