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Looking for new ways to improve your sex life? Dear Desire stock a range of better sex products. From Penis Pumps to Pheromones to Massage Oils, you are bound to find something to help. 

Dear Desire is an online adult store promoting sexual wellbeing and pleasure while providing discreet premium packaging. Our aim is to fulfil all your intimate desires all while taking the stigma out of self gratification.

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Penis Pumps

A penis pump can be used as a treatment for erectile dysfunction. A penis pump will help you achieve erection and stay hard for longer, helping with better sex. It is important to take precautions when using a penis pump as there is a slight risk or damage or side effects when used incorrectly.  But when used correctly, penis pumps can be a life saver in the bedroom. 

Pheromones

Pheromones can play a role in the way you are perceived by the opposite sex. Pheromones are similar to hormones, except instead of working inside the body, they work outside the body and can have an influence on the behavior of other individuals around you. Use pheromones to attract the attention of your lover and spice things up.

Massage Oils 

Set the mood by surprising your lover with a romantic massage. Light some candles, dim the lights and let the oils slip between bodies as you begin foreplay. 

 

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  • herbal erection booster formulated to support stronger, longer-lasting erections
    Buffel Horing Erection Booster – natural supplement designed to enhance male stamina and erection quality
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    Buffel Horing | Erection Booster

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    Buffel Horing 15 caps Buffel-Horing Erection Booster – boost your erection to the next level. In just 40 minutes after taking the recommended dosag...

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  • Rush 30ml | Poppers | Dear Desire
    Rush 30ml | Poppers | Dear Desire
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    Rush 30ml Poppers Rush liquid aroma. Extremely popular in European saunas, Rush is a pure and powerful brand that is guaranteed to deliver a breath...

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    Manscent 30ml Poppers Man Scent liquid aroma. Extremely popular in European saunas, Man Scent is a pure and powerful brand that is guaranteed to de...

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    Rock Solid Erection Cream – topical cream designed to enhance erection firmness and improve sexual performance
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    Rock Solid | Erection Cream 1.5 OZ.

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    Rock Solid Erection Cream 1.5 OZ. When you want to ROCK all night long… You gotta use something special. Rock Solid Erection Cream gives you stayin...

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    The Pink Pill For Women – natural supplement designed to support female libido and sexual wellness
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    The Pink Pill For Women Revive and ignite your passion! Is intimacy the furthest thing from your mind? Finally, women have access to a sexual vital...

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    Stud 100 | Delay Spray | Dear Desire
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    Stud 100 Delay Spray  STUD 100 Desensitizing Spray for Men has been licensed in the UK since 1972 and is a licensed topical spray. How it works: It...

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  • Dr Long’s FXXK Capsules designed to support energy, stamina, and sexual performance
    Dr Long’s FXXK Capsules 2-pack for male performance enhancement and stamina support
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    Dr Long’s FXXK Capsules 2’s Boost your performance with Dr Long's FXXK Capsules 2's. These capsules are specially designed to increase energy and s...

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  • Andro Vita Pheromone For Men - 2ml | Dear Desire
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    Andro Vita Pheromone For Men 2ml Ando Vita is a pheromone formula that will enhance your male pheromones and have a magically enchanting effect o...

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  • body-safe, water-based lubricant in a 300ml bottle for long-lasting hydration
    Waterglide Natural Intimate Gel 300ml – water-based lubricant designed for smooth, natural-feeling intimate moisture
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    Waterglide Natural Intimate Gel 300 ml | Lubricant

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    Waterglide Natural Intimate Gel 300 ml Waterglide Natural Intimate Gel is a water-based lubricant designed to provide smooth, natural-feeling moist...

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    Andro Vita Pheromone for Women 2ml Andro Vita is a pheromone formula that will enhance your female pheromones and have a magically enchanting eff...

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  • herbal formula cream for enhancing male size and boosting sexual performance
    Rocky Penis Enlargement Cream – topical male enhancement cream designed to support penis growth and improve erection firmness
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    Rocky Penis Enlargement Cream Enhance sexual performance and maximize pleasure with Rocky Penis Enlargement Cream. BIGGER ! HARDER ! LONGER ! Advan...

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  • body-safe clitoral stimulation cream for increased sensitivity and heightened pleasure
    Moist Her Clitoral Stimulation Cream – topical cream designed to enhance clitoral sensitivity and arousal
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    Moist Her | Clitoral Stimulation Cream For Women 1.5 OZ

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    Moist Her Clitoral Stimulation Cream  Formulated in the USA, this unique and potent blend of 100% natural ingredients delivers a luxuriously decade...

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  • herbal formula aimed at boosting male size and stamina naturally
    Rocky Enlargement Tablets – male enhancement supplement designed to support penis enlargement and improved sexual performance
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    Rocky | Enlargement Tablets 25s

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    Rocky Enlargement Tablets  25s THE ROCKY ENLARGEMENT TABLET IS A MARKET LEADING SUPPLEMENT FOR MEN! Pack contains 25 tablets. 1-2 TABLETS A DAY !...

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  • herbal supplement designed to support male performance and stamina
    Med-E Enlargement capsules – natural male enhancement supplement with 30 capsules per bottle
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    Med-E Enlargement | 30 Capsules

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    Med-E Enlargement Capsules | 30 Capsules Med-E-Enlarge is helpful to men who suffer from diminished sex drive, early ejaculation, weak or short-ter...

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  • Pjur Power Premium Cream - 150ml | Dear Desire
    Pjur Power Premium Cream - 150ml | Dear Desire
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    Pjur Power Premium Cream  150ml Personal lubricant for extra hard sex. This is one of our most effective personal lubricants; also suitable for fis...

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  • Pjur Med Pro-Long Spray - 20ml | Dear Desire
    Pjur Med Pro-Long Spray - 20ml | Dear Desire
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    Pjur Med Pro-Long Spray  20ml Pjur med PRO-LONG spray with oakbark extract for external use on the penis. The active ingredient tannic acid derived...

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  • fast-acting male delay spray in a convenient 20ml bottle
    Pjur Myspray 20ml - intimate delay spray designed to help prolong male performance
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    Pjur myspray 20ml  Pjur myspray is a stimulating intimate spray for women. The active ingredients increase blood circulation in the intimate area a...

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  • fast-acting, body-safe spray to enhance male endurance during intimacy
    Malesation Delay Spray – male desensitizing spray designed to prolong erection and delay ejaculation
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    Malesation Delay Spray  40ml The Malesation Delay Spray has a subtle numbing effect and can delay ejaculation. This unique spray has refreshing pro...

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  • Bathmate Hydromax7 Penis Pump - Clear | Dear Desire
    Bathmate Hydromax7 Penis Pump - Clear | Dear Desire
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    Bathmate Hydromax7 | Penis Pump

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    Bathmate Hydromax7  Colour Clear The Hydromax7 is suitable for users with a current erection length of up to 18cm. The Hydromax7 delivers better, s...

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  • topical male enhancement oil for improved blood flow and temporary enlargement
    BIG D Penis Enlarger Oil – 55ml enhancement oil designed to support size, firmness, and stimulation
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    BIG D | Penis Enlarger Oil 55ml

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    BIG D | Penis Enlarger Oil 55ml A 6-week course formulated to attain maximum masculine qualities Directions: SHAKE BOTTLE BEFORE USE. Massage BIG D...

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  • body-safe, warming water-based gel designed to increase sensitivity and pleasure
    Waterglide Warming 300ml – water-based lubricant with gentle warming effect for enhanced intimate sensation
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    Waterglide Warming 300 ml | Lubricant

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    Waterglide Warming 300 ml  Waterglide Warming Lubricant is a water-based lubricant specially formulated to provide a gentle warming sensation for h...

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    Var. Hot XXL Creme For Men tube on white background, showing bold XXL branding and blue packaging
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    Var. Hot XXL Creme For Men | Penis Enlargement Cream

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    Var. Hot XXL Creme For Men  50ml The XXL penis enlargement cream helps you achieve better and long-lasting erections. You need not think about prem...

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  • Pjur Superhero Spray - 20ml
    Pjur Superhero Spray - 20ml
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    Pjur Superhero Spray | Performance Spray

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    Pjur Superhero Spray  20ml Delay spray for men, without lidocaine or benzocaine! The active ingredients are absorbed by the top layer of skin and c...

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  • topical enlarging cream designed to support blood flow and erection strength
    Mister BIG Enlarging Cream – male enhancement cream for size and firmness support
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    Mister BIG | Enlarging Cream

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    Mister BIG Enlarging Cream This penis enlargement cream is not only a brilliant supplement to a penis enlargement pump but when used on its own for...

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