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Lubricants are always a good addition to sex. Whether its for solo pleasure, partnered sex or to use alongside your sex toy. Knowing what lube to use is always important. Water-based lubes always work best with silicone sex toys.

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Water-based Lubricants

Water-based lubricants serve the purpose of reducing friction by trying to mimic the bodies natural fluid. Water-based lubricants are best suited for silicone based toys. Water-based lubricants are also best for people with sensitive skin and are easy to clean up.

Silicone-based Lubricants

The biggest upside of silicone-based lubricants is that it is super slippery and long lasting. Silicone-based lubricants are great for shower sex and don't need to be reapplied as frequently. Silicone-based lubricants should not be used with silicone-based sex toys, as they can break down the rubber over time.

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  • gentle, water-based intimate gel designed for long-lasting hydration and comfort
    Assegai Original Water-Based Lubricant 125ml – body-safe, natural-feeling water-based lubricant for smooth intimate moisture
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    Assegai Original Lubricant - Water Based 125ml

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    Assegai Original Assegai Personal Lubricant Original 125ml provides long-lasting personal lubrication that has been specially formulated to enhance...

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  • body-safe water-based lubricant featuring a refreshing tropical aroma and long-lasting hydration
    Assegai Tropical Lubricant 125ml – water-based lubricant with tropical fruit scent for smooth, natural-feeling intimate moisture
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    Assegai Tropical Lubricant - Water Based 125ml

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    Assegai Tropical Assegai Tropical Personal Lubricant Original 125ml provides long-lasting personal lubrication that has been specially formulated t...

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  • Pjur Aqua 100ml water-based lubricant in a sleek black bottle with blue and white label.
    Pjur Aqua 100ml water-based lubricant in a sleek black bottle with blue and white label.
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    Pjur Water-based Lubricant - 100ml

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    Pjur Aqua Water-based Lubricant Pjur Aqua Water-based Lubricant for penile and/or vaginal application, intended to moisturize and lubricate, enhanc...

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  • Fleshlube Water-Based Lube – silky, medical-grade lubricant by Fleshlight for enhanced solo or partnered pleasure.
    Fleshlight Fleshlube – premium water-based lubricant designed for Fleshlight toys or partner play, smooth and body-safe.
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    Fleshlube Water-based Lubricant - 100ml

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    Fleshlight Fleshlube  This premium water-based Fleshlube Water lubricant is the perfect complement to sexual activities. Whether its with a Fleshl...

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  • Pjur Original Silicone Lubricant 100ml – premium long-lasting personal lubricant in sleek black bottle
    Pjur Original Silicone Lubricant 100ml – premium long-lasting personal lubricant in sleek black bottle
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    Pjur Silicone lubricant - 100ml

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    Pjur Original Silicone Lubricant This premium formula is an exceptional personal lubricant and a massage gel. The silicone molecules remain on the ...

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  • JoyDivision Aquaglide 200ml water-based lubricant in a clear bottle, designed for long-lasting moisture and body-safe comfort.
    JoyDivision Aquaglide 200ml water-based lubricant in a clear bottle, designed for long-lasting moisture and body-safe comfort.
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    JoyDivision Water-based Lubricant - 200ml

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    JoyDivision Aquaglide Immerse into an overwhelming feeling during love play: The crystal-clear original JoyDivision Aquaglide is a medical lubrican...

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  • Malesation Water-based Lubricant 50ml – front view of the bottle on white background
    Malesation Water-based Lubricant 50ml – front view of the bottle on white background
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    Malesation Water-based Lubricant - 50ml

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    Malesation Water-based Lubricant Malesation water-based lubricant is a dermatologically approved, long lasting lubricant that is free from smell an...

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  • JoyDivision Aquaglide 50ml water-based lubricant in a clear bottle, designed for long-lasting moisture and body-safe comfort.
    JoyDivision Aquaglide 50ml water-based lubricant in a clear bottle, designed for long-lasting moisture and body-safe comfort.
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    JoyDivision Water-based Lubricant - 50ml

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    JoyDivision Aquaglide  Immerse into an overwhelming feeling during love play: The crystal-clear original JoyDivision Aquaglide is a medical lubrica...

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  • artisanal dark chocolate crafted for a rich, indulgent taste experience
    Assegai Chocolate – rich, premium chocolate bar with smooth texture and intense cocoa flavor
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    Assegai Chocolate Lubricant - Water Based 125ml

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    Assegai Chocolate Assegai Chocolate Personal Lubricant Original 125ml provides long-lasting personal lubrication that has been specially formulated...

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  • Malesation Silicone Lubricant bottle styled among massage candles and towels, suggesting a sensual experience.
    50ml Malesation Silicone Lubricant in a sleek black bottle with red logo, standing upright on a neutral background.
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    Malesation Silicone Lubricant - 50ml

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    Malesation Silicone Lubricant Malesation Silicone Lubricant is an exceptionally long prolonged lubricant on silicone base, free from smell and tast...

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  • Pjur Woman Silicone Lubricant 100ml – long-lasting, silky smooth personal lube for women
    Pjur Woman Silicone Lubricant 100ml – long-lasting, silky smooth personal lube for women
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    PJUR Silicone Lubricant - Woman 100ml

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    PJUR Woman Personal Silicone Lubricant PJUR Woman Personal Silicone Lubricant is specifically designed to help you feel great and intensify sensati...

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  • Pjur BACK DOOR Silicone-Based Lubricant 100ml – front view of the bottle featuring the black label and product name in bold white text.
    Pjur BACK DOOR Silicone-Based Lubricant 100ml – front view of the bottle featuring the black label and product name in bold white text.
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    Pjur Silicone Based Lubricant - 100ml Anal

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    Pjur BACK DOOR Silicone-Based Lubricant  Pjur BACK DOOR Silicone-Based Lubricant is specially formulated for anal sex. The natural jojoba in this p...

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  • Pjur Woman Aqua water-based lubricant 100ml bottle – premium moisturizing formula for sensitive skin.
    Pjur Woman Aqua water-based lubricant 100ml bottle – premium moisturizing formula for sensitive skin.
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    Pjur Water-based lubricant - 100ml Woman

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    Pjur Woman Water-Based Lubricant  Pjur Woman Water-Based Lubricant premium personal lubricant was developed specifically to nourish and moisturize ...

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  • body-safe water-based lubricant with cooling spearmint flavor and long-lasting hydration
    Assegai Spearmint Lubricant 125ml – refreshing spearmint-scented water-based lubricant for smooth, natural-feeling intimate moisture
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    Assegai Spearmint Lubricant - Water Based 125ml

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    Assegai Spearmint Assegai Spearmint Personal Lubricant Original 125ml provides long-lasting personal lubrication that has been specially formulated...

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  • Pjur Med Sensitive Glide 100ml water-based lubricant bottle, dermatologically tested and preservative-free for sensitive skin.
    Pjur Med Sensitive Glide 100ml water-based lubricant bottle, dermatologically tested and preservative-free for sensitive skin.
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    Pjur Water-Based Lubricant - Sensitive

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    Pjur Med Sensitive Glide Lubricant  Pjur Med Sensitive Glide Lubricant is made without glycerin, parabens or preservatives for those who have sensi...

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  • Pjur Aqua 30ml water-based lubricant in a sleek black bottle with blue and white label.
    Pjur Aqua 30ml water-based lubricant in a sleek black bottle with blue and white label.
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    Pjur Water-based Lubricant - 30ml

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    Pjur Aqua Water-based Lubricant  Pjur Aqua Water-based Lubricant for penile and/or vaginal application, intended to moisturize and lubricate, enhan...

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  • Front view of Pjur Premium Cream jar, a long-lasting silicone and water-based hybrid formula
    Pjur Power Premium Cream in black jar with silver and white label, designed for intense lubrication
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    Pjur Premium Lubricant - 150ml

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    Pjur Power Premium Cream  Pjur Power Premium Cream is a personal lubricant for extra hard sex. This is one of our most effective personal lubricant...

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  • Aquaglide Strawberry water-based lube by JoyDivision, in a squeezable tube with fruity design
    JoyDivision Aquaglide Strawberry lubricant in clear tube with red accents and strawberry imagery
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    JoyDivision Water-based Lubricant - Strawberry 100ml

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    JoyDivision Aquaglide Strawberry 100ml Pleasant in taste and beguiling in fragrance. An exciting connection that invites you to hours of passion. E...

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  • Aquaglide Cherry water-based lubricant by JoyDivision featuring fruity design and flip-top cap
    JoyDivision Aquaglide Cherry lubricant in a clear tube with red accents and cherry-themed label
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    JoyDivision Water-based Lubricant - Cherry 100ml

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    JoyDivision Aquaglide Cherry 100ml Pleasant in taste and beguiling in fragrance. An exciting connection that invites hours of passion. Even a small...

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  • Lelo Water-Based Moisturizer – dual-use formula in a sleek 75ml bottle, ideal for intimate play or soft, nourished skin.
    Lelo Personal Moisturizer – 75ml water-based formula for intimate use or daily hydration, safe for toys and skin.
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    Lelo Personal Moisturizer - 75ml Water-Based

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    Lelo Personal Water-based Moisturizer 75ml Lelo Personal Water-based Moisturizer is a dual-purpose, water-based moisturizer and perfect for use wi...

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  • assegai cherry lubricant
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    Assegai Cherry Personal Lubricant 125ml

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    Assegai Cherry Assegai Cherry Personal Lubricant Original 125ml provides long-lasting personal lubrication that has been specially formulated to en...

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  • body-safe, warming water-based gel designed to increase sensitivity and pleasure
    Waterglide Warming 300ml – water-based lubricant with gentle warming effect for enhanced intimate sensation
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    Waterglide Warming Lubricant - 300ml

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    Waterglide Warming 300 ml  Waterglide Warming Lubricant is a water-based lubricant specially formulated to provide a gentle warming sensation for h...

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  • Front view of Pjur Med Natural Glide, a water-based lubricant made with natural ingredients for sensitive skin
    Pjur Med Natural Glide personal lubricant in white bottle with green label, designed for gentle, natural moisture
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    Pjur Med Water-based Lubricant - Nature-Based Formula

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    Pjur Med Natural Glide  100ml Pjur med NATURAL glide is specifically formulated for dry skin. The natural and nature-based formula with pure vegeta...

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  • 100ml bottle of Pjur analyse me! Water-based Personal Lubricant with yellow and grey label
    100ml bottle of Pjur analyse me! Water-based Personal Lubricant with yellow and grey label
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    Pjur Water-based lubricant - 100ml Anal

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    Pjur analyse me! Water-based Personal Lubricant Pjur analyse me! Water-based Personal Lubricant for anal sex. Enriched with hyaluron that moisturiz...

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