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Dear Desire is an online adult store promoting sexual wellbeing and pleasure while providing discreet premium packaging. Our aim is to fulfil all your intimate desires all while taking the stigma out of self gratification.

Looking for new ways to improve your sex life? Dear Desire stock a range of better sex products. From Penis Pumps to Pheromones to Massage Oils, you are bound to find something to help. 

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Penis Pumps

A penis pump can be used as a treatment for erectile dysfunction. A penis pump will help you achieve erection and stay hard for longer. It is important to take precautions when using a penis pump as there is a slight risk or damage or side effects when used incorrectly.  But when used correctly, penis pumps can be a life saver in the bedroom. 

Pheromones

Pheromones can play a role in the way you are perceived by the opposite sex. Pheromones are similar to hormones, except instead of working inside the body, they work outside the body and can have an influence on the behavior of other individuals around you. Use pheromones to attract the attention of your lover and spice things up.

Massage Oils 

Set the mood by surprising your lover with a romantic massage. Light some candles, dim the lights and let the oils slip between bodies as you begin foreplay. 

 

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  • Pjur myspray - 20 ml | Dear Desire
    Pjur myspray - 20 ml | Dear Desire
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    Pjur | myspray

    Pjur myspray 20ml  Stimulating intimate spray for women. The active ingredients increase blood circulation in the intimate area and can enhance sen...

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    Waterglide Warming 300 ml | Lubricant

    Waterglide Warming 300 ml  Lubricant and sensation gel for a more intensive feel and sensuality. Made in Germany

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    Pjur Superhero Spray | Performance Spray

    Pjur Superhero Spray  20ml Delay spray for men, without lidocaine or benzocaine! The active ingredients are absorbed by the top layer of skin and c...

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  • Pjur Med Pro-Long Spray - 20ml | Dear Desire
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    Pjur Med | Pro-Long Spray

    Pjur Med Pro-Long Spray  20ml Pjur med PRO-LONG spray with oakbark extract for external use on the penis. The active ingredient tannic acid derived...

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  • Malesation | Penis Pump Starter One | Dear Desire
    Malesation | Penis Pump Starter One | Dear Desire
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    Malesation | Penis Pump Starter One

    Malesation Penis Pump Starter One The Malesation Penis Pump Starter One can support a longer-lasting and stronger erection. The transparent cylinde...

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    Mister BIG | Enlarging Cream

    Mister BIG | Enlarging Cream This penis enlargement cream is not only a brilliant supplement to a penis enlargement pump but when used on its own f...

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    Waterglide Tingling 300 ml | Lubricant

    Waterglide Tingling 300 ml Lubricant and sensation gel for magical moments together. Made in Germany 

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  • Var. Hot XXL Creme For Men - 50ml | Dear Desire
    Var. Hot XXL Creme For Men - 50ml | Dear Desire
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    Var. Hot XXL Creme For Men | Penis Enlargement Cream

    Var. Hot XXL Creme For Men  50ml The XXL penis enlargement cream helps you achieve better and long-lasting erections. You need not think about prem...

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  • Lai Long | Desensitizing Delay Brush for Men 4ml | Dear Desire
    Lai Long | Desensitizing Delay Brush for Men 4ml | Dear Desire
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    Lai Long | Desensitizing Delay Brush for Men 4ml

    Lai Long Desensitizing Delay Brush for Men 4ml  A secret Traditional Chinese recipe passed down from generation to generation. This delay ointment ...

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  • Malesation | Penis Pump | Dear Desire
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    Malesation | Penis Pump

    Malesation Penis Pump Made of ABS plastic. latex- and phthalate-free. The transparent cylinder is high quality processed. easy to disassemble and t...

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    Fair Squared Ultrathin | Condoms 10 pack

    Fair Squared Ultrathin Condoms 10 pack Extra Thin, Smooth, cylindrically shaped condoms made of fairly traded rubber. Wet, transparent, with reserv...

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    Fair Squared Sensitive Dry | Condoms 10 pack

    Fair Squared Sensitive Dry Condoms 10 pack Dry, Smooth, cylindrically shaped condoms made of fairly traded rubber. Transparent, with reservoir tip....

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    AnalPlease Peach Flavor | Desensitizer Cream

    AnalPlease Desensitizer Cream  Peach flavored anal de-sensitizing cream. Contains 1.5 Oz tube

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  • Bathmate Hydro7 Penis Pump - Blue | Dear Desire
    Bathmate Hydro7 Penis Pump - Blue | Dear Desire
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    Bathmate Hydro7 | Penis Pump

    Bathmate Hydro7  Colour Blue The easy-to-use Bathmate Hydro Series is the perfect starting point. When in the shower or bath, just add water, atta...

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