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Looking for new ways to improve your sex life? Dear Desire stock a range of better sex products. From Penis Pumps to Pheromones to Massage Oils, you are bound to find something to help. 

Dear Desire is an online adult store promoting sexual wellbeing and pleasure while providing discreet premium packaging. Our aim is to fulfil all your intimate desires all while taking the stigma out of self gratification.

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Penis Pumps

A penis pump can be used as a treatment for erectile dysfunction. A penis pump will help you achieve erection and stay hard for longer, helping with better sex. It is important to take precautions when using a penis pump as there is a slight risk or damage or side effects when used incorrectly.  But when used correctly, penis pumps can be a life saver in the bedroom. 

Pheromones

Pheromones can play a role in the way you are perceived by the opposite sex. Pheromones are similar to hormones, except instead of working inside the body, they work outside the body and can have an influence on the behavior of other individuals around you. Use pheromones to attract the attention of your lover and spice things up.

Massage Oils 

Set the mood by surprising your lover with a romantic massage. Light some candles, dim the lights and let the oils slip between bodies as you begin foreplay. 

 

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  • herbal erection booster formulated to support stronger, longer-lasting erections
    Buffel Horing Erection Booster – natural supplement designed to enhance male stamina and erection quality

    Buffel Horing Erection Booster - 15 Caps

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    Buffel Horing 15 caps Buffel-Horing Erection Booster – boost your erection to the next level. In just 40 minutes after taking the recommended dosag...

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  • Rush Poppers 30ml – popular liquid aroma in bold yellow bottle, designed for powerful scent experiences. Not for human consumption.
    Rush 30ml Poppers – strong liquid aroma widely used in European saunas, known for its intense and stimulating scent.

    Rush Poppers - 30ml

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    Rush 30ml Poppers Rush liquid aroma. Extremely popular in European saunas, Rush poppers are a pure and powerful brand that is guaranteed to deliver...

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  • Manscent Poppers 30ml – powerful room aroma used for enhanced experiences; not for human consumption.
    Manscent 30ml Poppers – strong liquid aroma popular in European saunas, known for its intense, stimulating scent.

    Manscent Poppers - 30ml

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    Manscent 30ml Poppers Manscent liquid aroma. Manscent 30ml Poppers are extremely popular in European saunas, Manscent is a pure and powerful brand ...

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  • body-safe erection cream formulated to support stronger, longer-lasting erections
    Rock Solid Erection Cream – topical cream designed to enhance erection firmness and improve sexual performance

    Rock Solid Erection Cream - 1.5 OZ.

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    Rock Solid Erection Cream When you want to ROCK all night long… You gotta use something special. Rock Solid Erection Cream gives you staying power ...

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  • herbal formula to enhance female sexual desire and improve intimacy
    The Pink Pill For Women – natural supplement designed to support female libido and sexual wellness

    The Pink Pill Libido Enhancer - For Women

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    The Pink Pill For Women Revive and ignite your passion! Is intimacy the furthest thing from your mind? Finally, women have access to a sexual vital...

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  • Stud 100 Desensitizing Spray – licensed spray for men that helps manage premature ejaculation by reducing sensitivity.
    Stud 100 Delay Spray – desensitizing spray for men designed to help delay ejaculation by reducing penile sensitivity.

    Stud 100 Delay Spray - 12g

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    Stud 100 Delay Spray  STUD 100 Desensitizing Spray for Men has been licensed in the UK since 1972 and is a licensed topical spray. How it works: It...

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  • Dr Long’s FXXK Capsules designed to support energy, stamina, and sexual performance
    Dr Long’s FXXK Capsules 2-pack for male performance enhancement and stamina support

    Dr Long’s Performance Enhancers - Capsules 2’s

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    Dr Long’s FXXK Capsules 2’s Boost your performance with Dr Long's FXXK Capsules 2's. These capsules are specially designed to increase energy and s...

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  • Andro Vita Pheromone for Men – scent-free formula in 2ml or 30ml size to boost natural male pheromones and increase attraction.
    Andro Vita Pheromone For Men – 2ml or 30ml bottle with male-enhancing pheromones designed to attract and charm women.

    Andro Vita Pheromone For Men - 2ml/30ml

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    Andro Vita Pheromone For Men  Andro Vita Pheromone For Men is a pheromone formula that will enhance your male pheromones and have a magically ench...

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  • Andro Vita 2ml Pheromone for Women – compact bottle with scent-free pheromone formula to attract and enchant the opposite sex.
    Andro Vita Pheromone for Women – 2ml bottle with attraction-enhancing formula designed to subtly boost your natural female pheromones.

    Andro Vita Pheromone for Women - 2ml/30ml

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    Andro Vita Pheromone for Women  Andro Vita Pheromone for Women is a pheromone formula that will enhance your female pheromones and have a magicall...

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  • herbal formula cream for enhancing male size and boosting sexual performance
    Rocky Penis Enlargement Cream – topical male enhancement cream designed to support penis growth and improve erection firmness

    Rocky Penis Enlargement Cream - 50ml

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    Rocky Penis Enlargement Cream Enhance sexual performance and maximize pleasure with Rocky Penis Enlargement Cream. BIGGER ! HARDER ! LONGER ! Advan...

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  • body-safe clitoral stimulation cream for increased sensitivity and heightened pleasure
    Moist Her Clitoral Stimulation Cream – topical cream designed to enhance clitoral sensitivity and arousal

    Moist Her Clitoral Stimulation Cream - For Women 1.5 OZ

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    Moist Her Clitoral Stimulation Cream  Formulated in the USA, this unique and potent blend of 100% natural ingredients delivers a luxuriously decade...

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  • herbal formula aimed at boosting male size and stamina naturally
    Rocky Enlargement Tablets – male enhancement supplement designed to support penis enlargement and improved sexual performance

    Rocky Enlargement Tablets - 25s

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    Rocky Enlargement Tablets  25s THE ROCKY ENLARGEMENT TABLET IS A MARKET LEADING SUPPLEMENT FOR MEN! Pack contains 25 tablets. 1-2 TABLETS A DAY !...

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  • Front view of Pjur Premium Cream jar, a long-lasting silicone and water-based hybrid formula
    Pjur Power Premium Cream in black jar with silver and white label, designed for intense lubrication

    Pjur Premium Lubricant - 150ml

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    Pjur Power Premium Cream  Pjur Power Premium Cream is a personal lubricant for extra hard sex. This is one of our most effective personal lubricant...

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  • Pjur Med Pro-Long Spray with discreet, travel-friendly packaging
    Pjur Med Pro-Long Spray in white bottle with green accents, designed to support longer

    Pjur Delay Spray For Men - 20ml

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    Pjur Med Pro-Long Spray  Pjur med PRO-LONG spray with oakbark extract for external use on the penis. The active ingredient tannic acid derived from...

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  • fast-acting male delay spray in a convenient 20ml bottle
    Pjur Myspray 20ml - intimate delay spray designed to help prolong male performance

    Pjur Stimulation Spray - 20ml

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    Pjur myspray 20ml  Pjur myspray is a stimulating intimate spray for women. The active ingredients increase blood circulation in the intimate area a...

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  • fast-acting, body-safe spray to enhance male endurance during intimacy
    Malesation Delay Spray – male desensitizing spray designed to prolong erection and delay ejaculation

    Malesation Delay Spray - 40ml

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    Malesation Delay Spray  The Malesation Delay Spray has a subtle numbing effect and can delay ejaculation. This unique spray has refreshing properti...

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  • Hydromax7 Penis Pump – clear Bathmate pump designed to improve erection size and strength with safe, effective water pressure.
    Bathmate Hydromax7 Clear – water-based penis pump for erection enhancement, suitable for lengths up to 18cm.

    Bathmate Penis Pump - Hydromax7

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    Bathmate Hydromax7  Colour Clear The Hydromax7 is suitable for users with a current erection length of up to 18cm. The Bathmate Hydromax7 delivers ...

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  • topical male enhancement oil for improved blood flow and temporary enlargement
    BIG D Penis Enlarger Oil – 55ml enhancement oil designed to support size, firmness, and stimulation

    BIG D Penis Enlargement Oil - 55ml

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    BIG D Penis Enlarger Oil 55ml A 6-week course formulated to attain maximum masculine qualities Directions: SHAKE BOTTLE BEFORE USE. Massage BIG D P...

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  • body-safe, warming water-based gel designed to increase sensitivity and pleasure
    Waterglide Warming 300ml – water-based lubricant with gentle warming effect for enhanced intimate sensation

    Waterglide Warming Lubricant - 300ml

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    Waterglide Warming 300 ml  Waterglide Warming Lubricant is a water-based lubricant specially formulated to provide a gentle warming sensation for h...

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  • vegan, fair trade condoms offering a natural feel with reliable contraception
    Fair Squared Ultrathin Condoms – extra-thin, natural rubber latex condoms designed for enhanced sensitivity and protection

    Fair Squared Ultrathin Condoms - 10 pack

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    Fair Squared Ultrathin Condoms 10 pack Fair Squared Ultrathin Condoms are extra thin, smooth, cylindrically shaped made of fairly traded rubber. We...

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  • XXL Creme For Men tube on white background
    Var. Hot XXL Creme For Men tube on white background, showing bold XXL branding and blue packaging

    Var. Hot XXL Penis Enlargement Cream - 50ml

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    Var. Hot XXL Creme For Men  Var. Hot XXL Penis Enlargement Cream helps you achieve better and long-lasting erections. You need not think about prem...

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  • Front view of Spray bottle, designed to support endurance and confidence
    Pjur Superhero Spray performance enhancer in sleek black bottle with yellow accents

    Pjur Super Delay Spray - 20ml

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    Pjur Superhero Spray  The Pjur Superhero is a delay spray for men, without lidocaine or benzocaine! The active ingredients are absorbed by the top ...

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  • Peach-flavored AnalPlease desensitizing cream in small squeeze tube for comfortable anal play
    AnalPlease Desensitizer Cream in peach-flavored variant, compact tube with colorful label

    AnalPlease Desensitizer Cream - Peach Flavor

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    AnalPlease Desensitizer Cream  AnalPlease Desensitizer Cream is a Peach flavored anal de-sensitizing cream. Contains 44.3ml tube

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  • Lai Long Desensitizing Brush for men, designed to help delay climax and enhance control
    Lai Long Desensitizing Delay Brush with soft bristles for easy, targeted application

    Lai Long Desensitizing Delay Brush - 4ml

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    Lai Long Desensitizing Delay Brush for Men 4ml  This Lai Long Desensitizing Delay Brush ointment in a 4ml bottle with internal brush allows for eas...

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