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Dear Desire stock a wide range of male sex toys. Namely: Masturbators, penis sleeves, cock rings, penis pumps and so much more!

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ANAL TOYS

Spice up your sex life with a selection of anal toys. Whether you're looking for a butt plug, anal beads, dildos or douches, we've got you covered.

DILDOS

Immerse yourself in the world of anal play. We offer a range of dildos. Whether you're looking for an ultra realistic, veiny dildo or a simple less intimidating dildo, we're bound to have what you're looking for.

COCK RINGS

Cock rings wrap around the base of your penis to help maintain a harder, bigger boner as well as helping you last longer during sex.

MASTURBATORS

Take solo play to a new level with our range of men's masturbators. Feel new heights of pleasure and climax with our ultra realistic pocket pussies or with our more futuristic hands free masturbators allowing you to relax and let the masturbator take the lead.

Men's Underwear

Want to feel masculine and sexy? Why not explore your kinky side with a open back jock strap or a skimpy micro v-string.

 

  • Malesation Silicone Cock Ring Set – beginner-friendly set of three flexible, classic cock rings for erection support and control.
    Malesation Cock Ring Beginner Set – three body-safe silicone rings in different sizes for enhanced performance and prolonged pleasure.
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    Malesation Cock Ring Beginner Set - 3 Pack

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    Malesation Cock Ring Beginner Set The Malesation Cock Ring Beginner Set is perfect for those new to enhancing performance and sensation. Made from...

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  • Front view of Malesation Vibro Pleasure packaging, designed for couples with powerful vibrating motor
    Malesation Vibro Pleasure vibrating penis ring in sleek black silicone with removable bullet vibrator
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    Malesation Vibrating Penis Ring - Waterproof

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    Malesation Vibro Pleasure Malesation Vibro Pleasure is a penis/testicle ring with an innovative and ergonomic design. The penis and testicles are f...

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  • Malesation Masturbation Cup – realistic vagina sleeve with stimulating nubs, easy-grip case, and option to add a vibrating bullet.
    Malesation Pleasure Masturbation Cup – handheld flesh-coloured male toy with internal textured tunnel and bullet-compatible design.
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    Malesation Masturbation Cup - Flesh Colour

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    Malesation Pleasure Masturbation Cup  The Malesation Pleasure Masturbation Cup has a modern design masturbator that is easy to hold and easy to use...

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  • stretchy, body-safe silicone ring with powerful vibrations for shared pleasure and longer-lasting play.
    Fifty Shades Feel It Baby – vibrating silicone cock ring designed to enhance pleasure for both partners during intimacy.
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    Fifty Shades Vibrating Cock Ring - Silicone

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    Fifty Shades Feel It Baby  Designed for longer-lasting fun that takes both partners all the way, the Fifty Shades Feel It Baby cock ring is made f...

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  • Set of three Oxballs cock rings in soft, body-safe silicone with smooth, rounded edges
    Oxballs Willy Ring 3 Pack featuring three stretchy silicone rings in varying sizes for customized fit and support
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    Oxballs Cock Ring Set - Set of 3 Super Stretch

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    Oxballs Willy Ring 3 Pack  Colour Black Oxballs WILLY RING 3-Pack super stretch cock ring, use them single, or stacked or layered. Use one for a bl...

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  • SC Lidl Extra Sleeve – transparent silicone penis extender with front stimulation knobs, 19cm long for intensified pleasure.
    SC Lidl Extra Penis Extension Sleeve – clear 19cm silicone sleeve with textured knobs for enhanced stimulation and added length.
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    SC Lidl Extension Sleeve - 19cm Clear

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    SC Lidl Extra Penis Extension Sleeve The SC Lidl Extra Penis Extension Sleeve is designed to enhance both sensation and size. Made from clear, body...

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  • Close-up of Stoya Destroya’s intense inner texture with 360° pleasure dome, rings, and fangs for maximum stimulation.
    Stoya Destroya Fleshlight held in hand to show realistic size and ergonomic casing for easy solo play.
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    Fleshlight Girls Masturbator - Stoya Destroya

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    Fleshlight Stoya Destroya Fleshlight Stoya Destroya is an ultra-realistic representation based on Stoya herself, this Fleshlight features a tight o...

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  • Set of three Oxballs cock rings in soft, body-safe silicone with smooth, rounded edges
    Oxballs Willy Ring 3 Pack featuring three stretchy silicone rings in varying sizes for customized fit and support
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    Oxballs Cock Ring Set - 3 Pack Super Stretch

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    Oxballs Willy Ring 3 Pack  Colour Clear Oxballs WILLY RING 3 Pack super stretch cock ring, use them single, or stacked or layered. Use one for a bl...

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  • Riley Reid Quickshot – clear Fleshlight sleeve with dual openings and realistic textures for solo or partner play.
    Fleshlight Quickshot Riley Reid – compact masturbator with open ends, molded from Riley Reid’s vagina and butt for intense visual and physical pleasure.
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    Fleshlight Masturbator - Riley Reid Quickshot

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    Fleshlight Quickshot Riley Reid Watch yourself go straight through Riley's Quickshot. The Fleshlight Quickshot Riley Reid features unobstructed ex...

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  • Set of three Oxballs Ringer cock rings in smooth black silicone, designed for snug and comfortable fit
    Oxballs Ringer 3 Pack Cock Ring Set with three stretchy, round rings made from soft, body-safe silicone
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    Oxballs Cock Ring Set - Super Stretch 3 Pack

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    Oxballs Ringer 3 Pack Cock Ring Set  Colour Black Oxballs RINGER 3 pack - a multipack of thick cock rings that grip for a heftier package. Tight en...

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  • body-safe silicone ring for improved stamina and erection support
    Adrien Lastic Devol – flexible silicone cock ring designed to enhance erection and prolong performance
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    Adrien Lastic Cock Ring - Battery Operated

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    The Adrien Lastic Devol Cockring Adrien Lastic Devol Cockring is an ideal accessory to give your partner pleasure in the bedroom. This multi-functi...

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  • Set of Malesation cock rings made from flexible, body-safe silicone designed for snug and comfortable support
    Malesation Stretchy Cock Rings set with three soft silicone rings in varying sizes for customizable fit
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    Malesation Cock Rings - 3 Pack Stretch

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    Malesation Stretchy Cock Rings The Malesation Stretchy Cock Rings set includes three flexible, body-safe silicone rings in varying sizes—perfect fo...

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  • Autumn Falls Fleshlight featuring lifelike vaginal entry and signature textured sleeve
    Fleshlight Girls Autumn Falls masturbator with pearlescent case and realistic vaginal orifice
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    Fleshlight Girls Masturbator - Autumn Falls

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    Fleshlight Girls Autumn Falls Fleshlight Girls Autumn Falls is everything you'd expect from this Puerto Rican porn star sensation. With a variety ...

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  • Close-up of Wooomy Squeeezy male masturbator showing ribbed interior and ergonomic grip
    Wooomy Squeeezy Masturbator with soft, squeezable exterior and textured inner sleeve
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    Wooomy Realistic Masturbator - Flexible

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    Wooomy Squeeezy Masturbator Vagina The Wooomy Squeeezy Masturbator is a compact, squeezable stroker designed for customizable pleasure and lifelike...

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  • Tenga Original Vacuum Cup in signature packaging, designed for male pleasure
    Tenga Original Vacuum Cup masturbator with red and white striped design, upright on white background
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    Tenga Masturbator Cup - Disposable

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    Tenga Original Vacuum Cup The ultimate suction experience. Featuring a special valve structure, Tenga Original Vacuum CUP delivers amazing suction ...

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  • Close-up of Wooomy Jeeez male masturbator showing ergonomic grip and detailed interior
    Wooomy Jeeez Masturbator with soft, textured sleeve for intense, lifelike stimulation
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    Wooomy Realistic Masturbator - Flexible

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    Wooomy Jeeez Masturbator Vagina The Wooomy Jeeez Masturbator is a sleek, high-sensation stroker designed to deliver intense, lifelike pleasure. Cra...

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  • Elsa Jean Tasty Fleshlight featuring lifelike entry and signature textured inner sleeve
    Fleshlight Girls Elsa Jean Tasty masturbator with pearlescent case and realistic vaginal orifice
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    Fleshlight Girls Masturbator - Elsa Jean

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    Fleshlight Girls Elsa Jean Tasty Fleshlight Girls Elsa Jean Tasty offers a unique and superior texture that combines knobs, twists, and ridges to ...

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  • Fleshlight Flight Pilot – sleek black masturbator with an aerodynamic design, perfect for discreet storage and on-the-go pleasure.
    Fleshlight Flight Pilot Masturbator in Black – compact, discreet, and travel-friendly male toy with intense internal textures.
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    Fleshlight Masturbator - Flight Pilot

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    Fleshlight Flight Pilot Masturbator Fleshlight has taken its #1 selling male sex toy and made it even better. The Fleshlight Flight Pilot Masturbat...

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  • Mia Malkova Boss Level Fleshlight with case open, revealing realistic anal sleeve molded from her body.
    Fleshlight Girls Mia Malkova Boss Level – anal sleeve molded from Mia’s body with textured interior and realistic SuperSkin material.
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    Fleshlight Girls Anal Masturbator - Mia Malkova Boss Level

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    Fleshlight Girls Mia Malkova Boss Level This is a high Quality Masturbating Device that is an Exact Replica of celebrity Mia Malkova's butt. Every...

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  • Fleshlight Masturbator Shower Mount – adjustable suction mount for hands-free solo play in the shower.
    Fleshlight Shower Mount – suction-based mount for hands-free Fleshlight use, attaches securely to smooth shower surfaces.
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    Fleshlight Masturbator Shower Mount - Suction Cup

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    Fleshlight Masturbator Shower Mount Fleshlight Masturbator Shower Mount is suction-based, adjustable attachment securely adheres a Fleshlight produ...

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  • body-safe, detailed male pleasure device inspired by Mia Malkova
    Fleshlight Girls Mia Malkova – realistic male masturbator modeled after adult star Mia Malkova
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    Fleshlight Girls Masturbator - Mia Malkova

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    Fleshlight Girls Mia Malkova Lvl Up Fleshlight Girls Mia Malkova Lvl Up is a high Quality Masturbating Device that is an Exact Replica of celebrit...

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  • Set of three Malesation Diamond Cock Rings designed for a snug, comfortable fit and enhanced performance
    Malesation Diamond Set Cock Rings in three different sizes with smooth, body-safe silicone finish
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    Malesation Cock Rings - 3 Pack Diamond Stretch

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    Malesation Diamond Set Cock Rings The Malesation Diamond Set Cock Rings includes three stretchy, body-safe silicone rings in different sizes—perfec...

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  • Sleeve Warmer – enhances pleasure by heating sleeves to a realistic, sensual temperature.
    Fleshlight Sleeve Warmer – warms your SuperSkin sleeve to body temperature for a lifelike, heated pleasure experience.
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    Fleshlight Sleeve Warmer - USB Rechargeable

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    Fleshlight Masturbator Sleeve Warmer Fleshlight has made its #1 selling male sex toys even hotter literally! The Fleshlight Masturbator Sleeve Warm...

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  • Unboxed Lovense Max 2 with charging cable, quick start guide, and discreet design
    Lovense Max 2 male masturbator with realistic sleeve and app-controlled vibrations
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    Lovense Max 2 Masturbator Sleeve - App-Controlled

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    Lovense Max 2 - Neutral Sleeve Lovense Max 2 now boasts a gender-neutral sleeve, 360-degree contractions, and a redesigned vibrator to deliver stro...

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