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  • gentle, water-based intimate gel designed for long-lasting hydration and comfort
    Assegai Original Water-Based Lubricant 125ml – body-safe, natural-feeling water-based lubricant for smooth intimate moisture
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    Assegai Original | Water-Based Lubricant 125ML

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    Assegai Original Assegai Personal Lubricant Original 125ml provides long-lasting personal lubrication that has been specially formulated to enhance...

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  • body-safe water-based lubricant featuring a refreshing tropical aroma and long-lasting hydration
    Assegai Tropical Lubricant 125ml – water-based lubricant with tropical fruit scent for smooth, natural-feeling intimate moisture

    Assegai Tropical | Lubricant 125ML

    R 105.00 - R 105.00
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    Assegai Tropical Assegai Tropical Personal Lubricant Original 125ml provides long-lasting personal lubrication that has been specially formulated t...

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  • herbal erection booster formulated to support stronger, longer-lasting erections
    Buffel Horing Erection Booster – natural supplement designed to enhance male stamina and erection quality

    Buffel Horing | Erection Booster

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    Buffel Horing 15 caps Buffel-Horing Erection Booster – boost your erection to the next level. In just 40 minutes after taking the recommended dosag...

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  • Fleshlube Water-Based Lube – silky, medical-grade lubricant by Fleshlight for enhanced solo or partnered pleasure.
    Fleshlight Fleshlube – premium water-based lubricant designed for Fleshlight toys or partner play, smooth and body-safe.

    Fleshlube Water-based Lubricant - 100ml

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    Fleshlight Fleshlube  This premium water-based Fleshlube Water lubricant is the perfect complement to sexual activities. Whether its with a Fleshl...

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  • JoyDivision Aquaglide 200ml water-based lubricant in a clear bottle, designed for long-lasting moisture and body-safe comfort.
    JoyDivision Aquaglide 200ml water-based lubricant in a clear bottle, designed for long-lasting moisture and body-safe comfort.

    JoyDivision Water-based Lubricant - 200ml

    R 479.00 - R 479.00
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    JoyDivision Aquaglide Immerse into an overwhelming feeling during love play: The crystal-clear original JoyDivision Aquaglide is a medical lubrican...

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  • body-safe silicone massager designed for deep muscle and intimate stimulation
    Lovense Domi 2 – powerful rechargeable wand massager with multiple vibration modes and ergonomic design
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    Lovense Domi 2 | Wand Massager

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    Lovense Domi 2 Lovense Domi 2 is a wand vibrator with a longer battery life and efficient Bluetooth 5.0 chip and an upgraded antenna. Close Range C...

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  • Malesation Silicone Lubricant bottle styled among massage candles and towels, suggesting a sensual experience.
    50ml Malesation Silicone Lubricant in a sleek black bottle with red logo, standing upright on a neutral background.

    Malesation Silicone Lubricant - 50ml

    R 155.00 - R 155.00
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    Malesation Silicone Lubricant Malesation Silicone Lubricant is an exceptionally long prolonged lubricant on silicone base, free from smell and tast...

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  • Front view of Malesation Vibro Pleasure packaging, designed for couples with powerful vibrating motor
    Malesation Vibro Pleasure vibrating penis ring in sleek black silicone with removable bullet vibrator

    Malesation Vibro Pleasure | Vibrating Penis Ring

    R 799.00 - R 799.00
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    Malesation Vibro Pleasure Malesation Vibro Pleasure is a penis/testicle ring with an innovative and ergonomic design. The penis and testicles are f...

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  • Malesation Water-based Lubricant 50ml – front view of the bottle on white background
    Malesation Water-based Lubricant 50ml – front view of the bottle on white background

    Malesation Water-based Lubricant - 50ml

    R 109.00 - R 109.00
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    Malesation Water-based Lubricant Malesation water-based lubricant is a dermatologically approved, long lasting lubricant that is free from smell an...

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  • Manscent Poppers 30ml – powerful room aroma used for enhanced experiences; not for human consumption.
    Manscent 30ml Poppers – strong liquid aroma popular in European saunas, known for its intense, stimulating scent.

    Manscent Poppers - 30ml

    R 199.00 - R 199.00
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    Manscent 30ml Poppers Manscent liquid aroma. Manscent 30ml Poppers are extremely popular in European saunas, Manscent is a pure and powerful brand ...

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  • Set of three Oxballs Ringer cock rings in smooth black silicone, designed for snug and comfortable fit
    Oxballs Ringer 3 Pack Cock Ring Set with three stretchy, round rings made from soft, body-safe silicone
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    Oxballs Cock Ring Set - Super Stretch 3 Pack

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    Oxballs Ringer 3 Pack Cock Ring Set  Colour Black Oxballs RINGER 3 pack - a multipack of thick cock rings that grip for a heftier package. Tight en...

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  • Set of three Oxballs Ringer cock rings in smooth black silicone, designed for snug and comfortable fit
    Oxballs Ringer 3 Pack Cock Ring Set with three stretchy, round rings made from soft, body-safe silicone
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    Oxballs Cock Ring Set - Super Stretch 3 Pack

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    Oxballs Ringer 3 Pack Colour Steel Oxballs RINGER 3 pack - a multipack of thick cock rings that grip for a heftier package. Tight enough for the ri...

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  • Pjur Original Silicone Lubricant 100ml – premium long-lasting personal lubricant in sleek black bottle
    Pjur Original Silicone Lubricant 100ml – premium long-lasting personal lubricant in sleek black bottle
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    Pjur Silicone lubricant - 100ml

    R 399.00 - R 399.00
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    Pjur Original Silicone Lubricant This premium formula is an exceptional personal lubricant and a massage gel. The silicone molecules remain on the ...

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  • Pjur Aqua 100ml water-based lubricant in a sleek black bottle with blue and white label.
    Pjur Aqua 100ml water-based lubricant in a sleek black bottle with blue and white label.
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    Pjur Water-based Lubricant - 100ml

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    Pjur Aqua Water-based Lubricant Pjur Aqua Water-based Lubricant for penile and/or vaginal application, intended to moisturize and lubricate, enhanc...

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  • Pjur Aqua 30ml water-based lubricant in a sleek black bottle with blue and white label.
    Pjur Aqua 30ml water-based lubricant in a sleek black bottle with blue and white label.

    Pjur Water-based Lubricant - 30ml

    R 179.00 - R 179.00
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    Pjur Aqua Water-based Lubricant  Pjur Aqua Water-based Lubricant for penile and/or vaginal application, intended to moisturize and lubricate, enhan...

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  • PJUR Woman | Silicone Lubricant 100ml | Dear Desire
    PJUR Woman | Silicone Lubricant 100ml | Dear Desire
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    PJUR Woman | Silicone Lubricant

    R 389.00 - R 389.00
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    PJUR Woman Personal Silicone Lubricant 100ml Pjur Woman is specifically designed to help you feel great and intensify sensation. Pjur WOMAN Silicon...

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  • body-safe erection cream formulated to support stronger, longer-lasting erections
    Rock Solid Erection Cream – topical cream designed to enhance erection firmness and improve sexual performance

    Rock Solid | Erection Cream 1.5 OZ.

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    Rock Solid Erection Cream 1.5 OZ. When you want to ROCK all night long… You gotta use something special. Rock Solid Erection Cream gives you stayin...

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  • Rush Poppers 30ml – popular liquid aroma in bold yellow bottle, designed for powerful scent experiences. Not for human consumption.
    Rush 30ml Poppers – strong liquid aroma widely used in European saunas, known for its intense and stimulating scent.

    Rush Poppers - 30ml

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    Rush 30ml Poppers Rush liquid aroma. Extremely popular in European saunas, Rush poppers are a pure and powerful brand that is guaranteed to deliver...

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  • Stud 100 Desensitizing Spray – licensed spray for men that helps manage premature ejaculation by reducing sensitivity.
    Stud 100 Delay Spray – desensitizing spray for men designed to help delay ejaculation by reducing penile sensitivity.

    Stud 100 Delay Spray - 12g

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    Stud 100 Delay Spray  STUD 100 Desensitizing Spray for Men has been licensed in the UK since 1972 and is a licensed topical spray. How it works: It...

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  • Swan Alice's Bunny mini rabbit vibrator with soft silicone body and dual stimulating tips
    Hand holding the Swan Alice's Bunny, showing compact size and flexible tips

    Swan Alices Bunny | Mini Rabbit Vibrator

    R 699.00 - R 699.00
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    Swan Alices Bunny Colour Purple Experience 2-in-1 pleasure with the multifunction Swan Alices Bunny that comes suited up in a removable rabbit slee...

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  • Swan Compact Bullet Point Vibrator held in hand, showing its petite size and curved tip for focused clitoral stimulation.
    Swan Compact Bullet Point Vibrator shown flat, highlighting its lipstick-like design and travel-friendly shape.
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    Swan Bullet Vibrator - Waterproof USB Rechargeable

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    Swan Compact Bullet Point Clitoral Vibrator  Colour Pink  The Swan Compact Bullet Point Clitoral Vibrator is perfect for on-the-go adventures and c...

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  • Swan Compact Bullet Point Vibrator held in hand, showing its petite size and curved tip for focused clitoral stimulation.
    Swan Compact Bullet Point Vibrator shown flat, highlighting its lipstick-like design and travel-friendly shape.
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    Swan Bullet Vibrator - Waterproof USB Rechargeable

    R 375.00 - R 375.00
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    Swan Compact Bullet Point Clitoral Vibrator  The Swan Compact Bullet Point Clitoral Vibrator is perfect for on-the-go adventures and can fit right ...

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  • Swan Compact Bullet Point Vibrator held in hand, showing its petite size and curved tip for focused clitoral stimulation.
    Swan Compact Bullet Point Clitoral Vibrator – discreet, travel-friendly vibe with soft tip, strong vibrations, and secure travel lock.

    Swan Bullet Vibrator - Waterproof USB Rechargeable

    R 375.00 - R 375.00
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    Swan Compact Bullet Point Clitoral Vibrator  The Swan Compact Bullet Point Clitoral Vibrator is perfect for on-the-go adventures and can fit right ...

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  • Purple Swan Bullet Point Vibrator – compact clitoral vibe with powerful vibrations and travel lock, perfect for your purse.
    Swan Compact Bullet Point Vibrator in Purple – discreet, lipstick-sized clitoral vibe with travel lock for secure, on-the-go pleasure.
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    Swan Bullet Vibrator - Waterproof USB Rechargeable

    R 375.00 - R 375.00
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    Swan Compact Bullet Point Clitoral Vibrator  Swan Compact Bullet Point Clitoral Vibrator is perfect for on-the-go adventures and can fit right in y...

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  • herbal formula to enhance female sexual desire and improve intimacy
    The Pink Pill For Women – natural supplement designed to support female libido and sexual wellness
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    The Pink Pill For Women

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    The Pink Pill For Women Revive and ignite your passion! Is intimacy the furthest thing from your mind? Finally, women have access to a sexual vital...

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  • gentle, body-safe cleaner spray formulated to sanitize sex toys and cleanse skin
    Var. Joyride Toy & Body Cleaner Spray – disinfectant spray designed for safe cleaning of intimate toys and skin

    Var. Joyride | Toy & Body Cleaner Spray

    R 169.00 - R 169.00
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    Var. Joyride Toy & Body Cleaner Spray  150ml JOYRIDE Cleaner for Toys & Body is an effective cleaning spray for cleaning your sex toys and ...

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