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  • gentle, water-based intimate gel designed for long-lasting hydration and comfort
    Assegai Original Water-Based Lubricant 125ml – body-safe, natural-feeling water-based lubricant for smooth intimate moisture
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    Assegai Original | Water-Based Lubricant 125ML

    Original price R 105.00 - Original price R 105.00
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    R 105.00
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    Assegai Original Assegai Personal Lubricant Original 125ml provides long-lasting personal lubrication that has been specially formulated to enhance...

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    Original price R 105.00 - Original price R 105.00
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  • body-safe water-based lubricant featuring a refreshing tropical aroma and long-lasting hydration
    Assegai Tropical Lubricant 125ml – water-based lubricant with tropical fruit scent for smooth, natural-feeling intimate moisture

    Assegai Tropical | Lubricant 125ML

    Original price R 105.00 - Original price R 105.00
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    R 105.00
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    Assegai Tropical Assegai Tropical Personal Lubricant Original 125ml provides long-lasting personal lubrication that has been specially formulated t...

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    Original price R 105.00 - Original price R 105.00
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  •  herbal erection booster formulated to support stronger, longer-lasting erections
    Buffel Horing Erection Booster – natural supplement designed to enhance male stamina and erection quality
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    Buffel Horing | Erection Booster

    Original price R 255.00 - Original price R 255.00
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    R 255.00
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    Buffel Horing 15 caps Buffel-Horing Erection Booster – boost your erection to the next level. In just 40 minutes after taking the recommended dosag...

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    Original price R 255.00 - Original price R 255.00
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  • Fleshlube 100ml | Water-based Lubricant | Dear Desire
    Fleshlube 100ml | Water-based Lubricant | Dear Desire

    Fleshlube 100ml | Water-based Lubricant

    Original price R 299.00 - Original price R 299.00
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    R 299.00
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    Fleshlight Fleshlube  This premium water-based Fleshlube Water lubricant is the perfect complement to sexual activities. Whether its with a Fleshl...

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    Original price R 299.00 - Original price R 299.00
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    R 299.00
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  • JoyDivision Aquaglide 200ml | Water-based Lubricant | Dear Desire
    JoyDivision Aquaglide 200ml | Water-based Lubricant | Dear Desire

    JoyDivision Aquaglide 200ml | Water-based Lubricant

    Original price R 479.00 - Original price R 479.00
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    R 479.00
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    JoyDivision Water-based Lubricant  200ml Immerse into an overwhelming feeling during love play: The crystal-clear original Aquaglide is a medical l...

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    Original price R 479.00 - Original price R 479.00
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    R 479.00
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  • body-safe silicone massager designed for deep muscle and intimate stimulation
    Lovense Domi 2 – powerful rechargeable wand massager with multiple vibration modes and ergonomic design

    Lovense Domi 2 | Wand Massager

    Original price R 3,099.00 - Original price R 3,099.00
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    Lovense Domi 2 Lovense Domi 2 is a wand vibrator with a longer battery life and efficient Bluetooth 5.0 chip and an upgraded antenna. Close Range C...

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    Original price R 3,099.00 - Original price R 3,099.00
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    R 3,099.00
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  • Malesation Silicone Glide 50ml | Silicone Lubricant | Dear Desire
    Malesation Silicone Glide 50ml | Silicone Lubricant | Dear Desire

    Malesation Silicone Glide 50ml | Silicone Lubricant

    Original price R 155.00 - Original price R 155.00
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    Malesation Silicone Lubricant 50ml Exceptionally long prolonged lubricant on silicone base, free from smell and taste-materials, skin-compatibility...

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    Original price R 155.00 - Original price R 155.00
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    R 155.00
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  • Front view of Malesation Vibro Pleasure packaging, designed for couples with powerful vibrating motor
    Malesation Vibro Pleasure vibrating penis ring in sleek black silicone with removable bullet vibrator

    Malesation Vibro Pleasure | Vibrating Penis Ring

    Original price R 799.00 - Original price R 799.00
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    R 799.00
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    Malesation Vibro Pleasure Malesation Vibro Pleasure is a penis/testicle ring with an innovative and ergonomic design. The penis and testicles are f...

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    Original price R 799.00 - Original price R 799.00
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    R 799.00
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  • Malesation Water Glide 50ml | Water-based Lubricant | Dear Desire
    Malesation Water Glide 50ml | Water-based Lubricant | Dear Desire

    Malesation Water Glide 50ml | Water-based Lubricant

    Original price R 109.00 - Original price R 109.00
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    R 109.00
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    Malesation Water-based Lubricant 50ml Malesation water based lubricant is a dermatologically approved, long lasting lubricant that is free from sme...

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    Original price R 109.00 - Original price R 109.00
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    R 109.00
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  • Manscent 30ml | Poppers | Dear Desire
    Manscent 30ml | Poppers | Dear Desire

    Manscent 30ml | Poppers

    Original price R 199.00 - Original price R 199.00
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    R 199.00
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    Manscent 30ml Poppers Man Scent liquid aroma. Extremely popular in European saunas, Man Scent is a pure and powerful brand that is guaranteed to de...

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    Original price R 199.00 - Original price R 199.00
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  • Oxballs Ringer 3 Pack | Cock Ring Set | Black | Dear Desire
    Oxballs Ringer 3 Pack | Cock Ring Set | Black | Dear Desire

    Oxballs Ringer 3 Pack | Cock Ring Set

    Original price R 459.00 - Original price R 459.00
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    R 459.00
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    Oxballs Ringer 3 Pack Cock Ring Set  Colour Black RINGER 3 pack - a multipack of thick cock rings that grip for a heftier package. Tight enough for...

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    Original price R 459.00 - Original price R 459.00
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  • Oxballs Ringer 3 Pack | Cock Ring Set | Steel | Dear Desire
    Oxballs Ringer 3 Pack | Cock Ring Set | Steel | Dear Desire
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    Oxballs Ringer 3 Pack | Cock Ring Set

    Original price R 425.00 - Original price R 425.00
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    R 425.00
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    Oxballs Ringer 3 Pack Cock Ring Set Colour Steel RINGER 3 pack - a multipack of thick cock rings that grip for a heftier package. Tight enough for ...

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    Original price R 425.00 - Original price R 425.00
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  • Pjur Aqua | Water-based Lubricant 30ml | Dear Desire
    Pjur Aqua | Water-based Lubricant 30ml | Dear Desire

    Pjur Aqua | Water-based Lubricant

    Original price R 179.00 - Original price R 179.00
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    R 179.00
    R 179.00 - R 179.00
    Current price R 179.00

    Pjur Aqua Water-based Lubricant 30ml Pjur® AQUA is a water-based personal lubricant for penile and/or vaginal application, intended to moisturize ...

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    Original price R 179.00 - Original price R 179.00
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    R 179.00
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  • Pjur Aqua | Water-based Lubricant 100ml | Dear Desire
    Pjur Aqua | Water-based Lubricant 100ml | Dear Desire
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    Pjur Aqua | Water-based Lubricant

    Original price R 280.00 - Original price R 280.00
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    R 280.00
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    Current price R 280.00

    Pjur Aqua Water-based Lubricant 100ml Pjur® AQUA is a water-based personal lubricant for penile and/or vaginal application, intended to moisturize ...

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    Original price R 280.00 - Original price R 280.00
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    R 280.00
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  • Pjur Original | Silicone lubricant 100ml | Dear Desire
    Pjur Original | Silicone lubricant 100ml | Dear Desire

    Pjur Original | Silicone lubricant

    Original price R 399.00 - Original price R 399.00
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    R 399.00
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    Pjur Original Silicone Lubricant 100ml This premium formula is an exceptional personal lubricant and a massage gel. The silicone molecules remain ...

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    Original price R 399.00 - Original price R 399.00
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  • PJUR Woman | Silicone Lubricant 100ml | Dear Desire
    PJUR Woman | Silicone Lubricant 100ml | Dear Desire

    PJUR Woman | Silicone Lubricant

    Original price R 389.00 - Original price R 389.00
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    R 389.00
    R 389.00 - R 389.00
    Current price R 389.00

    PJUR Woman Personal Silicone Lubricant 100ml Pjur Woman is specifically designed to help you feel great and intensify sensation. Pjur WOMAN Silicon...

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    Original price R 389.00 - Original price R 389.00
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  • body-safe erection cream formulated to support stronger, longer-lasting erections
    Rock Solid Erection Cream – topical cream designed to enhance erection firmness and improve sexual performance

    Rock Solid | Erection Cream 1.5 OZ.

    Original price R 239.00 - Original price R 239.00
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    R 239.00
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    Rock Solid Erection Cream 1.5 OZ. When you want to ROCK all night long… You gotta use something special. Rock Solid Erection Cream gives you stayin...

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    Original price R 239.00 - Original price R 239.00
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  • Rush 30ml |  Poppers | Dear Desire
    Rush 30ml |  Poppers | Dear Desire

    Rush 30ml | Poppers

    Original price R 219.00 - Original price R 219.00
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    R 219.00
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    Current price R 219.00

    Rush 30ml Poppers Rush liquid aroma. Extremely popular in European saunas, Rush is a pure and powerful brand that is guaranteed to deliver a breath...

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    Original price R 219.00 - Original price R 219.00
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  • Stud 100 | Delay Spray | Dear Desire
    Stud 100 | Delay Spray | Dear Desire
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    Stud 100 | Delay Spray

    Original price R 315.00 - Original price R 315.00
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    R 315.00
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    Stud 100 Delay Spray  STUD 100 Desensitizing Spray for Men has been licensed in the UK since 1972 and is a licensed topical spray. How it works: It...

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    Original price R 315.00 - Original price R 315.00
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  • Swan Alice's Bunny mini rabbit vibrator with soft silicone body and dual stimulating tips
    Hand holding the Swan Alice's Bunny, showing compact size and flexible tips

    Swan Alices Bunny | Mini Rabbit Vibrator

    Original price R 699.00 - Original price R 699.00
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    R 699.00
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    Current price R 699.00

    Swan Alices Bunny Colour Purple Experience 2-in-1 pleasure with the multifunction Swan Alices Bunny that comes suited up in a removable rabbit slee...

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    Original price R 699.00 - Original price R 699.00
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    R 699.00
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  • Swan Compact Bullet Point Purple | Clitoral Vibrator | Dear Desire
    Swan Compact Bullet Point Purple | Clitoral Vibrator | Dear Desire
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    Swan Compact Bullet Point Purple | Clitoral Vibrator

    Original price R 375.00 - Original price R 375.00
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    R 375.00
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    Current price R 375.00

    Swan Compact Bullet Point Clitoral Vibrator  Colour Purple This compact toy is perfect for on-the-go adventures and can fit right in your purse jus...

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    Original price R 375.00 - Original price R 375.00
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  • Swan Compact Bullet Point Teal | Clitoral Vibrator | Dear Desire
    Swan Compact Bullet Point Teal | Clitoral Vibrator | Dear Desire

    Swan Compact Bullet Point Teal | Clitoral Vibrator

    Original price R 375.00 - Original price R 375.00
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    R 375.00
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    Swan Compact Bullet Point Clitoral Vibrator  Colour Teal This compact toy is perfect for on-the-go adventures and can fit right in your purse just ...

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    Original price R 375.00 - Original price R 375.00
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    R 375.00
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  • Swan Compact Bullet Point Clitoral Vibrator - Pink | Dear Desire
    Swan Compact Bullet Point Clitoral Vibrator - Pink | Dear Desire
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    Swan Compact Bullet Point | Clitoral Vibrator

    Original price R 375.00 - Original price R 375.00
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    R 375.00
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    Swan Compact Bullet Point Clitoral Vibrator  Colour Pink  This compact toy is perfect for on-the-go adventures and can fit right in your purse just...

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    Original price R 375.00 - Original price R 375.00
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  • Swan Compact Bullet Point Clitoral Vibrator - Black | Dear Desire
    Swan Compact Bullet Point Clitoral Vibrator - Black | Dear Desire
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    Swan Compact Bullet Point | Clitoral Vibrator

    Original price R 375.00 - Original price R 375.00
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    R 375.00
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    Swan Compact Bullet Point Clitoral Vibrator  Colour Black This compact toy is perfect for on-the-go adventures and can fit right in your purse just...

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    Original price R 375.00 - Original price R 375.00
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